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how do u reject a girl?
i have had about a few girls who confessed their love or infatuation towards me but the thing is i'm not the type of guy that falls into love easily like most ppl(no offense) and I just wanna be friends.so how do i reject a gal in the most polite,friendly and casual way?
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well if were to be rejected, do it this way. "Your real cute and all, but im just not ready for a girlfriend right now" or " i have so much shut goin on that i cant have a girl right now, but we could still talk if you want...as friends" but dam man, you have to experience love soon!!! it puts you in a splendid mood lol
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Just tell her that it's nice that she's interested, but you're not looking for a girlfriend right now.
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Speaking from experience, being rejected is never nice, no matter how polite it is.
First rule; never, EVER say anything like 'you're a great friend' because it's hideously degrading. Obviously, if this girl is already a good friend then it's okay to say something along the lines of 'I don't want to ruin our friendship'.
Something like 'you're a lovely, sweet girl and any guy would be lucky to have you but...I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now/I'm not ready for commitment/you deserve someone who will be dedicated to your relationship etc' is usually the best option.
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Well, I'm a girl and I know that if a guy goes around saying "Yeah, this girl likes me" after that girl says she likes him, it hurts.
So, just tell the girls that you're not looking for a girlfriend/too much going on. And that you still want to remain good friends but not more for now.
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