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Lost a special friend
Hey everyone 15/m here. Well as you can tell from my title, I just lost a special friend of mine. We used to go out for 3 1/2 months 'til she broke up with me and we've been pretty good friends since then, 'til today. All of this started cause I sent her a text message saying I had sex with another girl, but I really didnt. I just wanted to get an honest reaction from her. And of course she got mad...real mad this time. *sigh* If I knew this would have happened, I would never had done it. I talked to her about it tonight and the end result was that she didn't want anything to do with me, ANYTHING. So I told her if she really wanted it to be that way, I would get rid of all my contacts with her, and I did. I went from maybe getting back together with her(heavy emphasis on maybe), to being absolutely nothing in her life. She just means so much to me that I don't want to lose her, I still wanna marry her if I could. I love her, but I don't think she has any for me anymore. I basically cried my heart out again. Does anybody know what I could do to get her back? I don't wanna lose my angel. ='( Help me please...Life is meaningless to me right now without her.
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send her a note telling her why you did what you did. Tell her how you feel about her and how you just wanted to know how she would react. Tell her that you know now, that it was a mistake to write the note but you can't change that. Make sure she knows it wasn't true. Tell her how you can't stand not being her friend, then give her time and see if she feels the same way. She is probalby just really hurt and confused right now. If she got so upset about it then she must still have some love for you.
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All right. Here are my suggestions. One: send her some flowers and a nice note because you really messed up. Two: give her some space for a little while because she has to mull it over. You have broken her trust of you because you told a heinous lie. It takes a lot of time to forgive someone for that breach. Do everything you can to let her know that you will never lie to her again. Apparently she does care about you, but she is really angry.
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well if u really like here , and u ben together for awhile , she is probley the rite 1 for u so when u see her again tell here the truth bc u dont know how long she'll stay single I hoe I helped PLZ rate me Jenipher
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i went out with my best friend for 2 months. i love him with all my heart. But he told me that he had gottin drunk and had sex with his ex gurl friend. and laughed about it in my face i told him that i didnt give a fu** any more and that it was over. He told me that it was just a joke and that he wanted to know how i would react. So i told him what would he do if i told him i had sex with another huy while we were going out. i told him thathe was dead wrong for what he did and that i was sorry that i ever met him. He told me sorry like 5000000 times i told him that i really loved him and that he really hurt my feelings but i wanted to give him another chance because i really loved him. but he had to promise to never do any thing like that again. and he promised.
Tell her that you are really sorry and that you know you should have not lied to her like that and that you really love her with all her heart and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her if that was possible. and will she please give you one more chance and that if u screw up one more time you will never bother her again well i hope that work. i will love to hear if that helped and to know how things went and dont forget to rate me
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WoW! That was a big mistake there. You still should talk to her and tell her that you just wanted to see how she would react and tell her you love her. It's never too late! She obviously loves you since she reacted like that.
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hey, well i'm so sorry bout ur situation...my advice to u is to tell her the truth n why u did it and everything...tell her how u feel...tell her u want her back...since she reacted like that when u told her bout ur fake afair wit another gurl then she obviously cares for u..so tell her wussup n b open to her ;) i bet she'll give u another chance....tell her to think bout it b4 she gives u an ansower...n make clear to her that if she says no then u wont bother her again...if she says yes then of course its a diff. story ;) good luck xoxo effy
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Write her a letter saying how much you miss her and want her back and she will most likely read it .. its a sure thing.. if you ask me nobody should end a relationship over a joke through a text or not but whatever some people just have there reasons but im sorry to hear about it and i hope everything works out-trix
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Well I know a little bit about boys things like that because I have a best guy friend and all.Hmm your story is sad,but what I think you should do is call her but first plan out a reason and tell her how sorry you are,and that u dunt want to loose her and all of the stuff you said to your question to her that she means so much to you.IF she reallie loves you,she will give you another chance.But dont be mean or anything but just give her a call or just maybe go to her house and tell her how you feel.Trust me if you pour your heart out to her she will truly understand that you love her and that you never reallie ment to hurt her.So just follow what your heart tells you to do it everything should work out fine.Goodluck!I hope I helped a little bit.
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Whoa big mistake there.Tell her you didnt mean what you said and that you just wanted to hear what she had to say.Write her a love poem or something.Just try talking to her as much as u can.Good luck i hope u get her back!Much <33
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Although this may not be what you want to hear,and it may be cliche,the world doesn't stop turning from a broken heart,even tho we'd all like it to from time to time.There really is no other way to say this,than to say you went about things in the wrong way!I can understand WHY you did it,really I can,but the better option would have been to simply sit down with her and talk about it.You said you guys were friends,so you could discuss those things,how would she feel if something like that ever happened(although,note to all boys;it's never a good idea to approach your girl w/"hey baby how would you feel if i got it on w/some other chick?").Now,you're in a situation where she can't trust you.But can you blame her?If you're lieing and doing sneaky things like this NOW,what's it going to be like if y'all got back into a relationship??Maybe write her a letter,let her know why you did it and that you realize your mistake.Let her know how deeply you feel for her and that you really don't want to lose her in your life.Then let her decide.Don't push,cuz you might just push her away for good.Also,in your own time,sit down and really ask yourself why you did that.At the end of the day you're only 15,and you will experience many ups and downs with relationships before settling down!
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