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My name is Geri-lynn

I live in Harvey, Louisiana. Harvey is on the westbank of the New Orleans metro area, so yes I hate Katrina. But pretty much everything is okay now, it`s back to normal. The sluts, the rumors, and the parties are now open for business.I have a boyfriend and I love him. I REALLY DO LOVE HIM. But my mother hates him. He is 18. He goes to my school`s rival, West Jeff. He plays baseball and football. He was Mr. West Jeff & I'm oh so proud of him. I have the best friend ever, i love you kB


Adrianna

- The name is ^

- 16

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** I like giving advice. it may not be the best but it is the honest truth. I dont judge before hand but if your an idiot.. then your an idiot. I dont care much for people that lack common sense and say stupid idiotic crap just for attention. But other then that im a really nice, and understanding person. Chances are i've been through the stuff you are going throu or i just know knowlegde about it. and other times i have no earthly idea on how to help you. But anywho Bye**


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ok. well i have stage fright rly bad. i freak out when i have to talk in front of my class of 23 people or less. i got accepted to be on a team at school. well we have to perform in front of hundreds of people at football games and pep rallies. im really scared. how can i get over this??

mann in my 5th grade year i was the mc of my whole class dare program. agh i was so scared.. the best thing to do in which it helped me..

when your on stage think as if you are the only one standing there,. block out everyone else. do what you would normally do when no one is watching.. dont think about messing up cause chances are you will..

-Adrianna

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A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk and when it was my birthday and phoned me and sang happy birthday and mailed me a gift (he lives out of state). He'll also say Bye Beautiful everytime we sign off on msn messanger. What do you think I should do?

the reason why i think he is cold and bitter is because he likes you so much he doesnt want to show you how he feels for when. like guy mood swings. he likes you either way but he figured you are moving on so he needs to show you he is to even thou he can't. tell him how you feel about him. promise you things would change..

remember everything happens for a reason

-Adrianna

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This friend I used to be really close with all of a sudden treats me like I'm a stranger. When I talk to them, they respond briefly then turn away. It's worse than being a stranger, cuz my friend's can be pretty friendly with strangers, not cold and distant like lately. I try talking to them about this recent change but they get all defensive, so what am I supposed to do? I don't want to lose a friend =\

staright forward answer:

-if you have a b/f they are jealous and they are tryin to give you a cold treatment
- if you have something they want, they are jealous
75% friends do that because they are jealous of something you have that they wish they could have.

it sounds like they are shuning you.. shunin which i just learned is where two or more freinds ignore and juve you the cold shoulder for no reason.. my freinds use to be into that. which i find veryy stupid and immature, but hey it happens..
just stay yourself.. dont stoop down to their level. if u show sadness then that would make them happy.. dont show any signs of them winning their little game. they will come around after tget grow up.

-Adrianna

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okay so im 14/female... ive only had one REAL boyfriend, but we were together for 10 months and it was the bomb. but anyways. i was at this really decent party and there was this guy there named stephon and hes really cute!! so i was talkin to him and we were flirting and stuff so i was like lets go out front, so we did. and we were just talking( we hardly knew eachother but he was really nice) and somehow we started hooking up... so yeah after that we went back to the party and we just talked the whole time about whatever and we have soo much in common! he's amazing and hes really smart. but anyways we exchanged numbers and all and i walked him part of the way home and he kissed me bye.... and im just wondering, like i know he liked me and i want to go out with him but how can i keep him interested since we already hooked up? cuz hes really amazing
ill rate if youre good thank soo much!

Okay dont stress on how to keep him interested cause chances are you would try to hard then poeple tend to act differently then they really are when that happens.. dont think on how to act just act. act yourself. be yourself. do what you would normally do. dont dont dont dont move to fast. cause im older but their was this guy that i had a crush on for a year and i finally got to know him good.. we talked for two weeks and i "hooked up with him" and everything was good a little after but it didnt last. and sometimes i just think maybe i moved to fast.. even thou now i know i could so do better but still u got to think about it.. before hand. i measn he was the best ever.. but was.. dont let first impressions fool you.. just keep your guard up. but dont advoid him and dont pester him either

-Adrianna

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i scanned some pictures onto my computer. i tired to put them on my space but they come out to small so you cant tell who it is if its my default pic or if you go into view more pics you can only see them good if you click on them. how do i make them bigger?

scanning sucks most of the time. none of the pictures come out on a good. size you can go to paintshop and stretch and skwel the pic.

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i love to sing and i have a really nice voice. but i cant get over my fear of singing. i want to be in my Spring Musicals and definatley Sing for my 8th grade year at the talent show. i joined chior so that can help and it has. i had a solo to do but it wasnt infront of alot of people. im afraid if i will freeze up infront of tons of people. any ideas on how i can make sure im over it and how to get over it just in case im not. i also sing with my instructor but its easy not singing infront of a little bit of people. so if you have any tips please tell me. i want to do this and not freeze up.

aghh totally ive been there.. i never singed in front of anyone.. then one day i was singing and im like mannn i sound good haha.. so i sung for my mom, my best guy freind and my best gurl friend and they loved it.. well my other guy freind herd me and wanted me in his band but that was a year ago.. from then on i keep it to myself and i tryed for my church chior.(youth) i did good considering i ddint know those songs and everyone else did.. but i sung it differently then the youth does.. i made group b btu that is still none the less awesome.. i guess what im saying is that u shouldnt not do something cause of fright. that is the worst way to strike out.. just go for it. what is the worst that can happen. be rejected.... what is better actually going for it and gettin over it or just thinkin about it and letting it stress you?

-Adrianna

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I know this isn't a medical website, but I called the doctor's office and they're booked until tommorow. 15/f

Since Friday I've been pretty sick. Friday I had the chills and a fever (at one point I was delirious) but I had a really important performance for drama so I went. Saturday I was delirious all day, chills, fever, sore throat, runny nose. Sunday my ears started to hurt, throat hurt, painful cough, lots of sneezing. Last night my eyes started to produce mucus (i know, gross). I was literally picking it out of my eyes. This morning when I woke up my eyes were crusted shut and I couldn't open them without washing them off. My eyes sting and the veins are bright red...from a small distance my eyes appear pink, and I still have a fever.

Any idea of what this is? Pinkeye maybe? Or if you know something that will help my eyes, I can't keep them open but when i sleep they get crusted shut. Sorry this is so long!

oh hun i think it is way more serious then pink eye indeed.. im not a doctor nor do i have any right to honestly tell you what you have,, but hope u feel better..

-Adrianna

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mk dont think im like weird or anything..but i sweat. ALOT i dunno what to do like just at school and stuff ill like sweat under my armpits for no reason at all! i tried like deoderant called certain dry and let me tell you, IT DOES NOT WORK FOR ME!!! should i like get perscription or what??? please and thank yous!!

aghh my freind as this problem. and like when im gettin ready for soemthing i do to.. i mean u could get a perscription if it is totally bad. i know it agevrated me soo much when i come from outside and im sweatin... but also try to wear less clothing. like dont layer. that is my problem lol.. but im sure you already know that..

-Adrianna

Theres a shot you can get.. I think its every 3 months but im not sure. There are also so perscription deordant

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THIS MAY S0UND LIKE A STUPID QUESTION; BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU? ♥

okayyy this to myyy thought was the best advice i have ever gotten from a guy themselves.. my ex guy freind told me that you can tell if a guy lieks you.. if

when the guy is with his freinds in a group talking that guy always manages to face you..

get it.. he wants to look at you and see who you are talking to and all.. they try to look at you at any given chance

-Adrianna


keep in mind that is from like a hottie himself..

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I liked your sweet 16 ideas. Can you elaborate a little bit? Also, is there a way I can keep it so it doesn't cost a ton of money? My parents already paid for a whole bat mitavah, so they won't go all out with tons of cash. Have any ideas or websites that would help keep it inexpensive?

70's.. colorful decorations or just strobe lights and colorful lightbubls. have people come all dressed up with 70's cloths.. u just supply a 70's cake and some lightin and some music u can either be your own dj or get one.. i think that would be great

black and white it prolly the most inexpensive
your gueat wear all but black and white.. people love to go out with that.. you by simple black, white, or silver decorations and thats about it.. its fun

websites i dont really know but you can buy party decorations for really cheap at like dollar tree or big lots and walmart. if they have those stores.

-Adrianna

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Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!!

he likes you.. simple.. it could be he said no because he is not ready for a relationship.. he lieks you but maybe he just doesnt get the idea of commitment by having a g/f. i know your not leading him on and he shouldnt do that with you.. try to lay low and ignore him a tad bit more.. when he comes running back let him know you arent always going to be there.. you dont want a guy to think that he controls you..

-Adrianna

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I'm sorta going to try a diet. Liek eatin 4 small meals a day. And maybe walking around the block 2-3 times a day. Do you think this will work?

And if not can u explain why not please??

okay a diet is okay. butt instead of walking 2-3 times a day just work out 20 minutes 3 days a week. or 5.... have a balanced routine. it works.. dont drop any foods out your eating habits.. that isnt healthy. but eliminate junk fod as much as you can

-Adrianna

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i work at a hair salon, and i use biolage gel. i like it, and it works well but it's really crunchy.. is there a kind of styling gel that doesn't make your hair crunchy? if so, what is it and how much is it?

Im very into hair and make-up alot.. i really like glue'd, beeswax, and cement

beeswax doesnt leave it crunchy at all. that is the best.. for me atleast

-Adrianna

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I want to have a sweet sixteen but nothing big (my parents wont let me cuz i already had a bat mitzvah). I also want some sort of dress code, and theme. What are some good themes? Don't say like take friends to an amusement park, because I want a party.

ohh wow awesome that u asked...

a black and white party them is awesome.. aghh it is fun for guys and gurls as well.. my freind recently had one and people went all out.. it is major fun

a hollywood theme party.. people dress up as movie stars and singers and all that good stuff

a mardi gras theme is awesome too

and 70's theme is uber fun too.. man i can go on forever.. haha


i love partyin

-Adrianna

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I will try to make this as simple as possible. Im a 42 yo male, however I do not feel like it nor do I look like it or act like it. Most all my friends are 20-25, I can hang with them and act just as crazy( with out being ingnorant) but I can also be the adult when I have to be. My question: Is it wrong for me to enjoy the company of the younger crowd, meaning, I am attracted to a 20yo female, Im not like some sexual preditor chasing/hunting down the teen hotties, Im just more attracted to them.Part of me feels totaly wrong for having these feelings.Give it to me strait and tell me how terrible I am. Sincerly mndfrk

Im much younger then you.. but coming from my point of view i dont think that is wrong at all. you cant help who you like.. So what i hang out with alot of older people and i like older people... doesnt make me bad of a person. it just depends on how u look at it.. if a 20 year old is intertested in you and you are as well then go for it.. dont let age set you back on living life to the fullest.. your serisouly not a terriable person for feeling that way and i cant even imagine why you would think so

-Adrianna

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Okay. This is kinda gross. My feet smell and it's a disgusting odor. It's really embarressing if you go to someone's house and have to take your shoes off. Is there a way I can control the odor? Please help!!

foot odor podwer.. you can find it at walmart or any corner store really. hope that helps

-Adrianna

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Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with me?
Everytime i like a descent guy and then they like me back, i pull away and dont like them anymore.
Whats my problem!?!

ohh i so have the same problem with you. and you want to know why i think that is..

it is the fact that yeah they may be decent but there is something about them that doesnt keep you interested in them. when you think you found something special their is always more you want. and that is perfectly fine cause you shouldnt settle your standards for anyone. god has someone for everyone. And if u arent satisfyed then big deal.. there are going to be more choices. and really this is just helping you find that right person. You learn from your mistakes in this case guys u thought you liked and you improve. hope it makes sense

-Adrianna

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I'm14 and i'm not crash dieting but i'm trying to tigheten up my tummy for the summer but the thing is i really don't want my breats to shrink what do i do to loose weight while avoiding that?

thanks,
Becky

by working out that doesnt mean your breast will shrink heh.. do crunches and run.. that will totally help you out alot.. i work out alot.. i run and do crunches too.. im still the same size. not very big but that has never changed heh.
-Adrianna

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ny friend is a little weird
she is kinda braggy about everything
like at school...she'll have a book and be like "oh your so jealous of my book" and shes kidding around but its still really annoying cuz she does it all the time
also she kinda gossips about my other friends and i tell her that i dont like talking about my friends, and she still tries to gossip about them
what should i do? i dont want to be mean

just be staright forward.. tell her u dont like her always joking around about things. That you dont take her bragging as a joking way. she is your freind you should be able to talk to her in a mature way.

-Adrianna

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my ex boyfriend [ i just broke up with him tonight ] wont talk to me. he practically hates me .. were talking on the phone right now and i love him to death but he just treats me wrong. i mean its just when hes around me hes fine, but when hes with his friends hes just stupid. what should i do ? ;please help'

totally. if he cant treat you the same around his freinds as he does when yall are alone then he needs to work on that.. he shouldnt hate you and if he does then you deserve better!! might be cold and bitter but why want someone who is a jerk to you.. ?!!

-adrianna

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