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please help...i rate high


Question Posted Saturday July 16 2005, 9:54 pm

alright, i have a question. my parents decided not to go to curch for awhile...but we ARE going back. i HATE the people at that church. none of the kids in youth group are nice to me...or talk to me. and im a shy person so i dont want to go up to them and to top it all off the teachers are MEAN! and they have no clue wat theyre doing! how do i tell my parents i dont like it and i want to go to another church?

p.s. my mom and dad LOVE the church
p.s.s. i rate really high


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MD_Girl101 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 3:23 pm:
Well you just need to be honest withe them and tell them how you feel.Do have any friend near by that got o church maybe you could go with them.
willI hope I helped
MD_GIRL101

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mystical_breeze answered Sunday July 17 2005, 2:22 pm:
Gee, you're going to church but you "hate" the people...in the Bible doesn't that say hating someone means that you would kill them? Just tell your parents about how you feel, and maybe you can invite some of your friends to go to your church, and then maybe you'll have more fun since your friends will be there. Tell your parents you want to browse for some new churches..they might find one they like more! If they say no, just accept it and go to the church (it's only one day a week, right?). Or, as I said, invite some of your friends.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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Real4Christ07 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 1:14 pm:
Just say it. Tell them how you feel about it. You need to go somewhere where you feel free to worship and comfortable. You also need wanna be somewhere where the Spirit of The Lord is moving. It sounds like your church has made Christianity into a religion. True Christianity isn't a religion it's a relationship between you and Jesus Christ and a Lifestyle you live.
Read Galation 5:18-25.
-God Bless
God has a plan 4 you.

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nitro5 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 1:10 am:
ha you sure youre not goin 2 my church? no but gettin 2 it ik exactly where ur comin from and i was in the same situation talk 2 youre parents bout just goin 2 church and not the teachy bible skool thingy and then 1ce they get used 2 that start 2 bug them bout not goin 2 church and also try 2 tell them that its nice that they love church but you dont and that they shud respect that and let you stay home or sumtin while they go 2 church

-marco

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Alpha345 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 11:32 pm:
Nevermind the "I rate really high", I'm not writing this for that so I don't care what you rate, if you rate at all. You need to talk to your parents about it. Also you probably need to overcome your shyness to a point where you can go up to them and find out why they don't like you and talk to them about it. But definately talk to your parents about this, tell them what is happening and make a point about it. I hope it all smooths out for you and hope this advice helped!

-Ryan

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greenprotege72002 answered Saturday July 16 2005, 11:18 pm:
You need to sit down with your parents, sometime when you are not distracted such as dinner or even ask them to come into the living room and you need to talk to them. Tell them that you need to explain your point of view about the church you are attending at the moment because you don't like the relationship there. Go on and explain to them that the kids in the youth program are mean to you and so are the teachers. Make sure you give support behind your reasons for not liking this youth group and/or the teachers. Then once you have explained your points, ask them what they think. You should be able to talk comfortably with them now and come up with some kind of answer to what you will do. I hope I have helped.

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