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Maybe I don't want to believe it
Male 19 and female 18
Me and my girlfriend have been together for two years. Well lately she's been using all types of excuses for us not to hang out...like today we were supposed to hang out but she said she wanted to go home and shower first which would leave us with half an hour to hang out. Well then she calls me back five minutes later and says her dad says she can't...the samething happened with this coming weekend. Her friend is having a party we were invited to and told me she didnt want to go...well a couple days later I asked if we could hang out this weekend she said maybe at the party even though she had already said we weren't going...its been going on for a couple of weeks
...and also we rarely talk on the phone anymore...we use to talk on the phone like 30 minutes before we went to bed and 30 minutes in the morning as well and various times through out the day...now its more like 2 minutes maximum a day...I dont know if this means she wants out of the relationship and it's her way of breaking it off...I need Advice
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Wow sounds to me this isnt going to last long. I guess she wants to move on ,and when you to get the chance to hang out talk to her about, ask her if something is wrong, and does she still ahve feelings for you...and if she admits that she wants to move on...then let her go, but try making it seem your goin to break up with her, and if she breaks down crying, it means she still wants you, and it isnt her fault that all this shit is happening...you got me??? Because same thing kinda happens to me, but her being 18, isnt she now a little to old to be following daddys permissions??? i know i wouldnt lol. so i guess she is making excuses. And when she does make them, show her that your angry. And threaten to break up with her
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Sounds to me like you two were seeing eachother a hell of a lot. Sometimes, after that first wave of infautation wears off, couples don't see eachother quite so much. It doesn't mean that she doesn't want to be with you, it just means she has other things in her life that she needs to make time for as well as you.
Ask her straight up if anything is wrong, she might just need a bit more 'me time' lately, or she might want out. You wont really know unless you ask.
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Hey. Well, it sorta seems to me like she might need some space, or something is bothering her. You should ask her if you've done something to upset her, and if you did you're really sorry and you weren't aware something was wrong. If she says you didn't do anything wrong, ask her if there's something that's bothering her with her home life, or one of her friends, ect. If there's nothing wrong, that's when you bring yourself to ask the dreaded quesion, 'do you wanna breakup or something..?'. I really hope that isn't what she wants and wish you the best of luck :].
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I think the best decision for you is to talk to her. Ask her if theres something going on, and why she hasnt been "communicating" with you a lot lately. Maybe somethings bothering her, and she doesnt know how to cope with it, which is no excuse to not treat you reguraly, but still, it might affect how she treats others. Hope I helped!Happy Spring!
-Brina
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