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what is his problem?
Okay so I had oral sex with this guy and I guess he liked me a little bit. I dont know. But he'll talk to me sometimes and then other times he just ignores me. I mind you he is really shy. Like he'll talk to me but when we were having oral he seemed like i dont know nervous. He's 2 years older than me so I dont know why he was so shy ans stuff. Now he talks to me like he likes me and then he'll act like im some sort of freak. He calls me some stupid name thats not insulting its just something he likes to call me. I dont know if he wants some sex or he really likes me. I've never had sex before. So yeah I'm a virgin. But he really pisses me off. Why does he do that? I want to ask him but he's so confusing he may never talk to me again. I'm just sick of him.
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Well in my opinion, he's playing it off. And he isn't shy or else he wouldn't have asked you for some oral sex. This is the cold hard truth, older guys go for the younger girls cause they think most of them give it up easier. But if you would've resisted it, you could've proved him wrong.
REALITY: This guy doesn't want a regulaer relationship with you. He sees it as what we'd like to call it "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS". To others he'll call you a friend and you're giving him what he wants, pleasure. And he'll ONLY call you or talks to you when he "WANTS/NEEDS" you. And he'll only make time with you on HIS time, NOT your time (he doesn't care), if you can't be there,most likely he'll find somebody else.
And by the way I see it, ask him where do you think we're going. OR just talk about RELATIONSHIPS in general he SHOULD give you the HONEST answer, MOST guys are pretty honest and straight-foward about things. See what he says, most likely you'll find he's a jerk-off. I could be wrong about him, (if I am please forgive me) but thats the way I see him and ESP. if he knows you're a VIRGIN, he may pressure to have sex with him even when your note ready. You need and deserve a guy who values you, and values your time, & respects you. Trust me, he'll come. Hope I helped, and sorry so long. :)
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He probably just wants sex. If you have oral sex with someone and don't even
know if they like you or not thats what you can expect. A relationship
where you give and he takes. Nothing romantic in
between.
He isn't being shy, hes keeping you on the string
for when he wants it again. Dump him and approach
your next relationship differently.
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I get what you're saying when you say that he is confusing believe me sometimes they can confuse you.Ask him if he does want to have intimacy with you,he shouldn't get mad it's just a question of boyfriend,girlfriend but, if his answer is yes then you'll know that was the problem.Or if that's not it then don't go to the conclusion right away that it could be that he doesn't like you the other reason could be that he is probably having problems that you aren't aware of or he's just as confused as you are.Try not to get frustrated.
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Okay, If its bothering you this much then you just need to ask him and get it out in the open. He shouldn't be treating you like your weird if he really does like you. I would say just confornt him about it...be a bitch if you need too, sometimes you have to be mean to get to the point...If he likes you then he will talk to you again and if he doesn't then thats his loss, you don't need him anyways.
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