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Why are guys so embarassed to admit their virgins in like, highschool? (link)
physcilogically the answer would be that the media(society(tv, and movies and etc.)) projects the loss of virginity as a right of passage in modern times.


I'm a columnist on here and have been for about a year or so. I've noticed hundreds of questions dealing with depression. While I understand that it seems to be more common in teenagers now, why is it that it is mostly girls? Is it the way they are raised? Is it imprinted in DNA? I'm interested in the psychological aspect of it and hope to major in it someday, but I've looked it up everywhere online and can't find a reliable source. Anyone know the causes of this or where to find it? Thanks. (link)
short and sweet: they have more pressure than guys. Guys arent pressured to look like brad pitt, but girls are pressured to look like supermodels. Its the mindset society forces upon these kids.


Ok im not sure if this is under the right catergory but I want some tips on how to put eye shadow on. Because every single time i put eyeshadow on after a few hours it starts 2 disappear or something. It doesnt last so long. & I always see people how there eye shadow lasts perfect all day like from how it looks when I put it on. So what im asking is, do you have any tips on how to apply the eye shadow where it doesnt like fade away some how ? & Get the fresh applied eye shadow look all day ? Thanks for the help (link)
tip from a guy: less is often more. Guys get turned away if you look too whoreish.


So a long time ago I was grounded from aim and my mom blocked everyone on my buddylist since then if people add me to their buddylist I appear not online and I am. I have to add them and unblock them. How do I change it so that when someone adds me I don't have to add them and unblock them? (link)
My AIM > Edit Options > Edit preferences > Privacy then you can figure out what you need to change.


My best friend is Bi, she smokes weed, she cuts, and is into the whole "Emo, scene, be yourself type of phase"

She thinks I'm fake because I love to dress up nicely, wear "preppy style" clothes, and I like country music. She thinks everyone is really bi, and if you don't admit it youre fake. I'm sick of her and her other bi friends ragging on me cause I'm not like them! They're all like "hardcore" and they hate it that I'm friends with all sorts of people. I just relate to everyone a little bit, I'm just the type of person that will talk to anyone, they think I'm after popularity and I'm all fake for not sticking to one "type" How do I get them to stop ragging on me about this, and show them that this is the real me! (link)
Tell them to get over themselves: that the world doesnt revolve around them; not everyone has to be like them. Ask them if they are so hardcore, then why are they preaching conformity. Call them posers and whiney little brats who don't know how to solve their own problems.

THen you will never be bothered by them again.


I want to edit my pictures to make them more interesting. I am more into photography.

But what I am wondering is what kind of program can I install onto my computer FOR FREE! to make my pictures look something similar to this:

http://i7.tinypic.com/2556whs.jpg

Making the whole picture black and white but making a certain thing color.

Please help and thanks. (link)
Use gimp. There is even a tutorial on their site that shows you how to make a picture like the one you have up there.

[edit] sry for not posting the link before, I wasnt on for a long time and didnt have the time. Gimp can be a pain to download if your not sure what your doing but trial and error works. To download it for windows, go to http://gimp-win.sourceforge.net/stable.html and download the nessisary things (gimp, gtk+, and the help package: they all need to be downloaded separately) The tutorials you want are located at http://www.gimp.org/tutorials/ and specifically at http://www.gimp.org/tutorials/Selective_Color/


For some reason, I find that running on the treadmill is much easier than running outside, like on an actual track.

For example, I can run for over 30 minutes nonstop on the treadmill, but I can only run for less than 15 on the track.

Anyone know why the treadmill is easier than running on the track? (link)
Its because on a treadmill you set the pace and are at about that same pace the whole time; while on a track you set your own pace and usually push yourself to go faster or go to fast in the begining which tires you out quickly.


how much does paint shop pro cost, and where can you buy it? (link)
only search advicenators.com


Edit** why didnt you look it up to begin with?? Why would I have to? Not to be mean, but I had better things to do at the time. It had nothing to do with being lazy as you probably are, otherwise you would have googled it and found it in a second.**


I was dating a guy who joined the army, and he was scheduled to leave for basic training at the end of May or beginning of June. At the beginning of May, he started to ignore me. Wouldn't answer phone calls or anything. I had no idea what was going on, because I had seen him the night before he started to ignore me and everything was fine. This continued for about two weeks, until he finally answered one of my messages by breaking up with me. He was worried that it wouldn't work because he would be leaving for a long time after this year. He ignored me for another two weeks after that, and finally a few days before he left he let me know when he was leaving. I asked him if he would tell me when he was back, and he promised that he would.

I know from mutual friends that he is back, but he hasn't tried to contact me in any way. I don't know why, and I don't know if I should try to talk to him. I miss him so much it's almost unbearable, as a boyfriend, but even just as a friend and someone to talk to.

What should I do? I want him back in my life...I don't think that I will hear from him if I don't try to contact him first, and I really want to, but then I feel like I should respect his space because it's clear he doesn't want to talk to me, right? I am SO lost.

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This is a difficult one. If you were in the states, I would assume he is afraid that he is going to war and doesnt want you hurt by this, but I'm not sure I see a clear motive here.

As for being back, do you know if he will be back for a while or only a short time? If he is only back for a short time then he might not have wanted to bother you.

You should give him his space...Everything takes time, so you have to wait; but you must know when to not wait any longer and make a move yourself.

If you feel you need to make a move to see him, find out his agenda and casually 'run into' him at where ever he is soposed to be. Strike up some casual conversation and go with it from there. Some things are worth fighting for: you decide what those things are.


Whenever I've attempted to start my summer homework, I can't concentrate because I have 57354842349 different things running through my mind.

Can anyone offer ways to concentrate on a boring book or to calm my mind down? I don't want this problem to go on any longer!!

Thanks so much. (link)
Get your cd player, ipod, mp3 player or whatever and just lay down and relax for like 2 songs. Focus on only the songs. Now keep the music playing and start your report. If the music distracts you too much then you can turn it off.


my friend has tried to kill himself before. i just dont see why somebody why somebody would do that. because if you kill yourself, you automattically go to hell. and hell is more worse than anything you can be going through at the moment. so why would somebody wanna do this? i dont need help explaining this to my friend, he got help and he agrees with me on this. (link)
Could it be that at the time they lose faith in god and thus no longer believe in hell for that moment?


is masturbating a sin? just a question---cuz i think its completely gross!! (link)
It depends your faith... I believe it is in christianity, but it's a sin against the church not against god meaning: thats how the church interprets it, not how it is written in the bible.


If winnie the pooh was civilized enough to keep his honey in jars, why did he eat it off his hands? (link)
IF your smart enough to know this, why are you watching winnie the pooh?

Why would Gilligan never get off the island?
-Logically, cause then the show would end. So why does winnie the pooh eat with his hands? Entertainment, or it's the writers choice. It would be more playful and thus appeal to more children.


Is it just me? Or questions on this site getting stupider and stupider? I mean, you should come to this site and talk about your problems, and try to get them worked out. More and more I'm seeing people talk about Myspace and things that they could really find else where. Is it just me? Or dose someone else out there agree that this needs to be cut down jus a bit (link)
Well said DangerNerd.
My own observastions tell me that we don't have as many intelligent questions as we would like because the intelligent people who would ask these intelligent questions are intelligent enough to not have to ask them to other people in the first place. Most people who I consider to be wise, have this issue where they dont want to ask and wait to be answered. When they need an answer they will go look for it until they find it. Thus we get the self absorbed "whiny 13 year-old emo-girl questions."

I have also seen a turn for the worse on the advice side too, but I dont want to rant for too long.


what does it mean when someone says you're blind? (not literally, obviously) they think they're so wise and stuff and when you ask them what they mean they say "you'll know later" (link)
It often means you are missing the more subtle things to whatever your specifically talking about.


do you think this would be an efficiant workout to do to lose a few pounds in about a month? i'd probably do it about 4 times a week.

:100 jumps (like jump roping without the rope lol)
:50 bicycles
(then do that again & again for 10 mins straight)
:then dancing for 10 mins to hip hop or something

do you think that that would help me burn a little bit of extra fat from my thighs and lower back/sides?

thankss (link)
Different things work for different people; What works for you may not work for someone else. The only way to know is to try it.


I love my schedule this year, but my english class is just horrible. The teacher only gave an A to one person last year, and it was a 90%. All of my friends have said she's extremely hard, and she even told us today that she is tough. This isn't an AP or honors class either. There are 3 other english classes that I could be in. I might fill out a schedule-change form to get a different teacher. If they don't let me change teachers, what do I do?? (link)
If you notice you start doing bad, stay after a lot and ask for help. Learn what writing style that teacher likes best and do your best to emulate it.


Does anyone know how to charge your physical body with energy? If so please let me know as soon as you can. (link)
I'm guessing your talking about 'grounding'? It's best to find your own methods to do things.


I hat my mom.She wants me to get new friends because she thinks that all of my friends are horrible (ugh i HATE her)so I wanted to go somewhere with A friend and she won't let me go b/c there is gonna be drinking but i see it all the time...even my dad drinks she is so stupid she alwayts thinks that she is making the Best disision.So my question here is how can i get her to let me go places???? (link)
well i'm in complete shock that the mere child of a parent can undermind her desicion so much without being able to see reasoning behind it.


i forgot my aim password and then i click forgot password and it says it sent it 2 my email but the password for my email was the same so idk it. is there ne way 2 like hack back into my sn? (link)
There is no easy way to hack it so dont bother trying to learn to do so. It's possible you may find the password stored in your computers memory files but you dont want to go that route either. You will probably have to contact the AIM admin for it or make a new screen name. It may be possible if you make a new screen name to link the two names and be able to access it through that.




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