i have been having sex with my boyfriend for over a month now. we have sex just about 6 times a week. i have yet to orgasm. we are trying. but what is something that i could do to help out? and i have never masterbated or experienced an orgasm. i would like to experience one. haha
Also, you should try pleasuring yourself first, so you know what to do and what to show your bf to do to make you orgasm. Think of something that is very arousing to you, (a fantasy), and close your eyes. (Make sure your door is locked or you are home alone) Massage and roll your nipples between your fingers and then stroke down your belly and your sides like you would like your bf to do it. Now, you can stroke lower through your pubic region until you get wet and your lips plump up. Stroke your clitoris with your thumb and finger yourself with your middle and/or ring finger(s). (This will help you get used to having an orgasm with something stroking inside you also.)
When you finally have an orgasm, it will feel like an explosion.
VixenLuna answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 9:16 pm: It might be a health problem but i doubt it. I guess when you guys have sex, your mind drifts and goes to places. Try to relax and think of your boyfriend, like the face hes doing, bitting his lips as he fucks you, enjoy the graoning and moaning, and think about how hot he is, and it will turn you on. I read it in a magazine, but if i think about my man out of no where i know it turns me on like "el diablo" lol [ VixenLuna's advice column | Ask VixenLuna A Question ]
twistedlover69 answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 11:39 am: its actually a known fact no lie that if you dont masterbate its harder for a women to get an orgasim so what are you waiting for pet that kitty ha ha how do you expect somebody to give you an orgasm when you cant even do it yourself find you spots and guide him and i also 4 play sex helps but honey masterbate i have no shame in my game lol keep it real lol and if you tips on how my advice colume is always open hope i helped goodluck [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
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