Whenever I am with my boyfriend, I run out of things/compliments to say. Like when he holds my hand. I seriously have nothing to talk about with him. So i end up repeating myself, asking the same question. HELP!?
wow i never heard this one before, like seriously..try not to think tom uch about what you aare goin to say cuzse it makes it more difficult, tell him something about what happened at school, or something funny that happened. You dont always need compliments. Just say things to him that you would normaly tell your friends, and if its dificult to talk to him because he is your boyfriend then imagine him as a friend, but your on your own, cause converstaion should come out of nowhere
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okay, I don't want to make this a really long story but I dated this guy for 8 months...we broke up the end of February. He was my first "real" boyfriend and I was crushed when he said we should see other people. After about a month I realized things about our relationship that I couldn't see when I was in it. I've met a new guy now and we've been dating almost two months. The two of them are like opposites. My new guy is so sweet. I've been feeling like he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. Yesterday, my ex called me and wanted to know if we could go out again. I guess he had looked at my myspace because he knew that I was seein someone else. He was begging me to give him another chance. I can't believe that I am thinking about it even though I know that it will mess up what I have with this new guy. Is it possible to like two guys at the same time? Why do I want to go back to the "bad" guy and chance losing this guy that has been nothin but great???
you should like so already know the answer to this!!!IF ur ex broke up with he had already made his decision. He wanted to see other people, and if you really like this new guy then stay with the new guy!!!Follow your heart, your ex is probably really got but he did break up with you and crushed your heart. Its time to move on and find a new love, its the new guy.But it is fine that you still like your ex, but it will fade away when you get yourself someone new okay
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4 days ago she started to feel sick the same time she ate a meat lovers pizza, and now she always throwing up and sick, all the signs or being pregant, but she gets that 3everytime she eats meat. so is she or does she just have food poison btw, a comdum brokke in her about two weeks ago though she is on the pill and the condum had spermicide
See thats why i dont have sex!!! lol, but i think its food posioning or maybe she has a virus. Because same thing happened to me. I went through it a whole year. Everytime i ate it got me running to the bathroom.Its stomach sensitivity okay. But i think she should get tested.
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Male 19 and female 18
Me and my girlfriend have been together for two years. Well lately she's been using all types of excuses for us not to hang out...like today we were supposed to hang out but she said she wanted to go home and shower first which would leave us with half an hour to hang out. Well then she calls me back five minutes later and says her dad says she can't...the samething happened with this coming weekend. Her friend is having a party we were invited to and told me she didnt want to go...well a couple days later I asked if we could hang out this weekend she said maybe at the party even though she had already said we weren't going...its been going on for a couple of weeks
...and also we rarely talk on the phone anymore...we use to talk on the phone like 30 minutes before we went to bed and 30 minutes in the morning as well and various times through out the day...now its more like 2 minutes maximum a day...I dont know if this means she wants out of the relationship and it's her way of breaking it off...I need Advice
Wow sounds to me this isnt going to last long. I guess she wants to move on ,and when you to get the chance to hang out talk to her about, ask her if something is wrong, and does she still ahve feelings for you...and if she admits that she wants to move on...then let her go, but try making it seem your goin to break up with her, and if she breaks down crying, it means she still wants you, and it isnt her fault that all this shit is happening...you got me??? Because same thing kinda happens to me, but her being 18, isnt she now a little to old to be following daddys permissions??? i know i wouldnt lol. so i guess she is making excuses. And when she does make them, show her that your angry. And threaten to break up with her
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i have had about a few girls who confessed their love or infatuation towards me but the thing is i'm not the type of guy that falls into love easily like most ppl(no offense) and I just wanna be friends.so how do i reject a gal in the most polite,friendly and casual way?
well if were to be rejected, do it this way. "Your real cute and all, but im just not ready for a girlfriend right now" or " i have so much shut goin on that i cant have a girl right now, but we could still talk if you want...as friends" but dam man, you have to experience love soon!!! it puts you in a splendid mood lol
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i have been having sex with my boyfriend for over a month now. we have sex just about 6 times a week. i have yet to orgasm. we are trying. but what is something that i could do to help out? and i have never masterbated or experienced an orgasm. i would like to experience one. haha
just some kind of tip for us. thanks.
It might be a health problem but i doubt it. I guess when you guys have sex, your mind drifts and goes to places. Try to relax and think of your boyfriend, like the face hes doing, bitting his lips as he fucks you, enjoy the graoning and moaning, and think about how hot he is, and it will turn you on. I read it in a magazine, but if i think about my man out of no where i know it turns me on like "el diablo" lol
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When we and my boyfriend are making out he moved my hand to his penis and I don't knwo what to do. He's still wearing his clothes and everything but what do you think he expects of me? I'm an older teen but I've never really had a serious relationship and I don't have a problem doing anything I just don' tknow what.
My boyfriend would do this all the time...I guess if you feel comfortable enough...kinda jerk it through his jeans, but if you dont feel comfortable, the simply give him a flirty push and say " omg wat are doing" but i guess he expects you to jerk him or pull down the zipper, but dont do anything your uncomfortable with, like giving head, dont do anything you might reqret...unless you get some in return hahahahahaha lol im just kidding
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if you were doing sexual things with a guy and he only pre-cummed and didnt fully cum is it unpleasurable for them? and another question is when i guy fully comes how much is it?
well personally a guy never precummed with me *snicker* lol, but yea i guess its unpleasurable and when a guy comes, boy is it a hand full, it drips if you leave it out of control lol
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ok this guy likes me but is way too shy
and i like him so much
we are very random and just our complete selfs around eachother and i reallllly like him a lot
we are both on the swim team together
well he wants to go out with me but is too shy to ask
and he told my friend he'd rather have me ask
i just want to know a good way to say it
15/f
Im going through this at this very moment, the guy im talking to is REALLY shy. So when your with him. Talk to him, and tell him..."do you like me" and if he answers "yes" then just ask him out but make seem like your not asking him out so he dosnt notice "Then can i be your girl...I really think we should...you know...go out" it will make him blush, but its an easy way...now i just gotta take my own advice and get my man lol, but try it and tell me if it works out.
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hey iam felicia at school ther is this guy and he likes me really bad but he had a gf and she still wants to go out with him but i dont know if i like him he evrytime wants to ask me out but i run away from him cause i dont wanna say an answer i dont know what to do. please help
thankxx
felicia
well if you dont like him, simply tell him " oh god...im already talking to someone..sorry" but if u do want to go out with him and he tries talking to you, dont avoid it, tell him " bu you have a girlfriend, so you shouldn't be talking to me" or "dont you got a girl?" something like that, but if hes creeping you out, be like me" can you like, go away, your pissing me of" lol
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so theres this kid and iunno i kinda think hes cute...and it seems like he mite think the same about me becauz i always notice him lookin at me...i see him around all the time and my mom has even talked to him and i really want to just start a friendship with him but iunno how to start talkin to him? how can i start talkin to him and being his friend? its hard cuz im shy but i really need help cuz the skool yrs almost ova and i wanna start talkin to him! Thanks
Lost Admirer
Oh this one is great. That happens to me alot. Do you talk to him at least awhile. IF not, do this, when walking in the hallway and you pass him and hes looking at you, give him a small smile, or a big smile, or while walking, try getting in front of him. Or bump into him. Talk to some of his friends, but not flirty, like Hey You, or say if hes talking to someone you know, get into the conversation, or tell him to pass you something, or ask him for help. It works for me. And slowly by slowly you'll start talking.
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8th grade formal is friday! Well i just found out this girl has the same dress as me. And people always get us confused for some reason and now we have the same dress! any ideas on maybe how to make me look different. And my dress is a halter dress how should i wear my hair? i'm not really sure. I have curly brown hair its not thick i just have a lot of it. i can straighten it and pretty do what ever i want with it. But i'm just not sure what i want it to look like. my hair is longer though.. any ideas?
any ideas for my hair for formal?
any make-up tips?
my dress it black and white- i wanted color but eh any ideas would be helpful
the main thing is i don't wanna look "sleezy" i have longer legs and i have high enough heels and the dress is shorter and tight...soo i wanna look i guess sexy but cute? if you knwo what i mean!
thanks a lot!
I think you should hold your hair up, curly and frilly, but leave your bangs hanging or flattened with gel. It will make you look adorable. and since your dress is black, you want your eye makeup to match. since im famous for my makeup skills in my city lol, use an extreme long lash defining masscara, and make your eye lashes look long and also on the bottom lashes. It will open your eyes. Then use a light sweep of dark eyeshadow, on you lid and do it a bit thick on your lash line. As for jewelry, since your dress is black and white, dont use gold. Use silver earrings. I have more ideas, if this is not that helpful ask me for more okay
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im 15 female..the first boy i gave my heart to was in october last year..its been about 6 months and we're not together but we both love each other. i have another boyfrined right now that im not really into, he doesnt treat me right.
anyways..all i seem to think about is my love everyday every second every minute...and he doesnt call me everyday and that gets me mad/sad and he doesnt have a cell and he knows i dont have his #. i was just wondering why i cant get over him i know he loves me and cares about me and i appreciate that soo much from him .....im going crazy lol i love him soo much.
awww sweety many say you can get over a long...but it takes awhile, it takes a lot of time, especially if you had many moment together, and great memories, i would cry when i would see visions of it in my head, or i would smile for no reason...but if you care about him so much and you know that he loves you too, the next time you see him, try talking to him, but if their is friendship between you guys...keep it safe and keep that friendship..even though it drives you crazy haha
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ok well im 15/f and my ex bf is 16. WE broke up before my birthday which was april 11th. He called me to wish me a happy birthday and ever since then we have been talking. He asked me what would i say if i we went back out. I told him i would think about it. Well one of his best friends said that lately he has been doing drugs for the past month and stuff. I asked him about it and he said that he does do drugs now and he sells it now too. Well thats just not cool to me but i love him alot i mean hes the one who broke up with me i didnt want to lose him. I dont know wat to do i want to go back out with him but im not sure if thats a good idea?!? i need help thinking of the pros and cons of me going out with him if hes going to do this. Im not sure why he does this i mean he has money he doenst need any im the one that doesnt have hardly any money ever! i just want him to stop doing that shit but he told me that he wasnt and he told me that i shouldnt care because i do that shit too but i dont i told him i dont and i never will. I need HELp! please help me anyone i would like to hear alot of people's opinions and ideas. thanks :]
Well my sister had a boyfriend who did drugs and sold it. We never really seemed to convince him to stop, because hes addicted and cant stop. But if your afraid, just dont be around him, but if you love him alot, tell him that, tell him " i love you, and it hurts me when you do this...it could lead to bad things...drugs dosnt make you cool, it makes you look pathetic" something like that. sorry i tried
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ok..well theres this guy that is my friend and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me. and expecially since hes older then me i am only 16 and he is 19, but that doesnt matter to me because older guys i find are more mature. i dont know what to do and he flirts with me and i flirt back and i dont know if i should tell him how i feel please please help!!!
16/f
That happened to me. I want you to do this. Sit in front, or look in a mirror. Look at yourself, are you pretty? Do you think he would like you? If hes flirting with you its possible that he feels something for you. Is there any poking involved? or a friendly push? does he always say hi, or does he pretend he dosnt see you? Ask one of his friends or your friends to ask him, tell them to tell him " hey (watever his name is) do u like (watever your name is) i see the way you guys flirt" something like that so that it isnt obvious.And if the answer is yes, then tell him "hey i think your cute....and i like you...wat do you think of me as your grl?" and if he answers no, just pretend you didnt hear anything, and continue being friends....did that help a bit?
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19/F
My boyfriend of nearly 8 months and I are living together (I just moved in) and we're both university students. I love him dearly.
He has a twin brother. This brother has no social life, or social skills for that matter. I like him, he's a nice guy.
The problem is that my boyfriend constantly puts his brother ahead of me. I know that their bond is deeper than the bond between us is, because they've been together for 20 years of their lives, and I'm just a new addition.
I posted a while back about a ruined 6 month anniversary, in which my boyfriend rejected my plan of cooking him a nice dinner, in favour of Taco Bell and playing video games with his brother. The same sort of thing keeps happening. Even though he doesn't live with us, this evil twin seems to always be there to ruin our romantic plans, and it's really wearing on me.
This guy is also rude and critical towards me (in my own home!) and my boyfriend keeps excusing him.
Now I find out that this twin wants to switch schools so that he's going to school at the same one as his brother. And he wants to live in the house (student house, holds 8 people) that we're in.
I don't want to be the b*tchy girlfriend, and I understand that family is very important to my boyfriend. If this guy moves in with us, it could ruin our relationship. I've tried discussing this with my boyfriend, and he got angry with me.
My question is, what do I do? I love my boyfriend, and I want him to be happy, but this brother has become quite the inconvenience.
Any suggestions as to how to deal with him?
First of all, try talking to him again. some times a little arguing can help. Tell your boyfriend,"can we please do this together, just us, not anyone else, not your brother" or "your brothers intering in our relationship" or " i feel left out, and if you do care about me...show it, dont let inone get between us..especially your brother" something like that. Personally i would hit the guy but i guess your not like this, so think about my advice that i just gave you.
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my bf got a new job..and i am so0o happy for him because he has been through a lot. but in a way iam kind of jealous and feeling left out....friday he waas just supposed to fill out paperwork..so he went down there at about 4. i get home from my game and drive to his house..and ifind that he was still there at 9! he left when i got there and said he just wants to learn..so i let it go. sunday he worked an extra hour..then stayed anotherr hour after that talking to one of the workers. and now today he isnt in school..i bet he walked deown to his job like he said he would in the morning..and its crazy because enough is enough! i probably sound selfish..but i kind of feel left out and jealous. what should i do?? dont get me wrong..i am totally happy for my bf..it just seems like he is OBSESSED.
oh dam same stuff is happening to me. Im talking to some guy but we can only see each other 2 times a week or less, cuz he works long hours from 9 in the morning to 7 at night. and i wish he would find himself a new job. so why dont you tell your boyfriend how you feel about his new job. and if he dosnt do nothing about it, then let him go and find someone else who DOES have time for you.
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Hi. I'm a 16/f. So there is this guy I like that goes to another school. When he and I started hanging out a lot, he had a girlfriend of like 6 months, but we were just hanging out as friends. Then he we decided that we liked each other. He broke up with his girlfriend (he said he was unhappy with her), and we started talking. I didn't want to rush into anything, so we agreed to just keep hanging out and talking and see where things went. Then he ended up getting back with his girlfriend one night. But we agreed to still be friends. Now, we are still hanging out. I still like him a lot. He tells me and everyone else how unhappy he is with his girlfriend. He said he had to give her just one more chance, but she didn't change. He also keeps saying "She's about to lose a great guy". So when we hang out, we just act like friends. But the other night, a bunch of people were at this girls house, and a lot of people ended up staying the night out in her back yard in tents (He invited me, & not his girlfriend). That night, me and him ended up sharing blankets and stuff in the tent. We cuddled all night, he held my hand a bit and rubbed my back. I think the kid is just really confused. My guess is that he doesn't want to end his long relationship (although he's not happy) for me, since he doesn't know if we would end up working out. He's told me he still has feelings for me and stuff. I just don't know what to do. I know I can't mess around with a guy with a girlfriend (you don't have to tell me, I know). I just can't get the kid off of my mind. If I don't talk to him, I go crazy. I haven't liked someone this much in a really long time. He is going to my school next year, and his school is like a week from being over. So I'm kind of hoping that once he doesn't have to see her and her friends everyday (When he dumped her, half his school hated him), he will be more open to other options. I'm not going to expect anything, because I don't want to get my hopes up, but still... (& if it helps, he's only been back with her for 2 weeks)
So What do I do? What is up with him?
This situation is driving me crazy. Any input would be great. Thank you for reading, and sorry it was so long =)
*sigh* girl i know what your going through, it happens like every year, but listen to this, if this guy is back with her and isnt happy, then whats it about huh? is it because she probably gives him you know what? And say if you guys go out, what if he starts hangin with another girl later on? so do what i do. When you guy hang out..be distant...when you talk to him, look him in the eyes, but dont smile. Make him think, "whats wrong" dont be up his ass. Be a bit distant, and wen you guys hand out again, ask him how him and his grl are doing, and if he replies, " not so good" Tell him, and be strait out " then why are you wit her...wats the point of being with sumone ur unhappy with??? move on...your not gonna be tied to her...so just let it go...and if you have feelings for me...then lets test this out...but you cant be with someone if she makes you unhappy..." something like that, im trying okay...but try not to show so much affection around him..make him want to die for you...do u understand sweetie?
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i straighten my hair almost everyday and i have a lot of split/dead ends.. what could i put in my hair before i straighten it so the heat dosnt distroy it even more?
thankss =]
well. I straighten my hair EVERYDAY, and Im surprised that my hair isnt dry, but i do have split ends and dead ends, but i cut my hair every 4 to 6 weeks. But to prevent my hair from over drying or burning, i used serums, or anti-heat, or straigting creams/sprays before i iron it. Place it on when ur hair is wet, especially your ends. Wait till your hair drys, and put another type of creame/serum on your hair, and more on the ends, so your hair is well protected from the heat. Not to mention it will look silkier. Use Frutis, Paintine (however u spell it) i think is best, or loreal. Make sure to use deep conditioning when you wash your hair.
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