okay so im 14/female... ive only had one REAL boyfriend, but we were together for 10 months and it was the bomb. but anyways. i was at this really decent party and there was this guy there named stephon and hes really cute!! so i was talkin to him and we were flirting and stuff so i was like lets go out front, so we did. and we were just talking( we hardly knew eachother but he was really nice) and somehow we started hooking up... so yeah after that we went back to the party and we just talked the whole time about whatever and we have soo much in common! he's amazing and hes really smart. but anyways we exchanged numbers and all and i walked him part of the way home and he kissed me bye.... and im just wondering, like i know he liked me and i want to go out with him but how can i keep him interested since we already hooked up? cuz hes really amazing
ill rate if youre good thank soo much!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? barbieblissx answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 8:15 pm: Okay dont stress on how to keep him interested cause chances are you would try to hard then poeple tend to act differently then they really are when that happens.. dont think on how to act just act. act yourself. be yourself. do what you would normally do. dont dont dont dont move to fast. cause im older but their was this guy that i had a crush on for a year and i finally got to know him good.. we talked for two weeks and i "hooked up with him" and everything was good a little after but it didnt last. and sometimes i just think maybe i moved to fast.. even thou now i know i could so do better but still u got to think about it.. before hand. i measn he was the best ever.. but was.. dont let first impressions fool you.. just keep your guard up. but dont advoid him and dont pester him either
ND143 answered Sunday May 28 2006, 11:39 pm: you said.."how can i keep him interested since we already hooked up?"
well thats the first thing thats wrong. if he really matters, he shouldnt just want you for the hookup. i'm sure you already know that but make sure you reinforce it upon yourself.
just keep flirting with him, get to know more about each other but dont jump into things. you also said you want to go out with him. but i think if you JUST met him, its a little too soon. you dont want to scare him off. hang out with him a few more times, keep talking to him but make sure to take things slow but keep things interesting at the same time. if its worth it, he'll stay interested. good luck girl :] [ ND143's advice column | Ask ND143 A Question ]
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