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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
loveee you guyyysss.
try and ask me some questions if you want.ill get back to yuhh.loveee : )



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My boyfriend and I broke up a little more than 2 months ago, and about a week ago he told me that he still loved me and could never bare to tell his mom we broke up because it would make it "real." I told him that i still love him too, and, even though we had gone back to being best friends after we broke up, now that we both admitted to still liking eachother we have barely talked or anything. I'm starting to worry our frienship is falling apart, which is more important to me than ANYTHING. Is there any way i could make a move to tell him we're still OK and nothing's changed, anything u guys think will help...or, more importantly, any reason this has happened?

well you need to tell hi thats ok if you and him are friends..and you nedd to let him no thats it ok..and you guys dont have to go out and be boyfriend and girlfriend to be close..well you to shouild still be friends...i no its hard for him to get over the fact that yall broke up...but you know you may need to give him time..thats all that you can do is give it time..well you need to talk to him and tell him that yall are cool being friends...
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony

making out means using your tounge while you are kissing the person..havent you ever made out with a gurl before..obviously not..well anyays..you kiss her then you open your moth and stick your tounge in hers..its weird to explain..youll catch on..i did when a boy "made out" with me!!
hope i helepd..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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okay...
well...
uhh..
this is hard for me to ask this
but i have already fingered my g/f and we both want more
we are WAY TO young for sex about 5 years from it, what can we do thats not sex d00d please help

well she can give you a hand job or something like that..or you can get her a dildo and yall can play with that.(thats more for her though)and i guess you guys can give each other oral sex..you know what that is right..you use your ouths..well you guys shouildnt be haveing sex anyways..thats good you made that decision..and if you ever get horney enough to have sex make sure you use a condom..well i hope you and your girl ahve fun!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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When do you first start going to the gynecologist?

well you really dont have to go to the gynecoligst!its only if you have something wrong with your vagina..like if you have like a yeats iffection or something like that..if you think somethings wrong then you can go..but you dont have to start going..its not like a regular doctor..you go every 6 mounths..you go when theres something wrong..
hope i helped...
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I have been thinking of becoming vegetarian for quite some time now. I was wondering if anyone knew of any websites about being vegetarian so i can decide. Also Do you think it would be ok to ease into becoming one? Not just all at once?
Thanks

well i tryed being a vegatrian once..but it didnt work for me..but its kinda hrad..because my parents wouild eat meat and i wouild just be eating vegatables..theres nothing wrong with eating meat..honestley..i dont even know why they have vegeatarians..but you know everybody has diffrent opinons..but you know that you need meat in your body..you need to read the food guide pyramid..and i dont know any websites to go to..but im just saying that your going to have a hard time..youll see people eating meat and then you know that you dont eat it..maybe you will stik to it..but me i halft to ahve meat..but you may think diffrent..but if you want to look up sites then go to google and type in vegatarian and im sure theyll get you some sites..
hope you do what you want..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Sorry this is so long plz don’t pass it by
13/f
All my life I dreamed of being famous when I was six I wanted to be just like britney spears so when I was about 7 years old I joined chorus for about a year then I figured it just wasn’t for me you know so I quit then things kind of got bad between my parents so we didn’t really go to church anymore and then for about 3-4 years I played soccer was really really good at it then I quit that too when I was 11 and then my parents got a divorce and when I was 11-12 I took drama and acting lessons and now hear I am I’m 13 now and I really want to model I mean its like a passion for me I really want to be a model more than anything in the world because I figure it’s a good place to start if I want to be an actress when I get older so I want to be a model for like modeling clothes kids clothes and stuff you know I know I have the attitude to be a model I’m 110% happy with myself I think I’m pretty enough to do I have everything really but there’s one problem I don’t live anywhere near any modeling stuff or anything like that but I am about 3 hours away from Atlanta a.k.a A Town lol but and I just don’t really know where to start modeling or who to start modeling for does anyone have any ideas for me I really wanta reach my dream all my friends have already started on their dream I have a boyfriend who is an incredible gutair player friends how are amazing writers and are really smart but now more then ever I wanta reach my dream but I don’t know how and where to starts
PLZ HELP*
Oh yea I didn’t know what thins went under

well you are cool..you do what you want to do and if you want tom model then you model..you know what you shouild do!!!you shouild model for magizines..you know like jcpennys magazines..and all those stores...one of my friends was in a limited too magazine..and she got payed for modeling in it..so thats what you shouiuld do..because your to young to be run way modeling..so you shouild start off with the magizine modeling and advertising clothes and stuff..im sure you can do what you want to do..and you do what you feel is right for you..im sorry to hear about the divorce of your family..and im glad that you are trying modeling..i hope you succed to the most..and dont ever let anyone bring you down and you do your bets in what you can do!!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Hey i am 13 and i live in australia. So when me and my boyfriend talk, he always looks at my lips and mouth...its kinda weird..i dont reli care about it but its just..weird...>

maybe hes daydreaming about kissing you..maybe you shouild actually kiss him...you know!!maybe hes thinking "o what beatuful lips she has"...no im kidding!! but who nos wht that boy is thinking..who nos what anyboy is thinking..but maybe you shouild try like kissing him when your done talking to him..or you shouild let him talk nad see where he stares then..or maybe you no hes trying not to be rude..you halft to look at the person when there talking to you..rember..but i dont know..thats kinda funny sorry...
hope i helped
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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i generally have my period every 27 days for about eight days. last time i only had it for 6 days and its been over 30 days and im still not getting it! what should i do? (im fourteen)

well its normal if you have your peeriod for however..i think your periods suppost to last you 7 days..(a week) but i guess its fine if you went one over..but its ok if you have a late period..unless you arte pregneat and you have a missed period..which i hope and dont think you are..its fine because my period was late and it still came..nothings wrong..and honestley theres nothing you can do...but you can just wait for your period..and if you dont have your period this mounth thats fine..my sister missed her period for 4 mounths..then she got it back..its fine..i promise nothings wrong..and like i said theres nothing you can do about it and i guess you just wait for your period to come..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.

well you shouild try to appraching people..you know that people now a day are rude and crap..but not all..theres still some nice people left on earth..but you shouild just try talking to the people you want to hang out with..you never know..you guys may become good or maybe best friends..its hard for me to make friends becasue im really picky..but you just apprach who you can and start making friends..
hope i helped..
hope you make alot of friends...
*love alwyas*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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okay, im 17 and ive had sex before and ive been fingered but like..im to emabarrased/scared to let the guy eat me out. If i was a guy i would never want to do that..it seems so nasty, bc of like discharge and stuff. im scared of what he'll say or think...anyone who had this problem or has it any advice would be great. thanks.

well your like me beacuse im a girl and i wouild never suck a guys dick..only if he was like my husband..but no random boy..well if you dont feel comftable with guys eating you out then you shouildnt let them..because it is pretty nast..i no what you mean..but still if you dont feel comftable then dont let him do it..but you do what you want to do!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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14 yrs old. 180 lbs, im a girl. I'm 5 foot 7, and have a big build to begin with, like i have broad shoulders. Im a major tomboy too, so all my clothes r kinda baggy, and i wear long shorts and football jerseys. Will guys EVER like me? Why is everything based on looks?I rate high

well you no boys thats all most boys go for..LOOKS...well you shouildnt change your self for a boy..but if you feel you need to then go right ahead..but some boys are cool with girls like you..and so what if your a tom boy..boys dont like it but so what..you dont need to change for any one..but you no boys now a day..dont worry that boy will come for you one day..just stay in there and youll find him!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
Brigette>ilovepink101

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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well DUH!! you shouid bring it up..obviousley hes not going to so you should..you no whats with these boys today..always getting girls to do there dirrty work..well you shouild say hey i thought we were going to hang out..whats up with that..and the worse he couild say is no..and so what..and if he says no then so what..his lost..dont worry about it then..you no..well you do what you want t o do..and do it quick..since your going on your trip..well you no what you want to do so go for it!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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can my girlfriend and I rent a hotel room overnight and we're only 16? like do they check your age and parent permission and stuff or can you just rent a room and they dont care? thanks

well i dont see why not.. im sure you can get in..and just tell them that your renting for one night and that you want a hotel..and just pay..they dont ask for your id or driver licences or anything like that..so its just easy..but what you shouild do is use protection with your girl..but you no thasts your buisness..but have fun!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Hi, I am 14 years old, and I am dating a 16year old male. He is everything that I look for in a man. Everything is goin great. How can I keep it that way and improve it to make it more interesting?

well just do what your doing now..obviousley you guys are doing good now..so keep it up..but you guys shouiuldnt fight if you guys do..and im sure he thinks your the one for him..but you never now..but im sure he has stong feelings for you..but if your thinking about sex..then dont even go there..because rember hes 16 and your 14..and you know..well if you do have sex then use protection..but hope fulley you wont..you dont need to make love with your with your boyfriend for him and you to stay together..well you just be you..and im sure he loves that you that you are!!so you be cool and stay you!!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more???

well you no that you wil proably wont see that boy for awhile..so you just build courage and get your ass over there and go talk to those boys..why wouild you give up a good shot of boys???you shouild be going up to boys every where..and just try to start a conversation..i no that boys are suppost to come up and talk to you..(dont you miss those days)but obviousley those boys wont come to you so you go to them..dont give up some boys..so just do it!!! you proably wont see those boys again for awhile..so girl like i said..get your ass out there and start talking!!!

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how to get popular girls to ask me to hang out. AND dont say you shouldnt hang out with them bc they are popular or stuff liek that.. its what i want

well you shouild go hang with them..you no they wont hang with you!!but just try talking to them..but honestley im going to say this, you shouildnt want 2 hang with the popular girls just because there popular..you shouild be you and only you..popular girls are mostley preps..and they betrade you ..and there just bitches..but you no that your you..so you do what you want..all you got to do is apprach them and just try to start talking to them..but you know that they may turn you down..so be ready for it..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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well im 14 and my parents got divorced a few years ago and my dad married this person i hate! she is seriously like the wicked step mother and it blows. She always talks bad about my mom too and my mom is the sweetest person in the world. How can i tell her to shut the hell up without getting grounded forever. help! P.S. sorry its so long!

well you should talk to your dad that his wife is really bothering you..and honestley none of her damn buisness what your mom does or is..and she has no right to be talking about your mom like that..or next time she tlks about your mom like that then you shouild say may you please stop talking about my mom like that..man shes evil to be talking about your mom like that..but i no what your going through..my parents are divorce..but they got divored when i was 1..so my step dad is like my real dad..but i got use to him..hes pretty cool..but anyways you shouild honestley talk to your dad about it..and tell him t hat you dont appreciate it when your step mom talks about your mom like that..and when she says something again then you shouild say i dont appricate when you talk about my mom like that may you please stop..and then hopefully shell stop from there..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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So, my guy and I went ring shopping today and picked out rings.
The problem is gonna be my mom. He gave me an antique ring on valentine's day almost two years ago, and I've been wearing that one, but we picked one that will be sized to fit my left ring finger. Basically, we are engaged, but we're keeping it quiet until about halfway through college, when it'll be more acceptable to my parents.
This ring kind of looks like an engagement ring, but it's not a diamond. That's the only thing, though it is a single stone, which is symbolic enough. My mom is extremely against my getting married young (we're planning to get married in four or five years, so there's no rush at all, but my mom wouldn't understand that). I'm 17 and he's 19. I'll be 18 in October. Anyway, my mom's gonna freak out when she sees the ring on that finger, and essentially a wedding band on his.
What do I say to her?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down for stupidity.
Thanks in advance. =)

well ytou shouild tell your mom that you and your "fiance" were talking and that you guys shouild get married..but you need to tell her that your going to finish school and that you will get married when the time is right..its pretty sad that your mom will be pissed that you find your true love..and your "fiance".. well you shouold finish college first and then do what you gotta do with your "fiance"..and your mom shouild suport you 100%
but you no that your mom is proably going to be so pissed that your making a decison to get married..you shouildnt wear the ring around her right now..unless your ready to tell her what it means!! that your planning to get married a couple of years from now..but you just finish college and then think about marriage.. but you do what you feel is right..and try to find a good way to tell your mom..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgete>ilovepink101

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is it normal for a girl to have an upset stomach during her period? Because my stomach feels naseaus(sp?)and i feel like i wanna puke and my stomach is all bubbly feeling..this is my 3rd time having my period so any suggestions what i can do. i dont have any medicine so that wont help. 14/f....thanks for neone who tries to help.

yeah you ahve kramps..a good thing that will make the cramps go away is midol..its an over the counter drug..you can by it at any grocery/drug store.. i had my period and my stomach hurt for days..but your fine..you just have bad cramps..they'll be gone when you'r periods over..but you shouild go get some midol.. it really helps!!!i use it and all my cramps go away!! go get some!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous.

o gosh..please dont be jealous..thats a really bad thing..i was jealous of my best friend and my sister being friends and my best friend didnt talk to me for a long time..but you no that your friend sounds like a really good person..but you no that your one of those friends with many others..but it doesnt matter..you all couild be good friends..you no..yall can hang together and stuff like that..well i have never seen you but im ure you are so pretty..and you may not see that but im sure other peple do..i no that some boys may like your friend more than you..but thats fine..his lost..you dont ever putn your self down like that..you no thats life if boys dont like you..and i dont no how muvch you weigh and stuff..butt if your friends skinner so what!you no..why do you want to look like her..you need to look like you..and you may be funier then her in your own ways..what does it matter..dont compare your self to anybody..so what if someones prettier or skinner..i dont care..and either shouild you..it really doesnt matter..and your friends sounds like she loves you alot..and cares for you..and thats good she wouildnt leave you like other snobbs in this hecteck world!!but you be you and nobody body else..
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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