14 yrs old. 180 lbs, im a girl. I'm 5 foot 7, and have a big build to begin with, like i have broad shoulders. Im a major tomboy too, so all my clothes r kinda baggy, and i wear long shorts and football jerseys. Will guys EVER like me? Why is everything based on looks?I rate high
vickiooos answered Sunday July 17 2005, 11:18 pm: of course guys will like you. i'm like the total opposite. i look like a 10 year old and i'm 15, going on 16. with so many guys out there, there's alteast a 100 guys that like what you just described. don't be so harsh on yourself, you're only 14. atleast you know the definte person you are. stay true to it, and before you know it, guys will be flying to your bedroom window reciting you Romeo and Juliet lines [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
MD_Girl101 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 5:27 pm: sure a guy will like you it may be a wile but some day there will be a guy that likes you for who you are on the insaide not on teh out.You jsut have to wait on him.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101 [ MD_Girl101's advice column | Ask MD_Girl101 A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Sunday July 17 2005, 2:18 pm: YES, Guys will still like you! There are different "types" of people in the world, and I believe that no matter how old or how different looking someone is, they'll find someone that can love them. And you're right, why is everything based on looks? One girl wrote, "How can I be skinny and popular?" as a question, and I was like, "You don't have to be a skinny stick to be 'popular'". I am kind of overweight also but I've found a few guys that like me, and I'm happy with my weight and not gonna change just because someone else wants me to. As long as it's not unhealthy, why change who you are?
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze [ mystical_breeze's advice column | Ask mystical_breeze A Question ]
LoViNu2mOuCh answered Sunday July 17 2005, 11:10 am: Not everything is based on looks.... except teenage guys are all a bunch a horney freaks!!! if you have any guy friends maybe you could ask them what they like about you or what you can change!!! if you like how you are girl then keep on living life like that!! dont change yourself for guys!! Just act like you are and you will eventually find a guy for you!! [ LoViNu2mOuCh's advice column | Ask LoViNu2mOuCh A Question ]
inthedark535 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 2:50 am: ok first, lose the pounds, then, dress like a girl. after that u must master shaving and wearing makeup. o yeah and dont burp or fart in public that's disgusting for everyone guys included. well, that shud do it. good luck. [ inthedark535's advice column | Ask inthedark535 A Question ]
chadilac answered Sunday July 17 2005, 12:17 am: honestly, you shouldn't ask a question like that on here, or some ass like meeshee will come along and say stupid s***.
yea. if they right guy comes along, he's wont care. he might not be exactly what YOU are looking for, but a guy WILL like you. you have to be patient. [ chadilac's advice column | Ask chadilac A Question ]
artistegirly answered Saturday July 16 2005, 11:33 pm: Yup, sure they will! You have no obligation to fit into ANY catogory clothes-wise and if your sick of wearing baggy clothes and you're not really that confident/comfortable with wearing tiny tees and lowrise jeans try shirts that just fit you nicely with a little room and jeans that some up to wear your comfortable with.
Plus++ guys like girls that like the same things as they do, sometimes it's hard enough finding somthing ot talk about with their girlfriends if their intrests are worlds apart! BUT they don't really like to be beat by girls so caution!
PinkLady4863 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 11:17 pm: yes, there are MANY guys who actually like dating tom boys because they are mroe confrotable with you and feel like you have stuf in common with them. they fele like they can be themselves, in fact being a girly girl can turn a guy off, they want to have fun now worry about a broken nail! even if it doesn't happen soon, it will happen. just be yourself, i know that sounds lame but it's the best way to fall in love. [ PinkLady4863's advice column | Ask PinkLady4863 A Question ]
greenprotege72002 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 11:13 pm: Yes, guys will like you. I knew plenty of girls who were athletic such as yourself, and they always had boyfriends. Everything is based on looks in our society thanks to the magazines like Cosmo and all of those other fashion oriented magazines. They have brain-washed our nation that the perfect girl is a toothpick with big boobs and a nice butt, but the fact is they're wrong. Don't change the way you look or who you are for fear of getting a man. You'll get one, trust me, I know tons of girls who are tomboys and they always had a guy. The guys will come around sooner or later, just don't change yourself, be yourself and get a guy that will like you for you, and when you find a guy like that, he won't care about your build. He'll be looking into your eyes instead of at your body. Hope I helped. [ greenprotege72002's advice column | Ask greenprotege72002 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.