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I feel like a fool.
Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with me?
Everytime i like a descent guy and then they like me back, i pull away and dont like them anymore.
Whats my problem!?!
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ohh i so have the same problem with you. and you want to know why i think that is..
it is the fact that yeah they may be decent but there is something about them that doesnt keep you interested in them. when you think you found something special their is always more you want. and that is perfectly fine cause you shouldnt settle your standards for anyone. god has someone for everyone. And if u arent satisfyed then big deal.. there are going to be more choices. and really this is just helping you find that right person. You learn from your mistakes in this case guys u thought you liked and you improve. hope it makes sense
-Adrianna
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you don't put forth complete trust or maybe you dont love yourself completely so you cant love anyone else until you love yourself
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your problem is your afraid of comiting, or your just not ready
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It's something I've seen people do before. If you've never been with someone before, it's probably because you're afraid you won't know what to do with a relationship, or you might end up ruining things and they wouln't like you anymore. When you have a little bit of insecurity like this, it's something that's hard to get over.
However, if you like the person, and he's a good guy, then you should give him the chance to prove your doubts wrong.
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First off, you're not a fool. Something inside you must be scared. All you need to do is conquer your fear. Maybe you still like them, but your telling yourself you don't. If they ask you out, go out with them. If you still really don't like them, you haven't found the right guy. Maybe you're all of a sudden start focusing on flaws when you realize they like you. Instead of concentrating on the flaw, concentrate on the good things. This way, you might not pull away so quickly. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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Don't be hard on yourself. Likely your problem is fear of getting hurt if you have been hurt in the past or if you are just scared in general.
If you find yourself jerking away from a lot of guys, maybe you aren't quite ready to be with someone yet or you should keep going with the guy and try learning to trust and get over your fears.
Besides, it's not like you have to find your husband right now. You'll probably go back and forth with a lot of guys. Take it easy and try understanding yourself instead of beating yourself down.
-TheTeenGirl
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sometimes
you get to scare
to admit that someone descent might like you back
or it could be you dont actucally
like them like them
you just have a little crush
dont feel bad at all, cause i have done that sooo many times but i cant say i regret it because of this quote i learned..
"there is no such thing as a regret.. cause at one point it was excatly what i wanted"
so at that point you didnt want to hook up with him. which is totally cool.
just from now
admit to it.
its ok.
you will be fine.
the worse is he can say no
&&
if he does
just know he wasnt the right guy for you
guys come and go
just remember that
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YOUR SCARED!!!! relationships are hard to come by and wen you think its perfect many questions run through your head. Its common. Just fight the fear and let you take over your body and not your doubts.
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hey! nothing is wrong with you! maybe you are scared of beeing in a relationship... or maybe you are just too picky. if you think you are too picky, then just pick 3 things that you absolutely need to have in a boyfriend (ex. funny, talkative, caring) and look for them in your next crush. if he has those qualities, then give the guy a chance even if he has a weird laugh or doesn't drive the nicest car... basically, stick to the 3 qualities you really want, and don't pay attention to the rest.
if you think you are just scared of commitment, then there is no need to rush right now... you have your whole life to be in serious relationships. if you think it would be better to just casually date and flirt right now, then go ahead and do that! there is nothing wrong with knowing what you want and doing just that... even if it's not what everyone else is doing! as long as you are happy, it is all that matters, and trust me eventually you will be ready to commit! :) let me know if you need more help!
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