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OKay i have cingular and i have free nights and weekends ...i wanna know what their weekends are?? like is it Saturday and Sunday or Friday and Saturday???

Also what do they consider nights 9pm-???

THanks

Nights start at 9pm and weekends are considered Saturday and Sunday But technically your weekends start at 9pm on friday nights since saturday is a weekend :)

i have curly, dirty blonde hair. i cant reall wear it down because it gets kinda poofy and looks bad. my question is, what kind of stylying/products/anything can i use to make it look more like taylor swifts hair in either of these 2 pics:

http://images.scrippsweb.com/GAC/2006/05/22/taylorswift2_06_h_j.jpg

http://images.scrippsweb.com/GAC/2006/05/16/taylorswift2_v_p.jpg

Hair serum. Frizz ease, and garnier make some.

Oh my godd. My boyfriends mom saw his hickie that I gave him!! When he gave me my 1st one my mom found out and wasnt so mad, but his mom was upset when she saw it!! I have no idea wat to do. Now wat if his mom hates me. I already thought she did even though i was very polite and try and act normal around her and she caught us making out today too!! Oh my godd!! What should I do im gonna be so humiliated next time I see her!!! What woudl you do if you were in my place?

Stop giving him hickies in visible places. At this point there is nothing you can do other be respectful towards her and act like nothing happened. There is no point in apologizing or feeling bad about what you did. After all he is your boyfriend, what else does she expect y'all to do?

what is a best friend? is it a person who stabs you in the back? secretly talks about you? or even hookup with your crush behind your back? hm i dont think so. I thought i had a best friend....what do i do?

Realize that there is no such thing as a bestfriend. And always remember it's every man and/or woman for him/herself!

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So the pores on my nose are guess you would say are clogged? their fairly visible with dirt in them i try to wash and i use clinique larifying lotion but i can't get them "clean" what are some suggestions that i should use. Or that I could purchase at wallgreens?

Get a blackhead remover

omg im addicted to looking at peoples profiles and myspace pages! how do i stop? like i know this is stalker-ish, but sometimes when im bored i just read them and stuff

I do the same thing... there is nothing wrong with it, as long as you don't try to find out where they live, and literally stalk them. Sometimes there just isn't anything better to do.

What do you do when you are afraid that your mother in law is going to try to tell you how you should raise your kids? Like, I need to do things this way or that way, and they need to go to her church that my husband grew up in that I totally don't agree with everything.

You remember the fact that, that child is comming out of you, and you have the right to raise it with the views and morals that you and the father of your child agree upon. Me and my future mother-in-law have COMPLETELY different views. I was raised different than my bf. But in the end its up to me how i will raise my kids. She had a chance to raise her own. If she wants to raise another kid no one stopping her. She has the freedom to have another one. But your child is your responsibility. Not hers.

I am looking after this 6 year old. He is lovely. However, the mother recently left. I've been needed over a lot more to help out because his dad is really upset. After i've put the son to bed i go down and drink coffee with Brain (the dad). I can tell he really needs someone to talk to and we sometimes talk for ages. I dont want it to become inappropriate though so the conversation is usually quite censored. We talk about Tom (son) and about whether his wife has called. Thing is, we've become quite close. He's a really young dad but i dont want to split up a family or anything, so i would never initiate anythin. Thing is, he kissed me. It was completely random and he apologised loads afterwards. He said it was really wrong of him and he didnt want to loose me because im the only one he can talk to and ive helped out so much. We talked afterwards, my idea, i didnt want things to be awkward. He told me he liked me but would never want to put pressure on me and never intended on telling me.

I like him too. Its awful isnt it~? im a really bad person. But he's married. Its been 5 months since she's left and she hasnt called. And me and brian are becoming closer and closer "friends". nothings happened since, but i know if i wanted it to i could. I get on so well with Tom and i cant help thinking my morals are making me make the biggest mistake of my life

You didn't state how old you are... give it some time... you dont want him to like you just because his wife isn't around, you want him to truly like you for who you are. Continue helping him and continue keeping a friendship with him. If you really want to pursue a relationship give it some time. He needs time to heal.

im 14/f and i have the symptons of bipolar disorder. i thought only older people could develop this order. is it possible that at my age i have this?

You are older people... you should definitely see a therapist/pyschiatrist to get diagnosed.

well i think the reason me and my boyfriend are fighting is cause of my ex. im not just tryna blame it on him im serious. cause he ims my boyfriend and stuff and says stuff like oh im on the phone with caitlin even tho were not. and like on new years he was like yo i got your girl in my bed and i was like not even in his room, and he tells other people stuff and they all tell my boyfriend. and then my boyfriend thinks i like him and my ex is just ruining everyhing =[. also today was my boyfriends birthday and i completly forgot because last night we were fighitng and my mind was just somewhere else. so hes also mad at me for that. he also thinks i avoid him? i love him very much and im going to be crushed if anything happens. he signs on everytime he gets mad and he wont answer his phone. if i leave messages he wont call back. i dont know what to do. ive tried talking to him but its just not working. HELP FAST!

Seriousluy... STOP talking to your X. If you really love your boyfriend show him that your X doesn't mean anything to you, and he is just starting S*** for no reason.

Do you think I should give the guy I like hints as in smile at him and stuff. Can you give me more? Thanks

Yes smile, find an excuse to talk to him. Hint that you think may be interested in chillen with him. Once you get to know him tell him you think y'all should go get something to eat or go to the movies.

Hey grly. Just wanted to let you know im feeling alil better. i think i have a stomach virus or sumthin. i will call you!!

soundz good

i just got acrylic nails last night. i got the ones with white tips and then they filled in the rest. i was just wondering when i need to get them filled like how often? also do the nails get weaker when you take a bath or anything [considering your natural nails do and because the tips have glue and the clear stuff on them] and any other information or experiences with acrylic nails would be great.

Your supposed to get them refilled every 2 weeks. I don't think they get weaker when you take a bath. If you got the white tips glued on than you are going to have a hard time keeping up with them, because the tips are going to grow out. If you got white tips air brushed or painted on than you are just going to have to get em re-airbrushed or painted on everytime you go. you can also do that if you got the white tips glued on to keep up a french manicure.

I've noticed that none of my makeup has expiration dates, but I've read in magazines and other places that you're supposed to throw out mascara after about 3 months, foundation after about a year, etc. because the makeup does go bad. Well, the thing is, I got this really nice makeup kit for Christmas about 3 years ago and it contains about 50 different shades of eyeshadow. Now this makeup costed a lot of money, I still use it quite often, and I haven' even began to use it all. So, since I heard that you were supposed to throw out eyeshadow after awhile, I was wondering if I could still use this eyeshadow even though it's pretty old? Would it be harmful if I did? I use it a lot and I seem to be fine. But, will it eventually cause eye infections or something?

I think that rule applys after you've opened the make-up packages... God knows how long make-up sits in the factory or even on the shelves before we purchase it. You should throw away the masacara 3 months after opening the individual package. If your make-up came in one huge package and wasnt individually wrapped than im not sure. But if it was individually wrapped, and you didnt open everything 3 years ago, you should be fine.

can you make a smoothie with the only fruit being strawberries? (It is the only fruit right now in my kitchen and Im CRAVING a smoothie of some kind.) what else do I put in the blender? Ice? Milk?

Ice, milk, yogurt, sugar.

Okay, this is what is up. I was in a relationship with a 46 year old man...I am 20. Is that weird? I can not get him out of my head. We were dating, according to him, this summer, but broke up around September. He occassionally calls and asks if he can see me, etc. and I would really like to, but I don't know...How do I get this man I love out of my head, because right now a relationship is not possible?

Thanks for your answers in advance.

Jenn

Try to keep yourself occupied. Socializing always helps people get through break-ups. Go out with your friends, meet new people, join a sport, or start a new hobby. Be more involved in work or school.

What exactly is this myspace virus.?what does it do? how can you tell if youve got it?

If your talkin about the virus that post dirty bulletins under you account, than what you need to do is delete everything in your about me section or in books, movies. There's going to be some weird text in one of those sections that causes that virus. I had it, i had to rebuild my whole myspace page.

What is your opinion on black hair?do you think it ia boring and ugly?

It depends on facial structure and skin tone. I am medium toned, and ive colored my hair black, blonde, burgundy, brown. I personally think black is a pretty hair color.

he is talking to this other girl saying she is sooo hotttt and crap and he is flirting with her i need help what should i do dump him

Please dump him...

okay i got some corn rows put in..but my hair is silky and straight so it's a lil' different. i was wonderin how i should take care of 'em. like if i should wash them with a lil' bit of shampoo..etc. thank you

I have sumwhat silky hair too... and i used to wash my hair everyday when i used to get it corn-rowed. So if you have silky straight hair i think you should wash it everyday.

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