Question Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 9:30 pm
ok well me and this guy like each other. but im afraid to do anything about it because well, he is a bit... faster w/ girls than i am comfortable w/. and he also does drugs and drinks and im straightedge. so i dont know if it would work out to well. he said hes quitting smoking and drinking but i highly doubt it. i really like this kid and i cant seem to get him out of my head but i dont know what to do.
frenchy answered Thursday October 28 2004, 5:59 pm: hey! i say go for it. if he's too fast, just tell him that doesnt flow your boat. also if he keeps on smoking and drinking, tell him that you cant deal with it. hope i helped, peace and love! [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
BashfulBowler answered Thursday October 28 2004, 5:06 pm: You might want to give him a try. And if things dont work out, they dont work out. But usualy when a guy says hes gonna stop drinking/smoking whatever it is..he really wont..so just dont get to involved to fast. And dont do anything that you dont want to do with him. If you do hook up with him thought, try not to fall madly in love with him too fast, because you might end up getting hurt. [ BashfulBowler's advice column | Ask BashfulBowler A Question ]
yorsolastsummer answered Thursday October 28 2004, 4:13 pm: i dont think that you should let the drugs or drinking get in the way of anything between you two, because if you really like someone, then you like them for who they are, and if this doesnt work out then try to talk to him about it. hope i helped. britt. [ yorsolastsummer's advice column | Ask yorsolastsummer A Question ]
SerbianBeba answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 11:11 pm: You know what they say "opposites attract." If he does stop doing drugs and drinking then great more power to him and things could go as youd like between you 2. But even if he doesnt stop and you two do decide to date you should talk to him about what he does and let him know you arent into that stuff (if he already doesnt know) so he wont pressure you into getting into what he's going. If he will be a good boyfriend he wont do those things in front of you and will only do it on his own time not yours. Let him know it bothers you if it does at all and maybe if he really likes you he'd stop just for you. I had a b/f once who stopped smoking pot because i hated the fact he did it and he stopped for me. [ SerbianBeba's advice column | Ask SerbianBeba A Question ]
KillingFrost answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 10:59 pm: Cut him out of your head with a jagged metal spoon and move on.... drugs and fast paced guys are almost always a dangerous mix... he'll drag you down faster than a lead fart. [ KillingFrost's advice column | Ask KillingFrost A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 10:27 pm: Well if you like him go for it.he might have a reputasion but things change if all he does have is honest feelings for you.give him a chance but if he makes you feel very uncomfortable then break it off cause its not like if your going to merry the guy.well i hope it works out good luck! [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
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