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so my boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time together...he was a virgin i was not...and we both love eachother and so we both decided we didnt want to have "kinky", "horney" sex...we wanted loving, passionate sex..so when we were having sex i expected it to be amazing...but i was kinda dissapointed cus i thought he would look at me , or telll me he loved me while we were doing it...but he dditn..he did not look at my face the whole time...and he didnt say he loved me once....was he just using me for sex..? (link)
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Remember he's a virgin. So he probaly didnt get the idea of "passionate" sex... Maybe you should clear things up with him, tell him what you expected "passionate sex" with him was all about.
Luv Holly/Toffee
xoxo
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female 16
Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.
How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You. (link)
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ur only 16, boobs only stop growing at 18 so your okay. by the time ur 17 you'll be sure 2 have a larger cup size by then. until then, try using padded bras or liquid filled ones.
PS- if you use liquid filled bras, they work well in the pool too. So it wont make you look liked you've "shrank" lol!
GOOD LUCK! luv Toffee/Holly xoxo
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ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...
ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do? (link)
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TELL SOME1!!! It doesnt matter weather he thretens you, dont be afraid. He's a jerk, and he has 2 get punished by what he did!! It's not fair, and i know you should tell someone about this, trust me.
Good Luck,
Toffee
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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice? (link)
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If he really likes you for real, then he would understand your choice. It's not a great idea 2 have sex at your age. Plus, there are side effects to sex. Desease? Pregnacy? Anything could happen! Stay as a virgin till you get married, that's the best i could say...
Always, Toffee
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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird? (link)
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Well, sorry 2 break it 2 ya, but its not a good idea to like the same sex. People will spread rumours about stuff about you, and they will think your useless. So, your not weird, and its great you thought about it before you did anything drarastic. But it's a really bad idea to like that typical sex.
Hope i helped you, always-
Toffee
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what is dry sex?!!?!?! (link)
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Easy, dry sex means that u have sex, (Touching and feeling) but the pair still has clothes on em :)
Hope i answered ur question always, Toffee
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I like two guys and they both like me. I just don't know which one to choose. One is quite good looking, sweet, and I know him really well. The other one isn't so cute, is really sweet, but I don't know him very well. I made out with the second one today and I think if I tell him I want to be friends, I'll break his heart. Which do I pick? The cute marine or the sweet musician? (link)
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go with da cute marin u know him alot better and just tell the sweet musician u just wanna b friends. if he's that sweet, he'll understand!
hope i help u! :D
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i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate. (link)
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well try and find a some things u 3 all like in commen. On the weekends or after school, do things that are fun and enjoyable. eg- bowling or movies. sports are very helpful aswell. Dont leave "rosie" or "Mary" out. treat them all the same
Hope i helped! :D
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I know this is grose but what does it mean when your poop is green. Please help lol. (link)
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depends on what foods u eats, sometimes it could b food poisoning.
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Ok, i am a 17/f, and VERY innocent, lol, i've never had sex, but i masturbate, and why is there white and clear discharge "inside" of us? Thanks, I rate Very High! (link)
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Its completely normal actually, it comes out when your body is taking pleasure in such "activitys" lol but dont worry what u have is cum. Perfectly normal!
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i need advice on why SUPAIKU is such a f*cking asshole .. holy shit !!.. ill rate 5's! :) (link)
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lol probaly thinks that he's funny or somethin he doesnt even care about the questions people ask, what a asshole!! i think there should be a peption to get SUPAIKU kicked off this site!! who votes him off? i know i do!u owe me rates lol
luv Toffee
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well i wanted to know if anyone has some advice on the best way to pleasure a guy, my bf and i have had sex and i give him blowjobs and handjobs but i want to know what guys like best? anyone have any ideas on what i can do to pleasure him the most? (link)
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Try and make it as fun as it can be!! play games and buy sex dice, really fun!! And what really lightens up the fun, think about where you 2 should do it. Hehehe trust me, it helps! or maybe do it in the bath if it helps out too!:D
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wat happens when you have an orgasm if your a girl i know this sounds dumb but plz help (link)
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BANG!! you blow up if you get my picture
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For a guy's parts, whats big and whats small? Do girls really care about size? Whats the advantages of being big rather than small and vice virsa? (link)
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well it really depends on the girl actually. you see, some girls may like big penises because they might think its se..xy. but the truth is it doesnt really matter, but what matters is that you know how to use it. (wink wink)
luv-Toffeebabe
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I've been married for 20 years & never have, and never will cheat on my husband.
A single younger man where I work started flirting with me. He basically expressed his attraction towards me, which was extremely flattering. I let him know right away that I would never cheat on my husband. He seemed to accept this & we have continued to commincate throught our email at work & a couple of coffee breaks.
I have really enjoyed the flattery - I'm 48, he's 37. Once I realized that he really wasn't just trying to get me into bed & truly liked me as a person - I felt great.
He's extremely careered oriented & doesn't have time for a comitted relationship at this point.
I just don't understand why when I started flirting back with him, why he has backed off. I liked the flattery, and am hurt. He started all this.
I simply don't understand why he is reacting this way, I don't need a lecture on why this is unhealthy, I already know from the way I feel. (link)
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well for this answer, you gotta decide. Do you know that your hasband really cares about you, or do you feel more safe and happy with this other man. once you have chosen the one, go for it, oh and when you started flirting with this man, he probaly got a bit awkard since you did tell him you wont ever cheat on your husband. P.S- Cheating is never the answer and if you do start to consider cheating remember you will probaly lose both of the guy's instead of the one.
-GOOD LUCK :D
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What should I charge people when I babysit their children? Preferably I'd like the answers in English pounds not American dollars. (link)
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Well, you should charge the parents about 5 dollars pr hour. [each child]
TIP:If u have any babysitting experiences,include them.
GOOD LUCK!!
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Okay, so I'm 14 and a female. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago because he 'wanted to stop dating for awhile'. I pretended not to care and all this. My friends ended up getting all up in it and now he knows I still love him and he said he loved me, but I think he was lying. I still haven't directly told him I still love him because he said he didn't want to go out with anyone for awhile and I totally respect his wishes. My friends just don't get this. What should I do? Because I mean, I'd do anything to get my boyfriend back, I just don't think he's really in to me anymore. (link)
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well, i dont no about him not loving u and not being in 2 u, but ur boyfreind just needed some time 4 himself.......soon when it is in the right time, he will prob ask u out again.
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okay, i've done out with this boy lets say.. *mike* 2 times. once one year, and once the next. i've liked him for like 3 years. the first time he asked me out, it lasted 3 months, and i dumped him for reasons that werent his fault. the 2nd time i asked him out and he dumped me for my friend but he totally like hates it now. so now this year we both like eachother and i still really like him but should i just give up on going out with him or what?? i dont know what to do? this may sound dumb and i dont really know how to explain it but if you get it then please help me! lol thanx sorry its so long (link)
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no problem its not long........ if u like him and he likes u, then go 4 it girl! what happened the years b4 is now in the past so forget about the past and go on living with a fresh new start!
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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do? (link)
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he might just be still upset coz u said no, so he could be do'n dis 2 get bac at u. ask him why he is do'n this....... but next time if u dont no much of a boy and they ask u out, b4 saying "no" tell em why
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i have had a friend for a very long time. she tries to control my life and everything i do. i cant have a life becuase of her. if i do anything without her she get furiouse and plays a huge guilt thing on me. i dont have the courage to tell her, but i cant stand her! she is constantly taking over my life, and my mom doesnt even want me to be friends with her. i dont know what to do, please help! (link)
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well there is only one way, u have 2 tell her! but put it in a nice way. she isn't ur mom is she? so just confront her! u two prob been through alot together but if she really wants 2 be a real n true friend she will think about it and make a difference 2 be a better friend! its time 4 ur self 2 be independent so on ur own 2 feet!!!
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