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shy
ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more???
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well you no that you wil proably wont see that boy for awhile..so you just build courage and get your ass over there and go talk to those boys..why wouild you give up a good shot of boys???you shouild be going up to boys every where..and just try to start a conversation..i no that boys are suppost to come up and talk to you..(dont you miss those days)but obviousley those boys wont come to you so you go to them..dont give up some boys..so just do it!!! you proably wont see those boys again for awhile..so girl like i said..get your ass out there and start talking!!!
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maybe you never will. it might be in your zodica sign personality and that you cant alter. but if its just a thing then all you have to do is go for it. if you have a couple of crazy, fun, roudy friends that dont give a shit what people think of them. then you can ask them for help with your shyness.
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Just go introduce yourself and get over your shyness. Chat about where he's from, what he's doing there, how he is, and stuff that intrests you. He may like the same stuff. And, before you leave, ask for his e-mail adress or his number. Hope I helped!
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I know what you mean, I'm very shy too. One, don't get mad at yourself, you need to realize that you are on vacation so you will probably never see these people again. It is a normal thing to meet people on vacation, but usually you don't worry about ever seeing them again. You might try flirting a little or something, when the guy looks at you wink at him or smile or something that makes him think he has a chance at getting to talk to you. Most guys will catch onto this and they will initiate the conversation. If you have to start the conversation, just use small talk (what's your name, where you're from, etc.). Be sure in the end, if you feel you want to stay in contact, just ask for their e-mail or number, but the number thing might not be a good choice since you're on vacation and in order to call it will cost a lot due to long distance. Try getting their online name or their e-mail, it's just easier. Girls usually have control of what happens, so use that power to your advantage.
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shyness is insecurity. look in the mirror wearing your best clothes and concentrate on your good looks, the things that make you beautiful, and there is always something about everybody that makes them beautiful. start working out, it makes you appreciate your body more. and style and groom your hair and make up before going out, it amkes you feel beautiful. realize that you are funny and sociable with your friends, bring that out more. once you start to be very confident and okay with yourself, you will feel better talking to guys knowing that you are beautiful and intelligent and they want you as much as you want them , so flirt!
hope i helped
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Do you really want to invest emotionally in these guys you meet on vacation? They most likely live far away right? Go to different schools and have completely different friends too?
Enjoy vacation boys well you have em, chat 'em up, practice your newest flirting moves but don't act like one of them might be your soulmate. You want contact information? It might be easier to ask them if you realize it is not life or death situation, if they turn you down, who cares you'll probably never even see them agian anyways. This is the perfect situation! So suck it up and realize you have nothing to loose.
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just be cool around them be yourself and have fun! yeah you really should get some numbers or e-mails to keep in touch dont be scared or too shy to ask thers nothin wrong with that you just wanna keep in touch nothin to be shy about...so yeah as i said earlier just have fun dont be shy! hope i helped! <33
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i have the same problem....just be confident in yourself..and go for it...
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