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i need guy help because my boobs aren't very big!
im only 13 but all the girls at my school have huge boobs. i dont. so the guy i like wont notice me. should i stuff? or i am thinking of saving for implants. tell me what you think i should do please.
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Jeez you're 13! All the girls at your school have boobs? Really? Just wait. Getting implants before your natural growth spurt can also cause some issues and make them grow in weird. If a guy only wants you for your body, or for fakeness because it wouldn't be your body if you got implants, do you really want to be with him?
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Omg hun..Do not STUFF your bra! It's quite obvious when someone does and you don't want to emabarras yourself like that do you? Your 13..you will grow..>.< It doesn't really matter if you have a big chest or not..to be real not al guys like big chested girls..>.< I wish I was smaller at the top haha I'm a 34B nd I rather be smaller...but please don't get implants..your to young for that. I hope i helped.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
As for the size of your breast; at your young age no reputable Plastic Surgeon will do anything as far as breast enhancement until you are at least 17 or 18 years old and have completed your growth cycle. You may just be a late bloomer. My sister was a late bloomer and at the age of 50 had to have breast reduction surgery because her breasts were so large they were causing back problems. So just hang in there you will eventually fill out.
As for boys and what they notice. You’re going to be surprised by this, but not all boys are interested in the size of girls’ breasts. Many young boys are attracted to long hair, or girls’ legs. Others like girls’ that are smart or like sports. Then there are the boys’ who want girls who like to go to museums and literary type of things.
My advice; there is someone out there for you. He may not be part of the in crowd but he will be fun to be with because you and he will like the same things. So take some time and figure out what you really enjoy doing. Then start doing those things. When you do you will find a boy who won’t care about the size of your chest. The boys who only care about the size of a girl’s chest are very shallow and are only looking for sex. They feel the bigger a girl’s bra size the faster she will be to jump into bed with him.
I may be old but I remember being a teenage boy and teenage boys will never and have never changed. Be patient, be selective and enjoy life. Most of all don’t rush to grow up. Enjoy each age as they come. Your teen years are some of the best years of your life and you should enjoy them not rush through them.
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I think, no no, i'm definitely sure that this guy is not noticing you not because your boobs are small, or that he's noticing others cause their boobs are big. No, no baby it doesn't work this way, it has nothing to do with this. I mean, think of it, there are so many models and celebrities out there who have very tiny boobs, almost a flat surface, and they still go out with the hottest guys ever, and big boobs are not always a good thing. So no, don't think this way at all, i know how you feel, but then i really came to realize that it has nothing to do with this, why have implants and waste your money to just blow your boobs with gas, where they'd look like big balloons which would burst any moment, and no don't stuff anything. The only simple thing is to wear a push up bra or something, that's like the least thing that you could do, and hey u are still a bit young, did you get your period yet, it might still grow more.
And hey, if you want him to notice you, maybe you should go up to him and talk to him and introduce yourself or make conversation ,or get to know him, and if he really does care about the size of your boobs, then he is an a-hole guy and is really low, i mean, later on, do guys marry us according to the size of our boobs? ofcourse not, its the personality which defines us and our heart and our kindness and the things we do, not our looks or boobs.
And you shouldn't even be thinking all these thoughts of actually changing your whole appearance because of some guy you like, you know you might not even like him if you really get to know him. Some people are different when you get close to them than when you know them from a distance.
I advice you against all what your thinking of, and really, try to consider what i said, cause it really doesn't work that way.
Hope i helped, if you need to talk more, please be free to contact me.Best of luck :D
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Honey, don't even think of stuffing your bra or getting implants -- embrace who you are, including your body. :) You must think about something here, these guys may be after the girls with big boobs, but what does that say about them? What are they looking for? Think about it. They aren't even worth your time, which is precious, and they are looking for more than just liking a girl and that's not good.
Be weary of those guys and stay away from them as far as dating, they only want one thing and consider yourself lucky they aren't coming around you -- they are just jerks. Plus, if a guy likes you for who you are, which he always should, he will never care about your boob size -- trust me on this one, as I am older and have went through a little bit of the same thing.
You are very young and have so much time to grow, so don't be discourage about that in general. When I was your age, I had absolutely nothing, you could have considered me a boy in that means -- but now, about five years later, I have grown so much and am a 34 C, so believe me, you still have plenty of time to grow. But regardless, embrace your beauty and if he's a good guy, he'll like you for who you are and love your boobs (but wait until you're older for those things, I am just saying this for the sake of my point); small or large. :)
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You are 13!!!! I think that you should be happy with your body. I didn't get my boobs until last year. I know people who didn't get there's until they were 18. Guys your age are stupid. Do you really want a guy who only likes you because you have big boobs? Rock your flatness!! Some guys might like how your different. I know a 17 year old who's a AA.
Don't stuff and spend your money on clothes not implants!!!
Hope I helped
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