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Frustration!
So i'm 17/f and I have a friend with benefits who's 20/m. He and I are almost like best friends, and we've had sex 3 times. He's also the one I lost my virginity to. But he's usually the one to ask for sex. The problem is, I need it SOON, and I'm not about to go sleeping around with someone else. I'm a little nervous that if I flat out tell him I want to fool around with him, that I'll creep him out or make him think i'm too clingy, which isn't the case.
So how do I tell him I want to have sex without just saying it?? Thnx!
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Dont be to nervous about it. Guys don't care if the girs ask. infact, plent of guys like it when girls take control. A girl has needs and guys know that! and he is there for you just for those needs!
So, babe, jsut be up front and honest with him
Vanyn.
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Well, you can just come right out and tell him you want it, or you could just go for it the next time you're hanging out. Either way, you're going to get what you want.
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If he usually asks you for it, I'm pretty sure he won't mind if you turn the tables around it.
The best & only way to say it is just coming out with it. He'll probably get the point better that way since guys can be a little slow & you need to be super blunt about things with them.
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hes a boy..boys like sex.
just ask him.
itll be easier, and itll make him feel more important that hes teh one your going to for it. cause hell assume that he must be really really good if youd ask straight up.
bottom line is:
boys are all about egos.
so just go for it and im sure itll work out.
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