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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!) (link)
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They have been dating for about a year so that means she sees something in him you and your friends dont.If he is really that bad why dont you try to prove that to her without like really pointing it out to her and give her time cause she might be confused.hope i helped good luck!
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I am 14/f and my cousin who is 12/f will not leave me alone...i see her everyday and she calls me like 5 seconds after i see her on my cell phone and she wont shut up...she wont leave me alone on the internet and she keeps talking to me and my friends....it bugs the hell out of me.... and she copies everything i do and everything i wear....when i told her that she has to let me have some space she started crying and told her mom that i told her i hated her...which i never said. Her mom came over and told me that i had to be nice to her because she had no friends. What should i do to keep her from annoying me with out making her cry and making me look like a bad person? (link)
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DOes she have any brothers or sisters?If not then that means that she sees you as a sister and that she can confide in you.If you dresses like you that means she likes your style and she wants to be like you.I personaly dont see no harm i that but if it bugs you alot help he get her own style.If she bus you so much why dont you try to plan things with her ahead of time so she wont pop out of no where and when you plan things make sure that you plan time for urself and friends. Your not a bad person you just want time for yourself.and dont ell her leav me alone more like i dont have time right now y not some other time.i hope i helped good luck!
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there's this boy in school that i have a crush on
but he's popular and i don't think he would like me i don't know what to do i can't stop thinking about him (link)
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Become friends with him first then see how it goes because most popular boys sometime come out to be really snotty and every other girl like him and i bet you dont want a boyfriend everyother gurl wants.But if you want him to notice you then i suggest to FLIRT!i hope i helped good luck!
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hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself? (link)
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If you are straight forward then you get a qiuck answer and i bet that what you want.If you want him to get the message that you like him then flirt with him and give him small compliments and smiles.Then I bet he will get the point.And if you do tell him you like him whats the worst thing that can happen cause your not going to die or are you?OK well good luck and BYE!
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well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend? (link)
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You are in a tough situation.You need to think about who you enjoy most of your time with.If you ex boyfriend crys over you is because he regrets messing up and wants u back and might deserve a second chance.And i dont think you can fall in love real quick with his best friend.But it really depends on who you enjoy more time withand trust.but i think you should go with your ex he deserves second chance.GOOD LUCK!
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend were on my trampoline after school and my mom was home in the kitchen. We were kissin, and when he left, my mom gave me this lecturin about makin out and how im 2 young and how his parents gave him this talk. It did look like we were makin out, but like it wasn't really. Im 13 and hes 14, and i wanna no when u think the right age would be, and if my moms jus over-reacting?!?!? (link)
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They are over reacting but they are just looking out for you because when kids begin making out really young then its leads to more things and your parents are just looking out for you but as long as your boyfriend respects you its all cool.
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me and my dad...dont get along...at all..he takes the simplest things i say..so serious..and all wrong...for instance..the other day we were trying to decide wut to do for lunch...we all decided on something but then he jus had to change his mind. when they asked me i said 'i dont care can we jus go some place cuz im really hungry' his response 'well i dont like your attitude!!' my mom tries to calm him down but his final desicion is 'well i just wont eat then!!' he gets so mad at me for the stupidest things like that..and my mom steps in and tries to resolve it but he ends up mad at the both of us..and when he gets mad..he cusses...last year i went to a school..on the bad side of town(it was a magnet skool..for higher students..but all the peeple hoo lived around there went ther too) so i heard so much language i got sick of it....so one day when he was mad..i asked him not to cuz i hear enough of it everyday..well now..he still cusses..acts like that talk never happened..and he's my sunday skool teacher! and everyone thinks i live the perfect life when its horrible..my dad keeps telling me over and over how we may not have enough money for christmas this year...ive told my mom that i hate when he talks about stuff like that..i guess he thinks im to 'mature'..last sunday..we talked about 'controlling our anger' and he wuz like 'u decide to get angry' well he decides that a whole bunch! i just want to stop the fighting..and my mom and i have sat and cried after some fights..and i want to stop bringing my mom into these fights..i want to stop the fighting..but im not sure how..oh any by the way..im only 12 (link)
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I thought i was the only one!I'm goin gthorugh the same thing exactly the same my dad needs anger managment.Because whatever he say goes and that is the way it is well supposly to him.Im in the xact position but the way i deal with is by letting things go by.cause ur 18 in 6 years and he will be getting old and then he will be soon living off of you.you just needto be patient but if he ever gets out of hand call the police asy as thatbut untill then just know thatwont last.i hope i heped at least a little an if i didn sorrry good luck!
!~Ivanna~!
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Hey Hunz! This is strawberriilova92!!
My neighbor not really a friend, but not an enemy, an aquantaince!! *Dev* has been cutting herself...and she always writes these horrid, absolutely, horrid, gruesome, poems about killing herself!! It really scares me because I've seen her cuts! And I have told her to get help, but she won't listen. Today at school she said she was gunna cut herself deep and not stop the bleeding so she can bleed to DEATH!! Or take a bottle of pills, or some other self-mutalating way to kill herself!! I'm really scared I've known her since I was in diapers..is there anyway I can stop her before it's too late?? Sorry about length!!
PS--SHE HAS NEVER CUT HERSELF DEEPLY
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Well if she writes those poems she is expressing herself.Talk to her and ask he how all that started happening why is she doing that to herself.where it all began yu know wut i mean.try to tell her how much you care about her and dont want to see her hurt and stuff like that let her know how you feel.and tell an adult your mom her mom .i hope i helped good luck!
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Everyone said I'm immature for my age. I don't think i'm THAT immature .. it's just like the way I act. I act the way I do to amuse people, and people think im like soo funny and everything .. I don't wanna stop being how I am because being funny is what I do, but I still want people to stop callen me immature.
What should I do? Please help!
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be humorous in certain times not all the time cause after a while it will get boring if you know what i mean.but dont change because someone tells you to.but dont become all serious all the time cause that isn't very good cause people have to have fun sometime rite?Well good luck and i hope it works out.:)
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I am currently a first year university student. I have a problem with a talkative person that always comes to sit next to me during lectures. It is extremely annoying to have someone talk during a lecture, especially to you. It is also annoying to have people in the lecture give you dirty looks for 'disrupting' everything when you haven't said a word at all. That is besides the point. I am wondering what possible things can I do to keep this person from talking or sitting next to or near me? I have tried to be nice, and I have tried to be rude and forward - neither works. I have explicitly told this person that they need to shut up so I can listen and they responded, "Ok but just listen to this..." It is beyond the point of frustration. Even when I move, that person always shows up to where ever I am and manages to find me. I cannot come late because a) I am already in that lecture hall from a class directly before and b) because this person is always very very late to the point of getting into a seat right as the lecture is starting. I am not entirely comfortable with asking a random person to please 'sit in this seat next to me, please oh please.'
Whatever can I do?! (link)
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Well you can try making friends with a crowd and sit with them or sit in an empty seat where he wont sit.or sit in the corner with someone beside you.OR i know this is wrong but put gum in the seat beside you and then when he sees it he wont want to sit there.i hope i helped i hope it works out
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my boyfriend has been a real jerk lately. we planned to go see the grudge last friday and he backed out because he had no money. i found out why he had no money for the movies was because he bought weed with the money he had. he told me he stopped smoking weed 2 weeks ago. also, we went to the mall and he just sat with his friends n whispered n laffed n ignored me. i was like "call me tonight" wen we left and he wasl ike okay i will i promise. and he didnt. he didnt call all day saturday either. and today hes surpose to come over to go trick or treatin with all of our friends. but i still havent heard a word from him. should i call him n see if hes still coming? or just forget bout it and go out with my gurls? (link)
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go wit your girls make him feel like he's being ignored just like he did you and dont feel guilty he brought this upon himself. hope it works out and you have a good time trick or treatin. HAPPY HOLLOWEEN!
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where are some good places to get sexxy undies- like thongs and g*strings? (link)
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goto Victoria Secret i bet you will like the things there. *wink* :)
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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in) (link)
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Well some people are for some odd reason.I personaly think you should wait till merrage because it might feel better for the both.Im not embarresed im proud to say I'm a virgin but when you love someone alot and you have ben going out with them for a while a looong while and have respect for each other then i say go ahead but if you been going out for a couple months i say THATS NOT LOVE!and no your not supposed to be embarressed well thats what i think.
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ok well me and this guy like each other. but im afraid to do anything about it because well, he is a bit... faster w/ girls than i am comfortable w/. and he also does drugs and drinks and im straightedge. so i dont know if it would work out to well. he said hes quitting smoking and drinking but i highly doubt it. i really like this kid and i cant seem to get him out of my head but i dont know what to do. (link)
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Well if you like him go for it.he might have a reputasion but things change if all he does have is honest feelings for you.give him a chance but if he makes you feel very uncomfortable then break it off cause its not like if your going to merry the guy.well i hope it works out good luck!
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me? (link)
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You shouldn't feel that way about yourself.i bet you know this an everyone already told you that but it isn't healthy.if you want to be complimented you have to feel good about yourself before any one else likes you.You have some serious self esteem problems but your not alone on that cause i am going through the same thing and i bet soon enough you will feel better bout yourself.cutting wot help at all it might numb the pain but it wont go away if you want it to go away surround yourself with close friends and family you enjoy being with.and your not crazy this is just a stage most females go through life with but soon enough it will be over.good luck and god bless.
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ok i broke up with my X boyfriend last year for the 2nd time. I don't kno y but everytime i read a story about a relationship tearing apart i think of him. I have a new boyfriend and hes the best and i love him but i realize i miss my X sooooo much. He was always there for me. He would make me feel better. I cry every time i think of him and all the things we talked about. What am i susposed 2 do. I kno i should 4 get about him cuz we go 2 dif. skools now and i never really see him n e more but i really miss him. help me!!!
sry this is so long
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I'm sorry you feel this way.this shows that you miss the relationship you had with your ex.sence you dont goto the same school with him call him up and see how he is doing try be just friends and see how it goes.but dont lose in sight that you still have a bf you love.whatever you chose i hope it makes you feel better and works out for the best.I hope i helped
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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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OK everyone is telling you not to run away and i agreelike every other person that cares about you would.School is over soon you wont have to put up with them.If they keep hitting you ask them why and if that doesnt work for you then insoult them and if your not that kinda person you should just tell all of this to someone you trust.I would say a councilor or teacher specialy your parents but if you don't think that will help then you should try either way you dont know until you try.If theses kids keep messing with you like fighting you fight back cause if you don't they wont learn to respect.if they kick you kick back.insoult them until they see what they are doing.im not saying to go up to them and start something. im saying not to put up with that cause everyone has promblems and i dont think you need a kid your own age beating up on you.but running away wont make anything better actualy worst 1st cause your parents will be very worried 2nd the kids will think they won and your a loser either way and 3rd you shouldnt let them take the best of you.cause i know you must be a really cool person and they arnt giving you a chance to show that.your not alone in this cause im also going through the same thing.
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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year? (link)
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No it's not weird it's actualy gopd real good.thats a sign that your relationship will last because you arn't getting tired of him your actualy excited and thats a real good thing.I hope that answered a question and HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!!
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Two Questions: How can you tell if a guy likes you??
#2- Okay I like this boi Richard. He my friends talk to him alot and they say he says he likes me, but he's shy and he won't tell me, so and I am one of those pplz who are need to be reassured all the time. So it's like my friends are constantly asking him and I know that can push him away. But today my friend Taja asked him if he liked me (and I didn't tell her to) and he said no. And then she was like "Right.....look me in the face and say that" and he couldn't look at her and he didn't say anything....cause he was lying she said. So then I saw him after school today and he had the biggest smile on his face and he was waving at meeh. And also the same morning, he was watching everything I did when I wasn't looking....so how I can tell if he likes me.... (link)
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He like you and you know that but what you need to do is go up to him and tell gim whats up like straight up not over a phone or by a friend you need to do it yourself thats if you want some straight up answers not answers that leave you thinking.But i think he does like you i bet he likes you alot and you are ready for something but something is holding you back and as well him.how can you tell by that smile and the flirting.yup thats it.I hope it works out i bet it will too.
Well remeber Ivanna Loves you!!!
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Me & my cousin used to be like sisters when we were younger. Ever since she was verbally abused by her ex-boyfriend, though, she hasn't spoken to me much. I've tried to talk to her, but she never really opens up to me. I feel really bad because she just got dumped by her "friends" & boyfriend.. But I don't know what to do. I have a feeling that we're never gonna be close again & it hurts :( Is there anything I can do? (link)
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I think you should make it clear that you are there for her and nothing will change that.Remind her of old times both of you enjoyed together and things like that.Do small things together or something and then she will slowly begin to trust because after she lost her friends and bf she lost her trust on people and she needs help to get that back.But what can you do is be by herside and not make her feel usless.I wish it all works out tell me how it goes.
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