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ex boyfriend
my ex boyfriend [ i just broke up with him tonight ] wont talk to me. he practically hates me .. were talking on the phone right now and i love him to death but he just treats me wrong. i mean its just when hes around me hes fine, but when hes with his friends hes just stupid. what should i do ? ;please help'
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totally. if he cant treat you the same around his freinds as he does when yall are alone then he needs to work on that.. he shouldnt hate you and if he does then you deserve better!! might be cold and bitter but why want someone who is a jerk to you.. ?!!
-adrianna
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when your ex is with his friends he acts stupid and is horrible to you becuase he is hiding his true feelings for you
you need to tell him that this is not the right way to treat you
if he really likes you he shouldn't be afraid to tell his mates that
i know it's hard to take in but this is the truth
talk to him face to face
if things don't work out then there are always other boys available
or as we say now adays
plenty more fish in the sea
love
summer
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
P.S. hope this helps your situation
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There is really nothing you can do. I know that you really don't want to hear that but the truth is, he's probably hurt by it all and he's ignoring you and acting as though he hates you to try to hide his real feelings.
If you haven't already, tell him that you are sorry if you hurt him and explain to him exactly why you can't be with him any more. Knowing why might take some of the edge off his feelings because everyone has a right to know why someone no longer wishes to be with them and telling them means it is a point he can work on for future relationships.
After this has been done, there is only time which can heal his wounds. I know it's a cliche but it is the truth. He needs time to accept the situation and after a while, he should start behaving normally again.
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Give him a little time. Since you just broke up with him tonite, he hasn't gotten a chance to get over it. If he wants a reason that you broke up with him, calmly tell him you were hurt by the way he treated you when his friends were around. Guys who change around their friends are pathetic, he should treat you the same way always. You didn't do anything wrong for feeling the way you do, so don't let it get you down. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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