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i hate my mom
I hat my mom.She wants me to get new friends because she thinks that all of my friends are horrible (ugh i HATE her)so I wanted to go somewhere with A friend and she won't let me go b/c there is gonna be drinking but i see it all the time...even my dad drinks she is so stupid she alwayts thinks that she is making the Best disision.So my question here is how can i get her to let me go places????
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she is making the best desions...i mean shes thinking of your future...so you need to respect her and telling people that you hate her isnt the way to do so.What would you do if you get in a fight with her tell her you hate her then she dies before you can tell her your sorry..Drinking when your how old is illegal if your not over the age of 21 being in the same house with beer and you have posession...what would schools or collages say to a kid with posession...She is really thinking ahead where your like thats in a billion years only now counts get good grades do your work everything i know it may seem weird cause when my family told it to me i was shocked but edication is first not friends so dont go to that party cause it is illegal!!!
hope i helped
katie
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well i'm in complete shock that the mere child of a parent can undermind her desicion so much without being able to see reasoning behind it.
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This is very hard, Moms can be very had to deal with. Just tell her what she wants to hear and do things to make her happy until she realizes that she is wrong.
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wow..ok do this with me..take yourslef out of the whole " noone understands me my parents hate me because they dont want me to get hurt" posiotion and go to your moms position...if you were a parent and your daughter wanted to go to a party where people drink and do alot of horiible things wouldd you let her go? and dont say yes to make your point or because you realy really really wana go..no take this seriously..this is someone you care about deeply..and if you would say yes you would then you would be a horrible mother..if your mom lets you go places with these people that means she doesnt love you or care about you the way she should..so dont say you hate her becuase you dont and she did nothing but try to protect her..you want her to let you go places be reponsibile why do you have to go to a place where people are drinking? go to the mall women or to the movies or just chill with your friends dude stop being such a teenager and look at things from other peoples prospective yeah im a teenager also but i understand my parents point of viwe of things..just chill..have a talk with your mom..try to get more trust out of her ..but to be fair you have to respect her trust to you and not give her any reason for her not to trust you again...dont go all crying and life isnt fair because that way shell see you as a child and there goes any chance of freedom..peace
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Your mom would probably let you go places with your friend if there wasn't any drinking involved and if there was adult supervision. She would probably let you have your friends hang out over at your house when she was there. Most parents are very reasonable about things like that. If you just stick it out until you get your drivers liscense, things will be much easier for you. My parents never let me do anything when I was in junior high and the very beginning of high school because they were worried about me getting mixed in with the wrong crowd. It's not so bad once you get older and start to grow out of the phase where you think your parents are the most horrible people in the world. (That's not an insult to you by any means... everyone goes through it.) Now that I have a car and a drivers liscense, I can go anywhere I want with whoever I want, but you have to earn that privledge.
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Well, she's right about the drinking thing, even if you've seen it all the time, a lot of bad things can happen around people who drink. And don't HATE your mom, she is just looking out for you, one day when you are a parent you will understand.
And yes, even my mother used to not let me see some of my friends, and I understand why now. You have to show your mother you are responsible, so don't go fighting with her every chance you get. Let the situation cool down, and take time to show her you are mature and responsible, and ask to go to reasonable places, obviously any good parent doesn't want their kid around drinking.
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Well, I actaully think your mom is right in the drinking situation, ect.
At least she knows what's going on with your dad, and shes' there to help ((assuming they live together)). YOu may see it all the time, but if you're at a friends house, she's not there to control it, and she actulaly IS making this desicion for you.
The way to let her let you go places, though, is to earn her trust. YOu can't earn that, though, if you're doing things you shouldn't be doing.
Maybe suggest to your friends to hang out in places without alchohol//drugs//ect.?
Good luck, anyway!!
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Show your mom that you are responsible,that you deserve to be trusted,treated like a growm up like for example doing housework,completing with your schoolwork,showing your good grades or doing favors for her when she asks you too,then she'll start to see things differently,and trust me she'll change her ways with you.
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