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He's such a whore.
17/f. Okay..long-winded but interesting... about a year ago I met this guy, let's call him "Aaron". We started talking at work, then we started hanging out, and eventually the two of us started a band together. He has a g/f, and even though I used to have a crush on him, I got over it. But Aaron...is THE mad whore. He sleeps around behind his g/f's back, and has with every girlfriend in the past. That's actually the one comforting thought that got me through the time when I liked him- even if he were to date me, he'd cheat on me.
Well, last December, back when I still liked him, we fooled around. We made out a couple of times, and eventually I lost my virginity to him. Then we ended things and went back to being friends. .And yes I KNOW it was wrong to go behind his g/f's back, but that's not the reason I'm asking this question...ok so to continue..
He and I became really close friends, and we still are. We confide in each other and all that crap, except I know he's still sleeping around, because a mutual friend of ours let it slip that they have sex regularly. He and I also did it once in May and again in June...
Since then, I've gotten a few crushes on other guys, and I've even kissed one or two. I'm pretty much over Aaron in "that" way. But I know that if he asks me for sex again, I'll say yes because I want it too, and not from anyone else. THAT is where my problem lies...I really really like having sex with him. Is this just because he was my first?
I just don't know what to do in this whole situation. Part of me (a rather big part) wants to tell his g/f and not lose his friendship in the process. The other part of me just wants to molest him everytime he walks through the door. What do I do, and how??!?
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I'm also having sex with this guy who has a girlfriend. He has asked me out but i know he would cheat on me; so i say no. You don't want to be Aaron's girlfriend if you know he'll cheat on you too, so just enjoy the friends with benefits; why tell and end it?
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Wow! I am in almost the same situation as you. Basically yeah, i personally think that if you let him have sex with you if he asks then he is gonna think that he can ask you anytime. im not saying that ushudnt do it because i know how you feel...but jus make sure YOUR'E the one in control and not him.
Obviously the rite answer to say is tel his girlfriend...but this is the real world and im sure we both know it doesnt work lyk that because
1) you WILL lose him or his trust
2) she might not blive you
3) they might tell their friends and the will think bad of you and assume your'e just trying to break them up.
Hope i have been of some help x
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