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ok i broke up with my X boyfriend last year for the 2nd time. I don't kno y but everytime i read a story about a relationship tearing apart i think of him. I have a new boyfriend and hes the best and i love him but i realize i miss my X sooooo much. He was always there for me. He would make me feel better. I cry every time i think of him and all the things we talked about. What am i susposed 2 do. I kno i should 4 get about him cuz we go 2 dif. skools now and i never really see him n e more but i really miss him. help me!!!
sry this is so long
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well, he should just be a good friend is what it sounds like. if you love your boyfriend, and miss your ex because of the way he cheered you up and all that stuff, sounds like my best guy friend and we have a ton more fun now than we did while we were going out. so ya, you guys should be friends, but only if you want to. good luck with this, hope i helped.
Sierra(arlo)
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Hun, get over him. Concentrate on your new love, hes the one right now and your relationship with him isnt exactly be full if you dwell on past loves. I know you probably loved him dearly, but if you truly loved him, just let him go and get on with the wonderful love you have NOW, not what love you HAD. Remember that, your happy and thats it. wish u the best!
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well if oure still thinkin of him then doesnt matter how happy your nguy makes you cuz he cant filhe space your ex has taken...dont let dif. schools be the barrier b/t the 2 of u..u need to talk to him and let him kno how u feel..then get on with your life.
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it seems like you dont know where your heart is. if you love the boyfriend you are with now, you wouldnt miss your ex. sit down and really think about which person youd rather be with. if you conclude that its your ex that youd rather with, work on it. who cares if you guys attend two different schools. if you two really care about each other, it shouldnt matter whether or not youre close or far, because the way you feel for him conquers all. do what makes you happy, you dont need to be crying.
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Why did you beak up..wait if you did it twice..then it must be something that keeps happening. Wht is amking you so sad? Was he your best friend..is your new BF nott meeting some of your needs?
can you not teach your new bf how to be there for you.
Was your old bf your first loves..for they are so hard to get over..if you ever do.
every realtionship is different...some are fun..some are intense..some..well you just never have again and mourn them for life.
If he was your best friend..can you not be just friends...
I know you miss him..i can tell that from your words...I wish you could just talk to him.
Try to teach your new guy to be there for you...open up to him like you did to the other b/f.
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Ok, just because you go to diffrent schools doesnt mean you have to break up. And maybe you guys if you do get back together set out a date maybe 1 a week to see each other. Me and my boy friend at first lived in diffrent states. And were still together and now ingaged, so what im saying is just try it out with him but you have to at least talk to him. If you dont want to love him anymore that is going to take some time of not reading storys about relationships. And things like that. Hope iv helped a little dont be afriad to write and Good luck!
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Short N Punky
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You have this great guy that you're with NOW so stop dwelling in the past and have fun. There's no point in constantly looking back because it doesn't change anything. Put some effort into having fun and do whatever you can to take your mind off him. You can move on if you just put a bit of effort into it. It'll take time but it's worth it.
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well maybe you should just forget the past and move on.just dont think about him,think about who u are with right now.
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I'm sorry you feel this way.this shows that you miss the relationship you had with your ex.sence you dont goto the same school with him call him up and see how he is doing try be just friends and see how it goes.but dont lose in sight that you still have a bf you love.whatever you chose i hope it makes you feel better and works out for the best.I hope i helped
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Well, even if you do cry about relationships and everything with him. You have to remember that it wouldn't be fair for either of yall if yall were dating and hardly saw eachother. Plus, have you ever thought about your fights and the ruff times? I know I used to do that with this one guy and now I just realize he was an ass to me a lot and I'm glad I'm not with him anymore. I hope this helps and if that bf of yours is good that you have for now, stick with him! -Kayla
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If you really love him,I think you should tell him how you feel. I really hoped this helped.
Halla
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