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Do you ever get over your 1st love


Question Posted Sunday May 13 2007, 9:14 pm

im 15 female..the first boy i gave my heart to was in october last year..its been about 6 months and we're not together but we both love each other. i have another boyfrined right now that im not really into, he doesnt treat me right.
anyways..all i seem to think about is my love everyday every second every minute...and he doesnt call me everyday and that gets me mad/sad and he doesnt have a cell and he knows i dont have his #. i was just wondering why i cant get over him i know he loves me and cares about me and i appreciate that soo much from him .....im going crazy lol i love him soo much.


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VixenLuna answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 1:08 pm:
awww sweety many say you can get over a long...but it takes awhile, it takes a lot of time, especially if you had many moment together, and great memories, i would cry when i would see visions of it in my head, or i would smile for no reason...but if you care about him so much and you know that he loves you too, the next time you see him, try talking to him, but if their is friendship between you guys...keep it safe and keep that friendship..even though it drives you crazy haha

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luvbug555 answered Monday May 14 2007, 1:26 am:
i think hes probably playing you.

he wont give you his number

but he says he loves and cares about you? if he really does then why arent you going out??

you are the person that you can listen to most. if that makes sence
everytime your thinking about him, say "NO NO NO NO NO" out loud. then allow your mind to think of somthing else.

erase him from your memory

you will forget about him but it will be faster if you make yourself

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lindsey91 answered Monday May 14 2007, 1:21 am:
honestly i dont think you ever do get over your first love its been a year and a half ive been in love with this boy and no i havent gotten over him

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orphans answered Sunday May 13 2007, 11:48 pm:
The whole fact that you love this person is why you cant get over him. If your current bf doesnt treat you right is because you are comparing him to your ex. You cant do that, its not fair to him. If you dont want to be with him, why are you with him? Hun, i am not trying to bring you down. But I believe if you want to get over him or to truely see if you love eachother as you claim to be. LET HIM GO. If he truely loves you he will come back on his own. You two arent together and its hard when you speak to this person still to get over him. I'm in a similiar situation right now, but i have different problems then you. He has a gf and i can not keep loving him if he is still with her, so i decided to tone down the talks, not always be there for him, and/or not wait. And he is starting to finally come around and show me how much he really loves me, so i know he still loves me even though he has a crazy gf right now. You never know, you might just find Mr. Right while you try to heal from your ex. I hoped i helped. I only want the best for you. Its making you miserable/crazy and thats not how you should live.

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