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ok im blonde right now but its like died blonde it looks good but i want to put some strawberry blonde highlights in with it i have blue eyes so i think that it would look good im just not sure how strawberry blonde goes with already blonde hair so can someone tell me how it would look or give me some sites to go to so i can see how it would look? thanks love lots... ps. my hair is like 2 inches past my shoulder

You can just go to google.com or look in magazines or something. I think it would look really cute!!! I would so do it! I've seen it before and it looks awesome!!! =P

xoxo Kourtney

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Does anyone know where I can get brown reebok classics supercourt? I looked everywhere and can't find any, not the reebok store, not journeys, not on google, not anywhere. Please help.

Try looking on ebay. I dont know if they would
have it here.. but look at this website:
http://store.yahoo.com/coolestshop/reebok.html

OR try looking at there official website
http://store.reebok.com/home/index.jsp

Hope those help!! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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okay...me n my friend are making these shirts with iron on thingys...but we don't know what to put on them..we can put anything we want because we just need to find a picture on the internet...any ideas of what to put on our shirts?
thanks

Well, you know how shirts these days always have sayings on it like "Shake it like a polaroid picture" or like if you blonde you can put "Blondes have more fun" or brunettes "Brunettes are better" or something like that. Or you can put funny sayings on there like the famous Jessica Simpson like "Is it chicken or is it tuna?" or just put stuff you like, like if you like stars put stars all over the place. Or you favorite sport. Just be creative. You can also go to google.com or ask.com and look stuff up that you can put on your shirts. Hope this helps and have fun!!! =P

xoxo Kourtney

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okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them?

You can always pop in a movie and make some popcorn and candy and then make it like a movie theater. Or try asking them what they would like to do instead. Watch T.V. with them, color, draw, whatever they want to do that is fun. Or you can try asking their parents what they like to do for fun too.

xoxo Kourtney =D

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My mom always has me wearing what she thinks is cute. I told her I want to change to like a punk style but she wont let me. I want to be comfortable in what I wear but I cant get her to except my style!!! How should I explain this to her again???

Try going shopping with your mom and showing her the clothes that you like. And just be like these are the clothes I like because it fits my personality. Thats how I like to dress and I think its cute. I don't want to dress how you want me to dress because that doesn't fit me and I don't feel comfortable in them like I do with the clothes I want to wear. Just try going from there and I hope that works! Good luck hun! =P

xoxo Kourtney

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hi um this may be stupid by am a 13 yr old guy and i need help getting a girl i love dearly to like me how would i

Hey. Well how long have you known the girl? But if you haven't known her that long or you guys dont talk that much just get to know her alittle bit longer. But if you guys have known each other long enough, you should tell her how you feel, just be honest with her. I usually like it when a guy tells me they like me and most girls do. Just be sweet about it and just tell her how you feel. She'll melt!!! Good luck!!!

xoxo Kourtney

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I'm going to a new school in fall. How can I make people like me there?

Be yourself is most important. Don't be someone you're not. All you have to do is just be talkitive and talk to everyone. Well don't just randomly go up to someone but you know what I mean. Like if you're in class talk to the people around you. Try doing that in every class. Good luck! You'll be fine!!! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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Does anyone know any sad songs maybe something that makes you or someone u know cry? The name and who sings it?

There's a country song lol but its sad:
Brad Paisly and Alison Krauss - Whiskey Lullaby

Another sad song is:
Heaven the 9/11 song (with the little girl talking)

Sarah Maclachlan - I Will Remember You

lol a lot of country songs are depressing lol I just figured that out. Hope that helps. If you need more just ask.

xoxo Kourtney

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I'm having trouble falling asleep. Does anyone now anything that could help me fall asleep easier and faster?

Sometimes I have trouble too, so I watch T.V. for awhile and what else I do is I listen to music really softly... that always helps you fall asleep. Hope that helps.

xoxo Kourtney =D

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okay I asked a question about the same guy a while back but I really need a new answer!Okay I wrote about a guy that I love and he had a girlfriend then and now he doesnt,should I tell him I like him even though he took another girl out to the movies?His sister is telling him I like him am I making a mistake by letting him know or what?Also he has told me he liked me b4 but I couldnt say it back but I have kissed him b4(his idea!)Any advice?!

I think its a good idea to tell him because you don't want to regret something because then you'll think to yourself "What would of happenend...." And who knows he may still like you. And don't worry about the girl he took to the movies, its not like you're butting in because they're not even going out. But I think you should tell him you like him because then he'll know and hey who knows he may still like you!!! And you guys even kissed and you said it was his idea!! Good luck hun!!!

xoxo Kourtney

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I'm stuck between two guys.. I don't know which one to choose even tho I already go out with one of them. Before I started going out with boy 1, my friend introduced me to boy 2 and things were going great. Then, I went to hershey park with boy 1 (and the rest of my school) and we hit it off! we went of every ride together and he was being such a sweetheart (and still is) and we cuddled the whole ride home! After that, we started going out. The day after we started going out I left for soccer camp and the beach, so I was gone for 2 weeks. When i came back I was hanging out with boy 1 alot and everything was going great... and then I saw boy 2 the other day at the pool.. and OMG he looked so cute! I've started talking to boy 2 a lot now.. i still talk to boy 1 a lot tho.. I'm confused about who i like more tho. I really like my boyfriend, but then i remember that if i hadnt started going out with him I'd be going out with boy 2. boy 2 still has feelings for me.. he was asking about me while i was gone and i do like him too. Boy 2 is also a year older than me, not that it makes a difference. but i like that he's older.. and its not like he's some older badboy, he's a nice guy. I'm just not sure if i should stick with my boyfriend for the summer, or break up with him and be single for the rest of the summer so i can have both, or stay with him and just flirt with boy 2 still? HELP ME!

I think you should break up with Boy 1 because you don't want to flirt behind his back do you? Because what happens if Boy 1 finds out you're flirting with someone else? Just tell Boy 1 that you think you guys should be friends for now. And then you can see where the whole summer leads to with the boys. Because now that you're single, you can flirt with anyone you want and not have to worry about anyone getting mad at you because no one is your boyfriend.


xoxo Kourtney

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Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think?

You're tall for your age, but you're skinny! Be proud of what you have! =P

xoxo Kourtney

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i am 14 and i am a female. i was wondering if i am only making matters worse . i have been helping my crush feel better about the fact that his crush doesnt like him. and at the same time i am trying to make his crush like him. she has a boyfriend. i am doing this bc i thougt maybe if i talk to him more and help him, maybe it will click that he likes me bc i am such a helpful person. should i keep up with my plan or stop it completely?

Thats really thoughtful of you to do that but he'll have no clue you like him! I think since you guys talk all the time, you should tell him you like him. Don't regret something in the future because then you'll think "what would of happened if I told him I liked him?" Since she already has a boyfriend you should be like you should go after someone who doesn't have a boyfriend. And just tell him who you like. You'll feel much better. So go for it girl! =P

xoxo Kourtney

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Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!


My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????

Live2luvu

Well friends dont go out with ex boyfriends. Unless you talk to them about it. But don't just go out with him right when they break up. First talk to her about it and ask her if it would be alright. If it isn't alright with her, then who has been there longer for you, the girl or the boy? Because friends last forever boyfriends don't always last forever. So just talk to your friend first before you do anything.

xoxo Kourtney

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My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything!

If you don't want to do stuff with him then don't. He can't make you do anything you don't want to. And since you're moving.. don't get too comfortable with him because then when you do move, your only get hurt. And for your friend who got mono, even though its called a kissing disease or whatever, doesn't mean you get it just from kissing. She could of gotten it from sharring drinks with other people, or she could of gotten it from someone else. Everyone kisses, and you don't always get mono, she just somehow did.

xoxo Kourtney

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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do?

If she lies again just be like oo really thats cool. Just go along with it. But if she's your friend and you want to work it out try talking to her again but be more calm about it and try not to fight with one another. But if you don't want to put up with it anymore, just don't really hang out with her that much, just hang out with your other friends. Maybe she'll realize that she shouldn't lie and you guys don't want to put up with it anymore so she'll stop and run back to you guys.

xoxo Kourtney

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i really like this guy and we r kinda friends and i want him to know that i like him but whenever i talk to him i get really shy and im not myself...wut can i do?

If you want a guy to like you, you have to show him your personality... how you really are. Don't be someone you aren't though. You have to be yourself. Talk to him more, just start with small talk and then ask him questions you want to know. Like "Hey Whats up" "How are you" stuff like that. But just try hard not to be too shy, act like you don't even like him and just open up to him and become closer friends with him.

xoxo Kourtney

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How do u get rid of Acne scars??

Try going to the dermatolagist and asking them. I'm sure they can give you some type of cream or medicine or something to get rid of it. Thats where my sister went because she had bad acne and she has very little scars, you can barely see them! For now, just try using the liquid foundation or something. I hope that helps!

xoxo Kourtney =D

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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink!

Why does he want to commit suicide? But be there no matter what. If he needs someone to talk to be there for him. Tell him "it may not seem like it to you, but a lot of people care about you and that you have so much to live for." And just also tell him even though he is going through whatever is going through, he'll get through it. Because most life learn lessons is usually caused by pain. And no ones life is perfect, you just have to get through it and if he goes to a friend, he'll get through it together with his friend(s) or whoever helps him through it. Just tell him stuff like that. I hope this really helps and that he doesn't commit suicide! Do whatever it takes! Good luck!!!

xoxo Kourtney

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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!!

You can either try talking to your mom first and telling her how you feel or telling your step-dad how you feel. Or you can sit both of them down because then you're mom will be right there next to you. Just tell him how you feel, that you don't like how you get treated, that you like it when you two get along you don't like it when he's not nice to you and that you just want to be treated equally to your two brothers. Just tell him stuff like that and how you feel.

xoxo Kourtney

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