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my boyfriend has been a real jerk lately. we planned to go see the grudge last friday and he backed out because he had no money. i found out why he had no money for the movies was because he bought weed with the money he had. he told me he stopped smoking weed 2 weeks ago. also, we went to the mall and he just sat with his friends n whispered n laffed n ignored me. i was like "call me tonight" wen we left and he wasl ike okay i will i promise. and he didnt. he didnt call all day saturday either. and today hes surpose to come over to go trick or treatin with all of our friends. but i still havent heard a word from him. should i call him n see if hes still coming? or just forget bout it and go out with my gurls?
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Do you really need to be with someone who sacrifices doing something with you to buy drugs? You don't deserve that, nobody does. I dated a guy in college for four years that continually vowed to quit smoking pot, and sometimes did, but never for very long. I broke up with him (that being one of many reasons) and it seemed to have jerked him into reality. Last I heard he was doing well professionally had gone straightedge, and that makes me really happy for him
It's clear that he's making you unhappy, confront him about that. Maybe, hopefully, you can bring him to the reality that drugs only make you lose things, never the other way around.
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I would just go out with my girls. There's relly nothing you can do if he isn't doing what he said he was going to do except for break up with him. And as for the whol weed thing, I would report that to someone because he needs serious help, that could kill him. And if you really care about him, you would help him even though he will probably hate you for it. It's a risk you'll have to take, and maybe intime he'll realize you did it for him. Well, I hope things get better you. God bless you.
Lauren
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go wit your girls make him feel like he's being ignored just like he did you and dont feel guilty he brought this upon himself. hope it works out and you have a good time trick or treatin. HAPPY HOLLOWEEN!
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HEYY!! omg wat a fu**** jerk!! it seems to me that you sound b the beror (sp) of bad news and break the ice! and just go wid your grls! HAVE FUN!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE
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Hey girlie,
Forget about him and go with your girls, hun.
Love can blind you, but life is VERY short. Enjoy the friendship with your friends because when your in college you can worry about guys. And don't get me wrong I love it when I have a boyfriend too, but I also don't devote my time completly to him. My life is not my bf. You can call him to see if he's coming but don't let him ruin you Halloween, girl.
I really hope I have helped. :)
xo0x adriana
Holla baq acha girlie!
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if i was u i'd forget bout it and go wit my gurls and have a great time...but if u love him alot then i'd check on him..
*-*laogurl2004*-*
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he isnt being a good b/f if he does stuff like tht. i would dump him. tell him u wont be with him until he starts payin more attention to u and stops smokin weed. hope i helped ~steph~
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