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Does coach make bikini's? When i googled it i could only find them on ebay...which i dont want.
Please help!
Where can i buy them? (link)
HmMM..


Coach is mostly known for their leather goods and shoes. But, I'm sure they do make swim suits since they do make clothes. They're just probably not in season. And I do know that to get most of their clothes/most things other than handbags and such you have to order them because most boutiques do not carry them in stock. Some do, but hard to find.


What you should do is either go to a Coach boutique and ask about them. If you don't have one near you, call 800-223-8647. Good luck


ok
this is a random question
but if im 5'7
how tall would 5'4 be on me
like up to my shoulder,chin..
where?!
thanxx (link)
...It would be three inches lower than the top of your head. So like a little above your ears or so...


ok so im 16/f and for some reason my ankles pop everytime i walk up stairs and sometimes just taking steps make them pop really loud!! its really embarrasing in class when it's dead silent during a test and i have to walk across the room and my ankles pop!! is there something wrong w/ them or what? also my wrists and knees pop whenever i bend them back and forth but it hurts usually when they do pop. should i see a doctor or is just a weird thing that's normal? o ya im a cheerleader if that helps any! (link)
I have the same problem and I went to the doctor. It's perfectly normal but there isn't much you can do about it. It happens because your bones are more brittle than others. So that means, in addition to the popping, it's easier for you to break a bone. Also, if they hurt, it's mostly because you're growing. So drink your milk, and take your vitamins...thats all my doctor told me to do. If you want to hear it yourself to be on the *safe* side, you can go to the doctor.


What I do whenever I start popping though, is I try taking slower steps. It cuts down on the popping. Try not making any sudden movements.


ok i get like sweat bumbs between my boobies and do u pplz know any way to get rid of them cause the only way i know is popping them and then it leaves sares??? (link)
allishow is WRONG. *Sweat bumps* is called heat rash; they are not acne. An astringent will help though. You get it when your sweat glands are blocked so the sweat builds up. You should NOT pop them; they pop on their own after a few days. Like you experienced, if you pop them on your own, you can damage the tissue and cause scaring.


Wash your chest with cool water and blot yourself dry with a towel to cool yourself off. To prevent it, wear light, looser fitting clothing and try to stay out of hot, humid weather. Since it's on your boobs, if you wear padded bras or thick bras, try going with a non padded cotton bra. In general, try to keep yourself cool.


hey, well on my old account that i had on this site [ i lost the password ] i had alot of people who listed me as there favorite columnists. now i only have one and i dont understand why. i give like the same type of advice as i did with my old account. can anyone tell me what the problem is?

-caitt♥ (link)
yours might not be as known yet.
but ill add you to my list


Do guys get anything from the girl being on top. Or do they prefer for the girl to be on bottom. (link)
it depends upon..whos getting the control..if the guy is on top,hes controling the sex..if the girl is on top..shes controling........
it depends upon whos more controling and most of the time the guy is in control..unless the girl is really wild..but if i was the guy i would be on the top just saying..hope this is a help =D


If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins (link)
i agree, i get soo mad when my freinds are like "anti gays" and stuff like that. i dont know much about religion and dont intend on learning about it. i dont think being gay is wrong, and you dont, so i think thats all that matters.
some people would tell me i dont believe in god, which i dont, but saying that im not against gays isnt saying "you arent against gays, so you must not believe in god".

so i have no real answer for your question.
the only thing is that, i dont believe its sin either.


I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do? (link)
that is the most discusting thing ive ever heard in my life!! if that happened to me..id probly gag..did you swallow the throw up??
one time i threw up myself just like a mouth full and i swallowed it..since i had nothing to spit it in..but i was like you icouldnt eat at all..thats how discusting my own throw up was..then a couple days later i threw that same throw up back up and i actually spit it out..then i brushed my teeth &&was able to eat again..so maybe you should wait till you throw up..and youll be fine..i hope it works..if not..maybe you should see a doctor
good luck=D


alright...i need advice about making new friends...im going to highschool in a few days...ill be a freshman....&& i probly wont know anyone since i just moved..so i would like some help ..thanks
Melody 14/f (link)
join clubs and sports
im going to be a freshman too and at a new school...highschool.
so what im planning is to join alot of clubs and stuff
just relax and dont try to hard. because if you do people willthink your desperate or weird. =D i used to try very hard and people thought i was desperate.


ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get? (link)
people around my school ALWAYS have condoms on them, so what i could do is just take one from my freinds wallet if i decided i wanted to have sex..
or get them from your parents room =O
or just buy them at a store
a store that is not in your town, like at a mall, or one that someone you know isnt there, would be the best place to go. because nooone can judge you or anything
and an even better place to go is in a line with a teen working the register..an adult will just judge too much.


Uhmm.i was considering using Jamster to get a free ring tone.. Does it send u texts? charges you? please telly me your past experences with it! (link)
it wouldnt work..but it might say "free ringtones" but to text them, it charges.
and for me it charged me for the text but never sent my ring tone =/

its a scam in my opinion
but some companies MIGHT work.


I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do? (link)
eat something around where you'd throw up if your sick so if you really do throw up its right there....so when you do throw up, you probably will feel better beacuse her throw up might be..like in your system, as discusting as that sounds, it could be.


okay...so i want to do the lottery& im 14...& my 'parents said theyll get me a ticket..but everytime..we get a chance..they say no....i want to do it cause ive never done it before..and my real mom use to do it all the time...also sometimes ill guess the numbers for next day..& im right about the numbers most the time..twice i guessed the mega millions lottery correctly..and alot of times i guessed the cash 3 right i just started with this checking thing..so im a really good guesser,..also im great with numbers..when i first learned how to count..i learned all by myself..it came to me because i found a pattern..and thats how i figure out the next days lottery..its kind of weird..but i really want to try it for real..and win alot of money...so how can i 'really' convence my mom to get a ticket...or should i try to get sumone to buy me one??? i dont know..please help!!!!!
(link)
Pick your numbers and give them to anyone you know that buys lottery tickets to use. If your numbers are right then they can split the money with you. Otherwise you're going to have to wait until you're 18.


how do you know the difference between your period and spotting. my period is very irregular and sometimes i am not sure if it is my period or spotting. how do you tell. and sometimes my periods are very heavy and sometimes very light. i dont know. its confusing. (link)
Sometimes it can be really hard to tell the difference. Spotting is a very minimal amount of blood where either you don't notice it at all until you see it in your panties or enough to have to wear panty liners. If it's a light period, you'll still have to change pads/tampons a few times a day.


If it's ABOUT a month apart (I'd say 18 days+ since you're irregular), then it's most likely a light period.


Me and a few friends are planning to hangout tonight, but we cant come up with any ideas! We arent looking to spend a whole lot of money because we are all budgeting to save money up for school. The only idea I have so far is to rent a movie and have a girls night in, but that may tend to get boring. Any creative ideas? (link)
i think a girls night in CAN be fun. it depends how you do it.

things i do when im having a girls night are

-truth or dare
-truth or dare around the neighborhood..
-since i live on a dead end, if im at my house with a freind or 2, we usaully stand on the house on the corners lawn becuase they are old and go to sleep at like 8, and we dance for cars and pretend to flash cars and funny stuff like that or run up the street yelling 'sexual words'
-make overs
-the food/drink game (where you mix food with other foods...and the one on the 'seat' has to eat it. or drink it. depends if your playing with liquids or solids.)
-makeovers gone wild =0 where the 'judge' picks a category like 'craziest hairstyle' and the 2 players go into 2 differant areas and do there hair the craziest. or you can do like your makeup with this game too.
-the 'boy' game. where you and your friends put in 2 differant bowls, peices of really small paper. first you all write differant boys names (dont share what you write on the papers with ANYONE) and put them in 1 bowl. and the other bowl but actions to do with them...some can be mean, some can be sexual, fun, funny, etc. like go bowling, have sex, kick in 'balls'.
then you pick a peice from both. this can last a while if you do funny ones. =]
-turn off the lights in your room and play 'monster', acually the lights dont have to be turned out, but what you need to do is blind fold someone and you pretty much wait until they count and you run around the room and have the blind folded person find you...you can hit them with things and push them over. as long as they dont 'tag' you. haha.
-secret game...you go in a circle and tell secrets or funny stories or embarresing stories about you, or other people.
-just talk about crushes and shyt like that
-make up a dance.

theres alot you can do.
girls nights can be fun and lets you act immature and let loose.


latley i feel so down. my friends dont really want to hang out with me...even though they always comment me on myspace or tell me over AIM or MSN that they wanna chillax wit me...but never make plans. im getting really mad and thinking maybe its me. so what should i do? (link)
ive been going through the same thing, its sad when it happens but dont blame yourself.

i like it at my house. its relaxing and i feel cared about.

dont worry you'll get all your freinds back when school starts for you.


I have a RABBIT, and it is a boy and it skwirts pee everywhere. what do i do? (link)
maybe you should get a plastis cage so the pee stays in the cage and wash it frequently...i hope that advice is better ;)


alright...i just moved && i want to meet the neighbors around the neighborhood...but i dont know how to meet them....do i just go up to their door and say i just moved next door...or what??....my mom says just walk the block && youll meet sumone new...ive tryed that, it doesnt work..cause nobody is ever out side so please help...cause i want to make new friends...thanks
Melody 14/f (link)
you could. theres a few ways to meet the neighbors when your new...but im not too good at this because ive never moved...

wait until its a very nice day, and maybe walk your dog or ride your bike...so ther will have to be atleast a few people out.

going to new places. like the beach and etc.

whenever you see someone outside and your outside just walk up and say "hi im melody, im new to (your town..)"

or just wait until school starts
when someone new comes to our town i always greet them and ask them where they used to live and etc.


my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 months now; and im almost positive i really love him. he tells me he loves me and everything. i would have to say he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. but... latly i have been having dreams about him breaking up with me for a girl name brooke. (he has a really good friend thats name is brooke) and im afride once school starts everythings gonna change. i dont wanna get hurt. im really confussed if i should breka up with him or not.


thanks you a super lot;
puzzled;
14; female. (link)
Id see how it goes..wait until school starts and IF everything changes, he calls you less, he doesnt say i love you as much, he doesnt talk to you as much during school. then i would dump him. but i wouldnt dump him until then. just incase he doesnt want to.

me, i dont believe in love at age 14. once i get alittle older than thats when theres more 'love'.


I have a feeling that i am going anorexic again...I was for about 2 years and i stopped..gained a lot of weight..but now im cutting down on food cuz im never hungry and my boyfriend makes me eat..but i keep on loosing weight SOOO fast...( like i was a size 8, 2 weeks ago and now they practically are falling off of me!) I dont know what to do! Help! (link)
what you do is keep track of your food intake. but add alittle more each day until you start gaining weight. you will get sicker if you just eat soo much food that you feel sick and if you keep eating like nothing you could die from anorexia...

so just add alittle more food intake each day.




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