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not just a teenage crush. :(
i need help,
i cant get over him. i know im only 13 & most relationships dont last at age 13, but theres something about him. hes not extremly hot or anything, but his personality is perfect. He can make me laugh for hours, and when i talk to him, i cant help but smile. But he's in a relationship. god, i dont want to start drama and please dont tell me to just drop it, but they are both 13 too, do you think it will last? i mean, idk. hes sorta shy with like making a move on a girl, like last year i held hands with him, but this year his gf & him are pretty close...well all they do is hug. but shes like i want to kiss him, and i know this is so mean & selfish, but them kissing will just bring them closer together....but i sorta think he has a thing for me. idk why, i can just tell....
help me :]
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Well think about it this way, if you were in a relationship with him and you were his girlfriend I'm sure you wouldn't want any girl to hit on him or you'd HATE hearing the thought of another girl wanting/trying to break yall up, so what a girl would do is fight for him, hold onto him tighter. Any girl acknowledges another girl liking her man, gets intimated, she WILL fight for him. Maybe not physically fight with you, but she will be willing to SHOW it to you that HE belongs to HER and thats her man. ANY girl would do that, EVEN you. People deserve to be happy if they're in a good relationship. You deserve to be happy too but not in trying/wishing them to break up. If he did like you like you said, I'm sure he would be with you.But even if he was shy, he may have not been shy at all in making this girl his girlfriend. You said he he held hands with you last yr., well that was his chance for him to make a move on you, and I'm sure you've given him plenty of chances, and he sure didn't jump to it.You may not want to hear this, but he should've made the move when he had the chance you gave him while he was single. And well if he DOES like you, he will break up with her and be with you, but don't let him just straddle you along while he STILL has a girlfriend , hes just leading you on and being selfish/cheater. Its up to him to make a move on you, just NOT when he's in a relationship. If he cheated on his g/f before & then dated you he'd probably cheat on you, so be careful. Be patient there is other guys who are like him maybe even better than him it just takes time. ONLY TIME WILL TELL. Hope I helped.
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Awww.
Look hun this must be realy hard on you but for a minute Think of if you were the girlfriend.
I mean lets say they do breakup,And you make a move on him and it does work out,but theres a girl that is trying to move up on him like you want to rite now.I know the feeling,Its horrible if the girl was playing him,or was messing around with other guys,Id tell you to go for it and that he desevers better.But if their fine and happy let them be.Let him be happy with her,Dont reuin the relationship because of how you feel no matter how much it hurts if you realy like him sacrafice it for his happines..Dont worry there is better to come to you,Maybe he isnt the right person and im sure you dont want to hear that but you should wait on for someone who runs to you,Not you to them.
Take care hun.
Bye
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