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what do i do?
okay, well im 14 years old, turning 15 in a month. i've been with my boyfriend now for a little more than 11 months. and me and my friends were in my town the other night, and we saw these 3 really hot kids and we gave them our numbers. and they called us and we hung out that night. then the next day all my girl friends, and all the guys we met went to the movies. im going into 9th grade, and the guys we met are going into 11th. one of the guys likes me, and i think about him alot, and im scared im starting to like him too. he told me he likes me and he asked if he should like stick around. i mean idk what to do. its not fair to my boyfriend. so please please please help me!
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Well, all I know is don't go cheating around on your boyfriend or anything. If you think just thinking of another guy isn't fair, cheating on him isn't definetly not fair at all. But, if you really think you like this guy, wait and see what happens ( not like, kissing happens emotional-wise ). If you find your feelings are developing further, I'd take a look back at your 11-month relationship. That's a really long time, and you've probably had alot of fun, and you KNOW he likes you. Is this new guy really worth it? Can you imagine yourselves having a better relationship then the one you're in now? Do you see something in this guy, your boyfriend doesn't have? If you think there is with all these questions, try and give the guy a chance if you really want to, because it sounds like you're liking him more than your current boyfriend. You just have to think really carefully who you can see yourself being more comfortable with, more fun times, etc. Maybe even try making a pro/con list between the two. But, you're also only 14. You're going to get guys, lose guys, break guys heart, be single for awhile, date forever. You need to experience stuff, live life, have fun. So see how you feel emotionally with this guy, and if you start to like him more and more, then I suggest you break up with your boyfriend. I hope I helped. <3
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Im not gunna sit here and tell you what to do .. but alls im gunna say is just wait and see what happens. DONT cheat on your boyfriend because you will regret it till the day you die expecially since youve been with him for almost a year. If you love your boyfriend its not really fair to just up and leave him for some guy who you have a little crush on. But i dont know you or your boyfriend or the other guy. Good luck with everything. x0x0x
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Never leave the one you love for the one you like.
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If i were you, i wouldn't want to mess anything up with your boyfriend. If you're dating around, do it single. Aswell though, you're still young and at that age it's best to date around to find out what you like, ya know? , but this guy may just be using you, so stick with your boyfriend, but don't be totally tied down to one guy for all of high school, let loose and have fun. High School will be some of the greatest days of your life :)
-DD
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He doesnt like you,he doesnt even know you that much BUT he likes your body.I think you should not answer his calls anymore and hell forget about you.You wouldnt like it if YOUR boyfreind did this to you.Change your phone number if you have to.Dont get close to this guy because if you reject him later on mabey hell threaten to tell your boyfreind that you and him like eachother so keep away from him.
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If you are having strong feeling's for this guy then you need to be honest with yourself. An 11 month relationship is a long time but the temptation has found it's way to you, and you are right it is not fair on your boyfriend. If you can see yourself with this new man in ur life and you think he is being genuine then go for it, but look at your current relationship first. Are you still with him because you feel comfortable, and can you imagine being without him? or perhaps there is something in the relationship that is lacking and you have found it elsewhere. If you say yes to any of these then babes your young and it will be painful at first but in the long run it will be worth it. We only live once and you don't want to be tied down at your age. As for the age gap, he is going to be more matture than you (well partly) so don't let him push you into anything, do thing's at your own pace and im sure thing's will turn out fine. good luck babes love jem xxxxxx
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