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controlling friend
i have had a friend for a very long time. she tries to control my life and everything i do. i cant have a life becuase of her. if i do anything without her she get furiouse and plays a huge guilt thing on me. i dont have the courage to tell her, but i cant stand her! she is constantly taking over my life, and my mom doesnt even want me to be friends with her. i dont know what to do, please help!
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well there is only one way, u have 2 tell her! but put it in a nice way. she isn't ur mom is she? so just confront her! u two prob been through alot together but if she really wants 2 be a real n true friend she will think about it and make a difference 2 be a better friend! its time 4 ur self 2 be independent so on ur own 2 feet!!!
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well you could tell her that your mom doesnt want you to hang out with her anymore and that you are goin to listen to your mom or if you can take her you can beat her up
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get the balls to tell her to step off. your life is YOUR life, not this crazy bizatch's. just tell her youre sick of her. she might not be your friend anymore, but at least youll have your life back.
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Shes not a friend :/ You should try and distance yourself from her before she totally controls every bit of your life! If she doesnt already...
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you need to talk to her about this. a friend controlling you isnt something you should have to deal with. It seems like she cant take action of her own life so she feels she needs to take action in someone elses and who better than her good friend. Let her know that her controlling you is getting way out of hand and that you have friends of your own and need to hang out with various people. If your own mom is noticing this and you feel uncomfortable you should just stop talking to her and start hanging out with other friends. Next time she gets mad for not inviting her along just say i have other friends too i dont need you conrtolling my life.
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Have your Mom call hers and tell her that she doesn't want you and her to be friends anymore.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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what do u mean control? what do u mean like does she not let u go places or socialize with others? maybe she feels that she will lose u as a friend and has problems socializing with others! it could also be seperation anxiety!! just talk to her and be up front with her don't hold back if u 2 r friends then u have to be truth to one another!! just don't be mean about it ... don't raise ur voice just try to sit her down and talk!! good luck let me know how it goes!!
*BeSs*
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~hey grl~
you could try to talk to her. tell her that she is controlling your life. if she is a true friend she will try to fix her problem. if she isnt.... you dont need a friend like her.
hope i helped
~XoXoXo AbBeY XoXoXo~
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