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i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate.
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Ask her about it. Tell her you have noticed that she doesn't seem to enjoy herself when all 3 of you hang out. Ask her what you can do to make her more comfortable. Its the only way you'll know for sure! :)
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well talk about some subjects she likes if she likes movie hang out ther and say how you felt about it if she likes the park and animals talk about your pets. talk about what she like and is interesting to her. talk.
hope i helped
Micki
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well try and find a some things u 3 all like in commen. On the weekends or after school, do things that are fun and enjoyable. eg- bowling or movies. sports are very helpful aswell. Dont leave "rosie" or "Mary" out. treat them all the same
Hope i helped! :D
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well, i dont really know much about the situation but i'll do my best to help.
try to make sure that shes always included. and let her get to know you more, maybe she doesnt know you that way and she only really opens up to people she knows? tell her things about you to make her feel that its ok for her to open up to you and that she doesnt have to be uncomortable around you. or, you could possibly ask "rosie" if she knows why, because "rosie" was friends with her first. hope i helped. and good luck.
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bring her into the conversations pay attension to her and rosie..dont leave her out and only dont look at rosie if your haveing a funny intersesting conversation.Like i said bring mary into it to. Compliment mary and say shes cool and you like what she was wearing. Laugh and be funny around her. Soon she'll be extremly comfortable!! Also have you rosie her and some other people make plans! but dont make her look like the least favorite one because that really hurts when people think you dont care about them [[for both sides]]. I'm sure she'll feel a lot comfortable around you ! good luck !! Just be outgoing and stuff and she'll click into it!
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Sorry, I didn't read the question right. Well it's obvious that Mary likes Rosie more than she likes you. Which is something you can't control. Why don't you confront the two of them of your problem? Tell them that you want to be as close as they are to eachother with them. Friends requires team works, and you have to pull your weight for everyone.
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