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I'm a photography major at a community college. I love music, fashion, art, my friends, books, films, theatre...and vampires. Ask me anything. I especially like questions about my opinions on something and questions that aren't even asking for advice.

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how can you get rid of scars, scratches, and bruises on your legs? thankss.

Cocoa butter, Neosporin or this product my mom showed me called Mederma.

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Why don't most girls like it when guys say that they are hot. Isn't that a compliment? What's the big deal?

Some girls would rather be called beautiful. Or if they don't like the guy at all then they might freak out about it. I took it as a compliment when my boyfriend called me hot but I was happier when he said I was beautiful or something a little deeper.

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so my school just recently got a pool and a swim team. I joined the swim team beacuse i thought it would be a good work out.

i was just wondering if there are any of peices of equipment i might need, could use...besides the obvious swimsuit, cap and goggles?

Suit, cap, goggles, hair ties, hairbrush and shampoo, towel, flip flops, water bottle, and inhaler if you have one. By the way, if you get a latex cap, put baby powder in it to keep it from drying out and to make it easier to put on. Good luck this season!!

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite awhile now hes going to the army and ina few days hes leaving for three months i dont know what to do im gunna be devasted any help?

Well, if it makes you feel any better, my boyfriend is leaving for 9 months to Africa. Well, does it? Anyway, keep yourself really really busy and spend a lot of time with your friends and family. Work towards your own goals and keep in touch with him. Everything will be fine, I'm sure it will. If you need someone to talk to then IM me kkkermiiit.

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Okay, I know this is an odd question, but what does everybody think of Avil Lagvine? What happened to her after her second album? And is it just me or did she become a big poser?

Thanks.

I always kind of thought she was a poser but I like her music because it always makes you feel better, as lame as that sounds...hahaha.

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hI,I have a question. The thing is I really want to become a Goth. Only I have failed all my GCSEs in school. i only got a few G grades (apart from getting a C in English)
The thing I need to ask is: don't you have to be quite clever to be a Goth. They write poetry and draw/paint but I don't have a clue about any of these things so couldn't do them. Can I still become a Goth? If so how would I go about it?Or do you DEFINATELY have to write poetry/paint to be a Goth? Am i too thick? Will my lack of eduaction pose problems if I'm going to become a Goth?
Also I AM PANICKING SEVERELY OVER MY FUTURE/OPTIONS/EDUCATION but for a time I was thinking about working with horses. ONLY THINKING!!! i wanted to explore all my options.

was thinking of going to college to do Equine(horse) studies so that I could eventually get a Job with horses. Could I still be a Goth if I did this? If so then how? I haven't seen many Goths around stable yards.should I just be a Goth In my spare time?
Also I might not work with horses I might choose to do something else. What types of Jobs do/can Goths get? And would employers be put off employing them because they're Goths?
Can you provide me with any answers. PLEASE HELP!!!! I'm sorry if this is a really strange question by the way!!!!
I live in England by the way.


"Goth" is a label. A label for people that are so pseudo-intellectually depressed about their sad little upper-middle class lives that they dress ridiculously to get attention. Don't get me wrong, everyone should dress however they feel like. But they claim to be free and non-conforming unique spirits when, in reality, they're just conforming to their own standards. With their fashion, personalities, likes and dislikes. Just be yourself. Labels are for soup cans.

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Dude, alright i live in missouri and I went to a walgreens to purchase some condoms and i am 15. so i was at the check out and the lady said "i'm not going to sell these to you" and i said "uhm lady why not?" and she said "you are too young to be having sex and im not gunna sell these to you" then she put it in the bag to be put back on the shelf...so yah is that legal? (she lectured me for about a 1/2 hr on the subject so please dont lecture me as well

p.s. i rate for good answers

There is no legal age limit on buying condoms so that lady's refusal to let you purchase them was unlawful. It's not her responsibility to keep random people abstinent. Stupid woman.

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hi, well im not a politics type of guy, so i dont know why george bush and tony blair are hated so much. what have they done thats so bad?

I don't know...but I do know that if you google the word "failure" the first link that it gives you might make you understand.

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hey i was wondering if this would be a good outfit for the first day of school.

this shirt : http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=463&itemID=45945&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

this skirt : http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&navroot=womens&productId=0315_1725

& these shoes : http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls/Etnies&id=28596


thanks xo

Definitely adorable. You could even wear black leggings. And maybe a white headband to tie it all together.

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I had my boyfriend over one day. We were watching a movie. And I can't stay still during a movie... that's not of my interest.

And besides that, my dad suddenly got into a discussion with him about speakers.

And it seemed like they're rather talk alone... So I left the room for a few minutes to go on the computer.

Later, I found out that offended my boyfriend. He wanted to hold me and when I suddenly left to go on the computer. He somewhat felt the computer was more important than him.

What I did ... was that really rude?
I apologized, but I don't know...
What else could I do?

He means everything to me.

That was really rude. Even if he's having a conversation with your dad, he came over to see you...so don't leave the room to go on the computer. Stupid move.

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I was never baptized but now I am looking into it. However I do not want to be baptized infront of the entire church during sunday mass. Is that out of the question?

The whole entire point of baptism is to be a public announcement of your faith. If you want to be baptised privately, it defeats the purpose of baptism.

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hey
i am 15 and he is 16.. should we have sex??
we really love each other and we think its time.. plus.. how do you have sex? we don't know how..

I noticed you rated everyone a 1. Well, you shouldn't even ask a question like that to begin with. If you don't know how, you're clearly not ready to. We all said that. And everyone was just voicing their opinions. And why trust the question of losing your virginity to random people you don't know on the internet?

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I'm currently in a relationship. And i think i'm in love... But how can i tell? What the signs that a girl's in love?

You just...know. Really, that's what happens.

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my right foot is ugly, like its always dry and scaley and stuff and i put lotion on it and stuff, then my left foot is like perfect, is there anyone else who has this problem? what can i do? i call them my women and men feet. haha

My right foot is ugly too!!!! High-five for ugly-right-footed-ness!!! Seriously. You and me, we're amazing. Anyway, my mom told me that it's normal for your feet to look different, slighty or a lot. One could even be a little bigger than the other. So don't worry about it.

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what is the best program for downloading music?

Stay away from Warez...it slows your computer down really bad, doesn't filter viruses and everything takes FOREVER to download. I'd suggest Limewire.

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I wasn't sure what catagory to put this under. My 8 year old daughter has gotten bubble gum stuck in her beautiful long hair. What can we do to get it out without having to cut any of her pretty locks? Thanks!

Peanut Butter!!!

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I know this question might come up a lot but I can't find answers that can help me out so I'm sorry.

Anyways, this Saturday I'm having a surpise party for my friend John. I'm having about 20 people over and I have no idea what to do!? We're in highschool so we porobablly wouldn't want to play board games and such. I don't have a pool or trampoline.

Any ideas.. fun things. My friends can get bored easily and it's only going to be for at least 3 hours.

Thank you so much for any help.

Go on a scavenger hunt or something random like that.

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okay, well im 14 years old, turning 15 in a month. i've been with my boyfriend now for a little more than 11 months. and me and my friends were in my town the other night, and we saw these 3 really hot kids and we gave them our numbers. and they called us and we hung out that night. then the next day all my girl friends, and all the guys we met went to the movies. im going into 9th grade, and the guys we met are going into 11th. one of the guys likes me, and i think about him alot, and im scared im starting to like him too. he told me he likes me and he asked if he should like stick around. i mean idk what to do. its not fair to my boyfriend. so please please please help me!

Never leave the one you love for the one you like.

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Okay, so for school over the summer we had to read a book. This book is extremely boring and I lose interest in it fast. There is alot of big words and its like "how do i read this?" Well i start school tuesday. theres 319 pages and im on like page 140. I dont know if there anything to motivate me or help or what. But I dont know what to do!

Yeah I'm kind of in the same situation. I'm homeschooled and I just found out I was supposed to have 50 pages of one book read and questions about the text answered, 50 pages of a different book read and questions about the text answered, another book that was about 45 pages read and highlighted, Another book that has about 60 pages read and highlighted and questions about the text answered, and a short story read with questions to answer. I would suggest finding somewhere quiet with minimal or no distractions. Listen to music while you read, it makes it feel like time goes by faster. Drink coffee to stay awake and take a break every few hours or so so you don't get ancy.

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i was just wondering. why do wifes give in or obay thier husbands. i know some girls say they don't but iv'e noticed that they do.

i've just noticed that my mom and sister normally give in to their husbands wants or wishes like when my stepdad wants somthing he gets it but when i want somthing i dont or she'll make food for him but not for me or somtimes she excuses his bad behavoirs and dosnt excuse mine. ive also noticed both my mom and sister give in to thier fights and let thier husbands win just so there wont be a big fight even though they know there right and i just wanna know why. what makes them do that? how come they say they wont but then do? could someone please help

thanks

Because it's Biblical that the father is the head of the household. God rules over the father and the fater rules over his wife and children. I know it sounds sexist but it's just historically correct, as Eve was made out of Adam's rib. They are equal as people but in a family, the father is in charge.

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