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kissin
Ok, well me and my boyfriend were on my trampoline after school and my mom was home in the kitchen. We were kissin, and when he left, my mom gave me this lecturin about makin out and how im 2 young and how his parents gave him this talk. It did look like we were makin out, but like it wasn't really. Im 13 and hes 14, and i wanna no when u think the right age would be, and if my moms jus over-reacting?!?!?
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i dont think its a big deal, jus dont do it around ur mom and what she doesnt know cant hurt her. ur not too young at all if u ask me. jus be careful whos around when u guys r kissin. hope i helped ~stef~
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They are over reacting but they are just looking out for you because when kids begin making out really young then its leads to more things and your parents are just looking out for you but as long as your boyfriend respects you its all cool.
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all moms are protective of their girls kissing other boys at any age [maybe except marriage] but sometime she's going to have to realize your growing up and doing that stuff happens a lot. for now- do that stuff somewhere where mom wont be spying on you. at least until she's okay with it all . but still keep the distance. let mom do her mom thing, and listen to what she says, as for the age- age doesnt matter, as long as it's what you want for the right reasons. =] -ask_anything
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Hi Sweetie,
Well it really doesn't depend on your age. It depends on how mature you are and if you're responsible and... that type of crap (hehe). Some moms (and this is rare) will actually try to stay out of your business if they know you're really responsible... REAAAALLY responsible and they trust you (they won't actually "stay away" but... they'll pretend to...).
But even if you ARE responsibe and they trust you they may not trust your boyfriend. Even if they do... its a "mom-thing" to over-react to things like that.
If you are 100% comftrable with what you do with your boyfriend and secure about it and if you trust him then maybe YOU should give your mother a small lecture letting her know she can start trusting you more. Maybe you can reach a compromise.
Hope someone was of help. Best wishes! May you and this guy have a loooong !happy! !happy! relationship. ~Blessed Be...
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