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Q: Hey Samra! Do you have any ideas on where I could have my 14'th birthday?

I was thinking about Lazor tag, but that's in Illinois and I live in Missouri.

Anyways, I can't have a house party, too cold to do anything outside. I just want somewhere fun and I was thinking of just having like 5-6 people.

Thanks!! ♥ ♥ You're gorgeous!

HEY GEORGiOUS !!
happy birthday !!
well here are some ideas ..
hotel
Skating rink
bowling alley
indoor swimming pool (like the YMCA or something)
movie
sleepover
rent a place

well thats all i got
♥ Samra !!

Q: this is out of curiosity, can you get pregnat from water?

thnx

umm .. nOoOo ....
xOx SAMRA !!

Q: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=387836 (old question)

(New question based on old question.)
Okay... I figured out why he hasn't tried contacting me. (It is by far the worst reason possible.) I finally found a number through directory assistance, called it, and a woman answered. I was so shocked. I made up some crap about how I was from the hotel he stayed in and he had left his hat (the one he had given to me) and asked her if she wanted us to ship it back. It was the correct number because she said she'd leave him the message and have him call me back. She even knew which hat I was talking about.

After that, I did some research on the internet with the number I found. I am 99% positive HE IS MARRIED and has TWO KIDS. He lied to me, told me he was single. He had told me when we were together that his ex-girlfriend (what he really meant was his wife) had written him a letter while he was in Iraq telling him basically "cya, can't take it anymore." So I think maybe the marriage is faltering/on shakey ground, especially since he is about to be deployed soon and is wondering if she will leave him again.

HOWEVER, I know this is no excuse to lie to me and does not give him a reason to cheat on her. I have NO SYMPATHY for him. I am so glad I found this little bit of info out now, instead of wasting my heart on him. And he told me he didn't have any secrets. (Hmph!)

But I am soooooo hurt. Especially since I broke up with my previous boyfriend because of all the lies he told. Now this. Believe me, it's going to be very very hard for me to ever trust a man again. I feel like such a fool.

I'm going to send the hat back. I'm so angry right now. Maybe I'll send it back in shreds. I feel like screaming in his face or telling his wife what a &%*#%*$ he is. I feel like crying but right now I'm too much in shock to do so. I'm so stupid, but I suppose this experience will make me a wiser and stronger person... or at least an old maid.

Why do guys lie? Will I ever find someone who is not going to lie to me? Even if I find the greatest man in the world, will I screw it up because I'll be paranoid that he is lying to me? How do I deal with all this heartbreak?

hey dont worry you will find someone that you can trust n will not cheat on you jus wate he will come along and when you find that someone try trusting him and talk too him n tell him what you have been threw in the past and you dont want that too happen again n stuff .. hopei helped xOx !!

Q: My two best friends in the WHOLE WORLD are in a totally different class. And the worst part is that nobody in my class this year is my friend. I think they all think I'm weird. I am having trouble making new friends and keeping in touch with my old ones. What can I do?

well i think you need too talk too new people once they get to know you they wont think your wierd im wierd but i have a lot of friends you no n people dont hang out with me jus cuz im wierd soo jus be nice n hang with everione n they will like you !! hope i helped xOx !!

Q: im sorry its long but i really really need help!!

my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff. now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! also jessica keeps saying to everyone how hot my boyfriend is and she wont stop talking about him and stuff. now were fighting and he just doesnt understand anything. i tried talking to him but it doesnt work. everyone else (including guys) understand but he doesnt. grrrrr

well that seems reali suspitious sence everyone els understands then there must be somthin going on i think you should talk to the gurl jessica n seee whats up but try to be nice or els she wont say anithing and try talkin to your bf again say that your his gf and you care about him n you need too no whats up with him hanging around his x-gf tell him you dont mind if he hangs around with her sometimes but say you hang out with her way too much like always !! hope i helped xOx !!

Q: I am almost 15 and i have only had one real relashonship with a guy. it lasted about a year.
all of my friend have great boyfiend relashonships. but i don't, the only advice they can give me.(is to be the one to move first.) well i gess im a old fashion girl. i like the guy to ask first.

HEY !!
well if you like someone now ask them out be strong take the chance but if you dont its not the end of the world if you dont have a boyfriend tell your friends that you dont like anione and that you dont jus wana go with anione you no well hope i helped xOx !!

Q: hey i just got an advice colum and yours is really popular so like how do you get people to see your advice colum??

thanksss

HEY !!
well you have too have at least 10 questions answered to be posted up !! and you have to have favorites which is like your fav advice culm n you add it too yous n people can see it so try adding people too yours and usuali people will add you back and stuff and answer lot of questions and you'll get votes and you will be on top n stuff hope i helped ya n rate and leave feedback mwaz xOx !!

Q: Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
xoxpamela

HEY !!
well yOu shOuldnt mind at all gurl its jus friends yOu nOoO let the gurl talk tO Other ppl and hang Out with them yOu nO she still will be yOur best friend and she ant gOna betray yOu well hOpe I helped xOx !!

Q: Hey ok, I like this guy and when we hangout we act like we really like eachother but he is known to be a player and always asks me to do stuff with him and i dont, but yet he still hangs out with me.... do you think he is just going to keep trying to get some and doesnt really like me, or do you think he actually likes me because he sticks around?

well ... he could like you but sence he is a player are known as one then he could be lieing soo if i was you i would try not too fall for it because players can be such liers and make you fall for them soo easiley soo try too keep away from him are somthin are try talkin to him n stuff and his friends also and find out as much stuff as you can hope i helped xOx !!

Q: oKaii hOw dO yOoh qEt thOse cUte baCkqrOundSz liiKe uRSz oN tO aDviiCenAtOrS? tHnx* =)

HEY !!
well i go to photobucket and go on search type in what you want your background to be like mine is hearts i type in hearts and they will give me lot of diffrent types of hearts and you click right on the mouse and go on properties and get the adress and put it on where it says url background but make sure you isin doesnt have a border cuz then its not gona look right !! well hope i helped xOx !!

Q: I'm 16 and I've never been in love. I'd just like to know if anyone else out there has ever been in my position, because I really feel alone. All of my friends throw around the word "love" after having a 2 hour bf/gf relationship. But, I'm scared when I'm older that I won't ever have that one person to wake up and want to be with everyday! It like scares me. Had anyone else been in my position?

HEY !!
you will fall in love its just you havent found the right person yet just wate and he will come along hope i helped xox !!

Q: What are some good ways to keep a cat from scratching you??? I REALLY NEED TO KNOW! it's on a test tomorrow...! Thanks

hmm .. get it declawed
hopr i helped xox !!

Q: hi, this is a common question i know...BUT...how do you make out. im soo nervous that i will mess it up and get a reputation as a bad kisser! that would suck...a flippin lot. so yea but do you do to make out..with your mouth..and yeah..

thanks

bye

HEY !!
well i cant tell you how to make out but i can tell you this well you can ask a guy to teach you a nice guy not some jerk hope i helped XOX !!

Q: Well im going to be a belly dancer for halloween and i cant change it now. But my problem is, i got my period and for my costume the pants are see through. All most all of it is. What if i leak? What can i do? HELP?

HEY !!
well u can try wearing a tampon and a pad at the same time lol soo it dont leak well thats all i got hope i helped xox !!

Q: ok 15/m/oh. ok there is this girl i like and i wanna talk to her but i get to nervous. the wierd thing is i'm NEVER nervous around girls i've never had this kind of prob with a girl. and i always get phone numbers w/o a prob but this girl is different. please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HEY !! awwww !! thats soo cute !!
well it seems like u realii like her and stuff soo if i was you i would try to talk to her some how and find out how she feels maybe even write her a note are somthin that always works well i hope i helped at all X0X !!!

Q: okay, so i like a guy and i think he likes me back. the only problem is that there's this girl at my school who's his ex-girlfriend and they've been though a lot, and also just recently broken up. the girl isn't really my friend, but sort of a "friend of a friend". so i don't know whether to keep liking the guy, or to forget about it because he might be "off-limits". i'm really confused, please help!

[i give 5's for good answers, thanks]
by the way, i'm in junior high.

HEY !!
well u n that gurl arent reali friends soo i wouldnt mind if i was you i would talk to him n see if he likes her and stuff !! hope i helped xOx ~!~

Q: I just started my period and i have a very difficult guesion to ask every1....
WINGS OR NO WINGS

i rate high

HEY !!
defanatli wings they are the bast
hope i helped ya XoX !! mwaz !!

Q: about how long after someones death do they have their funeral?

HEY !!
hmm .. i think
about few days
hope i helped !

Q: heyy samra!! can you please write too me!!!
I mean we havent talked in like forever and you STILL didnt answer why I cant write like that and what are sum ways we can rite!!! love you ♥ o0o0o yea this heart thing dosnt work for writing damn peoples messages!! oo0o yea I had to deleate 50% of my icons because they wernt there! thnkxx ~*XoX*~

hey well i dono y u cant write like that its jus someppl dono how to read it and dono how to uderstand it n if u keep writing it you will get banned and i dono what kinda ways you can write its pretty much onli lwer case letters ok hope i helped mwah !!

Q: HEYY OK I GET IT YOU CANT WRITE LIKE THAT GEEZZZ OK WELL LIKE WHY CANT YOU WRITE LIKE THAT I MEAN C'ON PEOPLE ARE STUPID IF THEY CANT GET THAT INTO THEIR BRAIN UGHHH DANG SAMRA WHY DIDNT YOU SAVE MUH PRO NOW IM GOING TO HAVE TO AND WITH ME IM DEFINATLY GOING TO MESS IT UP WELL LIKE I LOVE YOU TOO MWAHZ!! XoX

hey welll you cant write klike that because you will get banned ok n i cant help you with your pro i told you dont press on easey edit cuz it will get delted but did you listen no well not mi foult now you have to go bak on photobucket n find your background and put it bak on and dont make the same mistake again ok well hope i helped mwah !!