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Why Do I Do This?
okay, I don't want to make this a really long story but I dated this guy for 8 months...we broke up the end of February. He was my first "real" boyfriend and I was crushed when he said we should see other people. After about a month I realized things about our relationship that I couldn't see when I was in it. I've met a new guy now and we've been dating almost two months. The two of them are like opposites. My new guy is so sweet. I've been feeling like he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. Yesterday, my ex called me and wanted to know if we could go out again. I guess he had looked at my myspace because he knew that I was seein someone else. He was begging me to give him another chance. I can't believe that I am thinking about it even though I know that it will mess up what I have with this new guy. Is it possible to like two guys at the same time? Why do I want to go back to the "bad" guy and chance losing this guy that has been nothin but great???
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Dont feel bad..its normal because this guy was your first real bf. But keep this in mind..the new guy is MUCH better for you...your ex blew his chance..and now there is a guy who is so much better to you..and thats what you desserve. Remember to keep that in mind..definately stick with this new guy,..it sounds like he treats you right.
-melissa-
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classic beleive me its totally normal and it sux but we always fall for the bad boys ok think about what happened to make you guys break up in the first place what didnt you like about him and think about the guy you have more. think who can you absoulty not live with out who do you think about more you know but remeber your ex hurt you once theres no garantuee that he wont do it again but are you willing to take that risk and think maybe your thinking about your ex because your relationship never really had a closer you know so think do you want to dump the new for the old and hope you made the right descion im sorry i cant tell you who u should choose because honestly ive been in your sito a few times and yet i always fall for the bad guys some times i have regrets but than i knew me and the others would never work and sometimes i always wondered what if i choose him well you live and you learn i hope i helped goodluck
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I'd have to agree with what VixenLuna said but I jus wanted to add that you also have to remember that the only reason he might now be coming back saying he wants another chance is because he has seen you have moved on. It seems it's more out of jealousy than anything else and the last thing you need is for him to be with you for a while and then a few months later decide you both should be able to see other people again. I can almost guarantee the only reason he even said that in the first place was probably because he had someone in mind he wanted to see but still wanted to keep you as a backup incase things didn't work out. I see no reason why you should have had to wait while he was out seeing other people and why you have to drop who your seeing just because he now has second thoughts or wants to carry on where you both left off.
I'd say you stick with the new guy you met and see how things go. He moved on and so did you. :]
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you should like so already know the answer to this!!!IF ur ex broke up with he had already made his decision. He wanted to see other people, and if you really like this new guy then stay with the new guy!!!Follow your heart, your ex is probably really got but he did break up with you and crushed your heart. Its time to move on and find a new love, its the new guy.But it is fine that you still like your ex, but it will fade away when you get yourself someone new okay
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