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17/f. Okay..long-winded but interesting... about a year ago I met this guy, let's call him "Aaron". We started talking at work, then we started hanging out, and eventually the two of us started a band together. He has a g/f, and even though I used to have a crush on him, I got over it. But Aaron...is THE mad whore. He sleeps around behind his g/f's back, and has with every girlfriend in the past. That's actually the one comforting thought that got me through the time when I liked him- even if he were to date me, he'd cheat on me.
Well, last December, back when I still liked him, we fooled around. We made out a couple of times, and eventually I lost my virginity to him. Then we ended things and went back to being friends. .And yes I KNOW it was wrong to go behind his g/f's back, but that's not the reason I'm asking this question...ok so to continue..
He and I became really close friends, and we still are. We confide in each other and all that crap, except I know he's still sleeping around, because a mutual friend of ours let it slip that they have sex regularly. He and I also did it once in May and again in June...
Since then, I've gotten a few crushes on other guys, and I've even kissed one or two. I'm pretty much over Aaron in "that" way. But I know that if he asks me for sex again, I'll say yes because I want it too, and not from anyone else. THAT is where my problem lies...I really really like having sex with him. Is this just because he was my first?
I just don't know what to do in this whole situation. Part of me (a rather big part) wants to tell his g/f and not lose his friendship in the process. The other part of me just wants to molest him everytime he walks through the door. What do I do, and how??!? (link)
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I'm also having sex with this guy who has a girlfriend. He has asked me out but i know he would cheat on me; so i say no. You don't want to be Aaron's girlfriend if you know he'll cheat on you too, so just enjoy the friends with benefits; why tell and end it?
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