ask SerbianBeba



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Hey my name is Alex. I have brown hair, brown eyes and im 5'10". Im 18 years old and i speak 2 languages, english and serbian. I love being Serbian, its the BEST THING EVER! If you have ANY questions at all just feel free to ask, i love giving advice!
Gender: Female
Location: Nebraska
Occupation: College Student
Age: 18
Member Since: October 27, 2004
Answers: 10
Last Update: October 28, 2004
Visitors: 1601

Main Categories:
General Sex Questions
Love Life
Fashion and Styles
View All

ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks! (link)
If she's had her period than she cant be pregnant because you cant have your period when your pregnant, so im sure its just the pills shes taking. if shes still scared and is still having the side effects she is than tell her to buy a home pregnancy test and she can just test without having to ask or tell her parents.


i really like this guy and hes in three of my classes, HOT. okay i like him, but i think he likes another girl, i didnt even get his sn yet what should i do? how can i show it? (link)
FLIRT WITH HIM. flirting works everytime. Just start a conversation, laugh with him, show him your intersted and you like him. Chances are if he flirts with you back and he shows interest he likes you too. just be yourself and show him your better than that oher girl he likes and that he deserves you.


Hey i have blonde hair about halfway down my back and i've been thinking about getting cut just for a change. Dose anyone have any ideas what hairstyles might look good?ThAnKs! (link)
i would cut your hair to your shoulders and get chopped layers. i think thats the cutest hairstyle ever! have you ever seen Kate and Leopold? Meg Ryan's hair!!! I love it!


Hi! okay do you think its weird to shave between your eyebrows? because i got dared to so i did now i got to do it like EVERY week! well does anyone else do that? do you think its weird? (link)
i would just let them grown back and either wax inbetween your eyebrows or pluck them. i wouldnt keep shaving them because it'll be noticable. i had a friend who shaved hers all off one but she has very light hair and skin so you couldnt really tell, it looked natural. but if you have darker hair then i would just let them grow back.


ok i am 16/m and i am really horny i have never done anything with a girl besides making out and feeling up how do i get a girl to do something with me i mean i have a huge respect for girls and i dont like to pressure them into things this is why i never asked a girl to do something like that i dont have a gf right now and i know some people might say to drink with them but i dont want to take advantage and is 16 to young to have sex? (link)
i have a lot of respect for you kid. there arent many guys out there like you. first of all look for a girl that you could possibly see yourself with, look for a girlfriend. Chances are when you are dating someone its easier to do things with her than opposed to just some random girl. When you find a g/f just take things slow with her. First kiss, then go up her shirt, and so on and so forth. If she doesnt like this STOP! dont ever pressure any girl to do anything. Just go with the flow, girls usually give signals when she wants to do something with you like a lot of flirting or kissing your neck or cheek. And 16 is a bit young to have sex but if you find the right girl and your in love go for it if shes willing.


How can i get into the mood like i get horny sometimes like whoa.. masturbating.. but when im with a guy i want him but not like the strong way i do other tymes how can i have the strong feeling EVERYTYME? please help (link)
heres a suggestion: while your whith your guy fool around a little like tickling eachother, kiss, and a major turn on that always makes me horny is when a guy rubs my thighs. That will get you in the mood to go further and do the things you want. So just kind of fool around and it will just come naturally


ok consider this situation

your rubbing your b/fs "thing" (not in the pants) and you knew he was wet and you really didnt feel it that much and you masterbated in front of him to turn him on am i being stupid or can i get pregnaunt and even if i did have his stuff on my fingers it wouldnt even be hardly any i duno and i also have a problem where im always parinoid........? can some one help me with my parinoid prob and dont say "see a doctor" because i cant im only 15 and i dont want to tell my parents....help? (link)
its a possibility but highly unlikely. when sperm leaves the body and is contacted with air it dies instantly. also when your rubbing your guys thing and he's wet, that just pre-cum which doesnt have hardly as much sperm as when he actually ejaculates. Being paranoid is normal but dont be because nothing can happen unless you have sex without a condom and his sperm gets inside, thats pretty much the only way.


i have had a friend for a very long time. she tries to control my life and everything i do. i cant have a life becuase of her. if i do anything without her she get furiouse and plays a huge guilt thing on me. i dont have the courage to tell her, but i cant stand her! she is constantly taking over my life, and my mom doesnt even want me to be friends with her. i dont know what to do, please help! (link)
you need to talk to her about this. a friend controlling you isnt something you should have to deal with. It seems like she cant take action of her own life so she feels she needs to take action in someone elses and who better than her good friend. Let her know that her controlling you is getting way out of hand and that you have friends of your own and need to hang out with various people. If your own mom is noticing this and you feel uncomfortable you should just stop talking to her and start hanging out with other friends. Next time she gets mad for not inviting her along just say i have other friends too i dont need you conrtolling my life.


ok well me and this guy like each other. but im afraid to do anything about it because well, he is a bit... faster w/ girls than i am comfortable w/. and he also does drugs and drinks and im straightedge. so i dont know if it would work out to well. he said hes quitting smoking and drinking but i highly doubt it. i really like this kid and i cant seem to get him out of my head but i dont know what to do. (link)
You know what they say "opposites attract." If he does stop doing drugs and drinking then great more power to him and things could go as youd like between you 2. But even if he doesnt stop and you two do decide to date you should talk to him about what he does and let him know you arent into that stuff (if he already doesnt know) so he wont pressure you into getting into what he's going. If he will be a good boyfriend he wont do those things in front of you and will only do it on his own time not yours. Let him know it bothers you if it does at all and maybe if he really likes you he'd stop just for you. I had a b/f once who stopped smoking pot because i hated the fact he did it and he stopped for me.


My period is very heavy on the first few days. I usually use pads and slender tampons. I was wondering is there any way for me to make me period less heavy? I tried using a 'super' tampon but it hurts because I'm not big enough down there. Is there anything I can do? I'm sick and tired of feeling like I'm wearing a diaper but my period's too heavy for the small tampons. (link)
I am going through the very same thing! I have had REALLY heavy periods ever since i was in the 7th grade. I only wore pads but that never helped, i felt disgusted. Then i moved to tampons all the way to a super plus and they still dont hold in all the blood. My advice to you is if you cant fit a bigger tampon up there you should talk to your doctor about birth control its really the only solution to the problem and it works wonders!




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker