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love lasts...
My boyfriend and I broke up a little more than 2 months ago, and about a week ago he told me that he still loved me and could never bare to tell his mom we broke up because it would make it "real." I told him that i still love him too, and, even though we had gone back to being best friends after we broke up, now that we both admitted to still liking eachother we have barely talked or anything. I'm starting to worry our frienship is falling apart, which is more important to me than ANYTHING. Is there any way i could make a move to tell him we're still OK and nothing's changed, anything u guys think will help...or, more importantly, any reason this has happened?
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well you need to tell hi thats ok if you and him are friends..and you nedd to let him no thats it ok..and you guys dont have to go out and be boyfriend and girlfriend to be close..well you to shouild still be friends...i no its hard for him to get over the fact that yall broke up...but you know you may need to give him time..thats all that you can do is give it time..well you need to talk to him and tell him that yall are cool being friends...
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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i can relate to where you're coming from. me and my x went out 2 times and broke up..and he's now one of my closests friends. he's actually like my best friend..but anyways..when i found out that my x still liked me and i still liked him..it's been really hard to tell each other our feelings about each other now and that's what seems to be happening with you and this boy. i don't think it's cause he doesn't like you because i'm sure he does but maybe he just doesn't want to get involved with a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because now that you guys are so close he's afraid that if something bad happens in the relationship you're not even going to be able to be friends. maybe you should hang out with him sometime soon and find out what he really wants to do. be friends or be more..because unless you take a chance to ask him you'll never know and what can a simple question hurt...i hope i helped..follow your heart and do what YOU think is right.
<33 with love nickie
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Just confront him. Ask him why things have changed, and reassure him that you'll still be friends.
Or get back together!
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ok, if you still love eachother nothing should stand in the way of that and if you dont make a move your really gonna regreat it. alright, i think you should call him and say something like look, i know that you still like me and i still like you but i dont want that to ruin our friendship. i mean, we can still talk right? say something like that.
♥ leah ♥
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He might feel confused and just weird. You need to talk to him and ask him whats going on and whats going to happen to your relationship. Im not sure why it might of happend. When ever you talk to him just tell him that nothing has changed. Im sure he is just taking some time to think about it tho. ll ♥ ll
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hi
just find your friend and tell him that you would love to go back with him. Or most importantly tell him you really loved being friends but mostly together. And thats how you want it to stay. Try that
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You two not talking is probably because things are feeling a bit weird right now..kinda awkward right? A good move you can make to let him know its OK is to call him up and see if he wants to hang out..then just hang like your two best friends and nothing else..that is..if you want it that way..do you want to be more than friends with him or keep it friends?
well if it were me i would call to see if he wants to hang..i bet he would be releived because hes probably wondering whats going on also..so make the first move and ask if he wants to hang out
hope i helped..try it out ..if you want more help feel free to inbox me
-melissa-
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maybe hes not sure about his feelings right now he still might love you but he might not be sure if you still feel the way you said you did
talk to him just make small talk and see where that gets you
hope i helped if you need anything at all drop one in my inbox ♥
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