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should i stop?
i am 14 and i am a female. i was wondering if i am only making matters worse . i have been helping my crush feel better about the fact that his crush doesnt like him. and at the same time i am trying to make his crush like him. she has a boyfriend. i am doing this bc i thougt maybe if i talk to him more and help him, maybe it will click that he likes me bc i am such a helpful person. should i keep up with my plan or stop it completely?
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No, don't stop, you're helping him and making him feel better. This is making your friendship better because he might feel that he likes you. Just keep being friends with him. If he ever becomes single, ask him out. Just think about it, this might ruin your friendship. Hope I helped!
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Uh..well, your plan probably will not work. He's so stuck on his crush that he probably doesn't care that much that you're helping him. If you still want to help him, well fine go ahead but don't get your hopes up that he's going to suddenly realize that you're the one he really wnats. It's not gonna happen.
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Thats really thoughtful of you to do that but he'll have no clue you like him! I think since you guys talk all the time, you should tell him you like him. Don't regret something in the future because then you'll think "what would of happened if I told him I liked him?" Since she already has a boyfriend you should be like you should go after someone who doesn't have a boyfriend. And just tell him who you like. You'll feel much better. So go for it girl! =P
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what are y0u g0ing t0 d0 if that girl starts t0 actually like him?! and they date..? and they are happy.. it's nice that y0u wanna help s0me0ne, but y0u sh0uld d0 it cause y0u wanna see him happy, n0t because y0u want t0 impress them, it d0esnt w0rk that way with b0ys.. y0u sh0uld let him kn0w h0w y0u feel ab0ut everything, and c0ntinnue t0 help him, if y0u want t0..
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no no no dont stop. ur on a roll! lol keep talking to him and giving him advice or whatever he needs. start to hanging around him more like at each others houses or like goin to a party or something and let him see the real u.
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well i dunno wut to tell u..cuz may b he'll just see u as a good friend n nothin more...just chillax n try to move on ;) give other guys a chance :-D xoxo effy
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I think it's time you let him know how you feel!Maybe during a time when you're comforting him,remind him of all his great qualities,and how lucky any girl would be to have him,and maybe say something like "There's probably a million girls out there who really like you a lot and care for you...hey,one of them might even be sitting right here talking to you,just as afraid of her crush on you as you are of your crush on someone else".And kinda give him "a look" ya know what I mean?I can't think of any more brazen way of saying it short of hiring a sky-writer to write it in the sky for him!!!Hehehehe!Good luck darlin',write me back,I wanna hear ALL about it! :)
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If it makes him feel good than dont stop.If he gets a little annoyed than hold back a little.Hope i helped ya.Much <33
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I can tell that you really like him because you are helping him. I have faced the same problem. I had a crush on a good friend of mine and he really liked one of my other friends. Since I am good at writing poetry, he asked me to write a poem to give to her. I wrote it and they started going out. Soon I stopped liking him and realized that I liked my best friend. Ironically, he liked the same girl as the other boy. They broke up and I tried to get my best friend to go out with her but she didnt like him. To answer your question,
If you really like him and are trying to make his crush like him for real and you want to see him happy then continue what you are doing. If you are just trying to get him for yourself then you might want to find out how much you really like him and tell him. Of course I cant really talk because I have liked my best friend for 5 months and the only reason he found out was because my friend told him.<Long story>
hope all this helps and if you want to talk or need more advice then you can email me at samgirl122003@yahoo.com
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