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Eliminate the competition
To be blunt about the situation, I want this guy and I feel threatened. I hang out with this guy and this other guy and I feel that I'm in competition with the other guy for this guy. Is there anyway to seal my victory even if that be for something bad or misfortunate to happen to the other guy? Give me your advice. Oh and Im not going to kill him if thats what it sound like lol.
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Hm, someone sounds a little insecure. Either that or you're greedy and what this boy all to yourself... but hey, who can blame you? I can't honestly say I haven't felt that way every now and then.
What you should do is make this guy realize what a great person who are, do something for him so he can see what an awesome friend you are, then he may become more interested in you.
If you start dating, he'll naturally want to start hanging out with you more than his friend. But if you don't like his friends, I don't think you should get involved with him, as it will just lead to fighting and whatnot.
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If you don't want to compete, act like you aren't. Competing is low and unnecessary, if the guy likes you, he needs to see that he does. If you need to stand out to make him notice, it's not worth it in my opinion. Show him who the best man is and don't compete, just be yourself.
And if that doesn't work, ever heard of the phrase "Embrace thy Enemy"? Just become friends with your competition, maybe you'll understand why the person is competition in the first place. Or..you can find out weak points.
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