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maybe this is anodd question, but anyways... my boyfriend and i are verymuch sexualy active. and he is always asking if i would bewilling to give him head... i personaly think its nasty, but i do love him a lot, and i like making him happy, and i know that wouldmake himhappy.. i havedone it before.. but im not exactly sure how to do it, like do it well.... how do you do it,how do you do it well and so he will really enjoy it??
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Try these sites, they offer excellent tips:
http://www.blowhismindtonight.com
www.bjtutorial.com/fellatio_techniques.htm
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Hey, this is my first time on this website and I really need advice, and I was reading the columist things and yours looked good. Anyways, I am 14 years old and I am going on a trip to England in 12 months. So far I've saved up 380 dollars, but I need to save up more. I don't know how can I raise money? Because there are no good babysitting jobs around here, and I can't do a paper route because it's not exactly a great neighbourhood. Please give me lots of good ideas! By the way, I'm from Canada. (link)
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Well, you just have to get creative. What are your skills? What are your hobbies? You can figure out something just by that.
Examples:
Let's say you can type sixty words per minute. I bet there are plenty of people in or around your neighborhood that would pay you to type things for them because of an inability to do so themselves.
Or you could advertise to keep up peoples' yards and/or gardens.
I'm not sure of the age requirment is for jobs in your area, but you could usually find a job at a coffeeshop. You can also probably find odd jobs at a carnival or fair if there are any coming up in your area.
You could sell some of your old stuff at pawn shops or on ebay.
Just think of something you're really good at and put it on sale.
If you need more help, tell me what your strong points are and I'll help you figure something out.
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Hey, my boyfriend is coming to visit me in 2 weeks, i'm in love with him and i really wanna make it amazing for him, any tips? Like what do i do with my hands to make it feel better? Stuff like that doesn't matter how graphic you get i just really need to know wth im doing :(
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You can use one hand to fondle his scrotum while using the other to kind of give him a handjob/blowjob combo. To tell you the truth, I'm not sure what your guy is into, so I don't know what kind of things he would like. You have to try different things to see what he responds to in the most positive way. You can also google: blowjob tips, fellatio technique, etc.
Hope this helps a bit.
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So i'm 17/f and I have a friend with benefits who's 20/m. He and I are almost like best friends, and we've had sex 3 times. He's also the one I lost my virginity to. But he's usually the one to ask for sex. The problem is, I need it SOON, and I'm not about to go sleeping around with someone else. I'm a little nervous that if I flat out tell him I want to fool around with him, that I'll creep him out or make him think i'm too clingy, which isn't the case.
So how do I tell him I want to have sex without just saying it?? Thnx! (link)
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Well, you can just come right out and tell him you want it, or you could just go for it the next time you're hanging out. Either way, you're going to get what you want.
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how can people smell like sex? what smell is that? (link)
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Well, it's kind of hard to explain the 'smell' exactly, but I'll try. You know how a girl wetness smells when she's turned on? Well, it's kind of like that but it just kind of drifts around the room, and then it's a little bit musty, but not like a stinky kind of musty or anything. It's not extremely putrid or anything, it's really subtle actually. I hope I explained it right.
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i have really baggy eyes, and im really young. im 15/f. does anyone know how to get rid of bags under your eyes, and dont say sleep please because ive tried to get a lot of sleep and they dont go away. thanks in advance. (link)
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Anything with menthol will greatly reduce bags under your eyes. For instance Burt's Bees lip balm, but only use a little bit, just enough to pat under your eyes. The only negative thing about this is that it may cause your eyes to water a bit. When I had to stay up half the night to study for finals, I would use wet peppermint tea bags. They give the effect of menthol except they don't make your eyes water. You can use them warm or cold, but I warmed them up a little and it worked wonders, it also helped the slight bruising. Hope it helps for you too.
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ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend? (link)
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There is only one thing that would make sense to do. Dump the boyfriend, he's obviously scum and he doesn't deserve you if he's not going to cherish you. Your so-called friend isn't exactly a friend either so you should dump her too. They're pretty much the same person, but in different bodies. They both knew it would hurt you, they both did it anyway. And if you stay with your boyfriend he's going to think it's okay for him to cheat on you.
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ok well i have this boyfriend and well we started going out in the summer and well he just isn't on the same level as me i mean he is popular and im just normal and talk to everyone but i have a certain group and well i don't want the school year to be any different from last so should i eat with him at lunch or sit by him in class i don't know what to do i mean we both like eachother alot and well i though i should just sit with my usual friends and give him space at school and talk bout are day after school is over with i just don't know what to do (link)
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Although you are both in different cliques/groups/whatevers, if you really like each other as much as you say you do, then the school year will be fine. You don't have to sit with him every lunch period or sit beside him in every single class you have together, but if you just avoid him all day but then want to talk to him after school is over, he's going to think something's wrong or that you're ashamed of him or something. Separate different days for lunch with him and your group of friends and do your classes the same way. For instance, sit with him at lunch on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays and sit with your friends on Tuesdays and Thursdays or vice versa. Or you could each take turns sitting at each other's group of friends' tables.
Hope this helps.
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alright so me and this guy that likes me and i like him have been talking for awhile online. we have great conversation online..but tomorrow we are hanging out for the first time.
so i guess my question is..how do you make it so it isnt awcward when you hang out with your crush alone for the first time? and dont say hang out with a big group..because its gonna be just us (: (link)
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You should do something that you can focus on if there is an awkward silence, like a board game, mini golf, bowling, watching a movie, etc. That way if you can't think of something to say you can make a joke about someone's outfit(in a movie) or how he keeps losing all his money(in a board game). Playing mad gabs is a really cool way to spend time with your crush because you'll be laughing at each other the entire time. Doing something fun where you can laugh at yourselves together calms your nerves and relaxes you so you're more apt to have fun together. He'll remember that he can let loose and laugh with you and he'll want to do it again. Hope this helps.
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what are some good topics for a contest site? prettiest eyes gets kind of boring. what are original ideas that i could use, that will be fun? (link)
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most original movie/song/tv show/etc title
most unique thing made out of candy wrappers, i.e. earrings, bracelet, etc
most dramatic makeover (before and after pictures are really cool for this one)
most *unique* outfit
weirdest outfit
who can look most like a space alien
best [mod/fifties/emo/etc.] outfit/look
coolest talent
most unique video on any given topic provided by you
if you need more ideas just ask
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I have known this guy for 8 months. We have been dating for one month now and I am a virgin, would it be bad if I had sex with him? I mean I am ready and everything else. (link)
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If you were really ready to have sex for the first time, you wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers if they think you're ready to have sex. If you absolutely feel ready to take this big of a step, then go for it, but just be safe.
But DO NOT have sex with him or do anything sexual with him if you think you have to just so he won't lose interest. If he's going to lose interest just because you won't give him your body, then he's not worth it and there are about six million other ones out there in the world that could be.
Hope this helps.
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on the previews for the new show 'Greek' theres a song being played by plain white t's. does anyone know what it is? all i hear playing is oh oh oh oh oh... (link)
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That's 'Hey There Delilah'
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Theres these 3 guys who all really like me. The bad part is I don't like any of them. I like one of their friends. The cool part is that all 3 hav completely different personalities. I don't know how I should tell them. One of them stands out the most to me and I was close to saying yes but changed my mind. I can't handle hurting them. (link)
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Like summer_is_love said, if the friend of the three guys likes you back he still may not go for it because of his friendships. But, then again he just might. You don't know until you try.
You should just tell all three guys that you don't have romantic feelings for them. You can tell them that you have feelings for their friend if you would like.
You shouldn't settle for a guy you don't have those butterfly feelings for just because you don't want to hurt his feelings. He will be upset, but he'll move on eventually. It would just hurt him more to find out the truth after you started dating.
You should go for it with the guy that actually gives you the butterfly in your stomach, heartracing feelings.
Remember this: You'll never make a basket if you don't shoot the ball. So shoot it.
Good luck.
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14/m whenever im somewhere and girls i do not know see me that are my age, they seem to be embarrassed and wont look me in the eye. I see them looking at me when im not looking at them and they wont face me. i went over to my friends house and she had two of her friends i had never met before. They were eating when i walked in and the two new girls looked really embarrassed and wouldnt look at me. then when they get to know me there not embarrassed anymore. does this happen to all people when they have never met before??? im not doing anything or looking at them strangely. (link)
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I don't think that it is embarassment so much as nervousness. Girls may just think that you are good looking and so they get nervous around you. See, when girls are around your age and they see a cute guy they start to worry what you will think of them and so they try to make it seem like they don't care, i.e. not looking you in the eye, ignoring you, etc. But when they find out that you are actually a really nice guy, they stop worrying about it so much because they realize that you're already talking and being friendly with them so they're not as nervous about impressing you. I'm just saying this as personal experience when I was a few years younger. I think this COULD be the case here, I'm not saying necessarily that it IS. Hope this helps.
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Ok so i need answers here! Me and my boyfriend were dry humping and i was wearing a skirt and his penis was out. I was kinda giving him a lap dance and my underwear was wet from what im thinking was myself. Im not sure if he came or not but what are the chances im pregnant? he fingered me before too but b4 there was any contact with his penis and im kinda hurting now cause i think he went deep. PLEASE HELP!And tell me can the sperm (if he even came) travel through my underwear and into me? Could i be pregnant and what can i do? Thanks in advance (link)
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Actually, in contradiction with the advicenators who answered your question before me, you can, in fact, get pregnant if your boyfriend ejaculated on your clothing. Sperm is smaller than the fibers of your underwear, which means they can swim between them and into your vagina.
But, since you're not even sure if he came or not, you need to make sure if he did or didn't before you even start worrying about it. But it could still be possible from his pre-ejaculate soaking into your underwear. Don't worry and stress over it until you actually have to because the stress could delay your period anyway.
Hope this helps you.
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Okay, so I have this friend that I work with. I hung out with him once and it was fun and all, but then he started asking me to hang out with him more. Last night, I THINK he implied that he's going to ask me out soon [as long as I understood what he said right] and I really don't want him to.
My dad is super overprotective and I don't want a boyfriend at all until I go to college so I don't have to deal with my dad. I don't want my friend to feel bad if I say no, and I don't want him to ask me out at all. I don't know how to avoid it. Any ideas?
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Well, I do think that the other advicenators are right. It would be better to just tell him the truth about why you don't want to date him.
But if you really want to avoid it, the only thing that I can think of would be to let him think you like someone else. Just talk about how you think some guy is cute. It would make him think about asking you out even less if the guy you 'like' is the total opposite of your friend. If you pick someone similar, he's going to think, 'well if she likes him, she would like me too.'
I know you want to avoid it, but I still think you should just hash it out with him and be honest. It will make him feel less bad about himself if you say why you don't want to date him instead of just dodging it.
Hope this helps.
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how can you make brown eyes really stand out. they're not deep brown just idk brown?
i really want them to stand out.majorly.
any make up ideas? (link)
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I have brown eyes too and I find it really hard finding makeup tips to make them stand out but without it my eyes are kind of just 'blah'.
I like to do a smoky eye but not with really dark colors so it doesn't overpower my entire face.
I either use green or brown tones. The green tends to bring out my eyes more though because its kind of contradictory.
With the green, I line my eyes with a charcoal liner, but right on the lower lash line and just a thin line on the upper lids. I smudge it with a q tip to make it a little lighter to blend in with the shadow but makes my lashes look darker. Use a flesh tone shadow on your top lids first, then use whatever green shadows that you like best. Use the lightest one to brush over the entire lid, then the next darkest one to blend into the outer crease, then the darkest one over the eyeliner line you made earlier and blend upward. Do the same thing on the bottom lids and blend downward. Then apply mascara and you're done.
With the brown, I do the same thing with the eyeliner but I use a dark brown almost black liner. Do the same thing with the flesh colored shadow on the top lids. Do the same thing with the three shades of brown you like best. Blend the shadow into your eyeliner so it kind of mixes together and apply mascara.
Using white eyeliner on the inside of your eyelids will bring out your eyes much more also. Curling your upper lashes will make them stand out more too. Just make sure you do that before you put on your eye makeup so it doesn't smudge it.
Hope these help.
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Hey there i was just wondering what can guys use to masterbate like what things around the house will give them pleasure or is there anything you can but or make?
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I know that everyone said use your hand, but seriously? Duh.
A friend of mine said the closest thing to feeling like a real vagina is a cantaloupe. Cut a hole in it just a tad smaller than your penis is around and scoop out the excess so you can fit it inside. Then pour in a little baby oil or ky if you have that and put in the microwave for about a forty five seconds. Since you cut the hole a tiny bit smaller than your penis, it will create suction, kind of like a vagina would.
Hope this helps better than the others did.
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i am going on a date this weekend...and mi mom just comes up 2 me and sas i haveta babysit mi baby sister...and so....im not alound too go out with the HOTTEST GUY since ORLANDO BLOOM?...should i set mi mom straight.... and tell her im not going too babysit!!!... or "not"... go on the date??????
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Make sure she knows how important this date is to you. Maybe if she knows this, she'll relent.
But in case she doesn't, ask her if you can have one of your friends babysit instead. Offer to pay for the babysitter yourself. Or, if you don't have enough money for that, you could probably bargain with one of your friends. Tell her that if she does you this favor, you'll do whatever favor she asks of you in return, whether it be borrowing your favorite handbag that you just know she'll lose, or watching her sibling when she has other plans.
Hope this helps.
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ok.. well see i am bi just so you know and i HAD a girl that liked to play wiht my clit alot.. it would feel good but after a while.. it like started to hurt and i would make her stop is there something wrong with me at all. i really need to know:) thkans (link)
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No, there is nothing wrong with you. Your clitoris is just very sensitive. Rubbing it for a long period of time sensitizes it even more, especially right after you have an orgasm. When it gets that sensitive, maybe you should try covering it up with the hood and kind of massaging it that way for a while. It kind of desensitizes it so it doesn't hurt.
Hope this helps.
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