about

Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

advice

I love bands like Boys Like Girls, Angels and Airwaves, The Academy Is, 30 Seconds to Mars. I'm not sure if they're indie or alternative. Anyways, I'm looking for some other great bands like them. Any recommendations or a website that could help me out?

website: http://www.fueledbyramen.com/main/

some bands:
-forgive durden
-a rocket to the moon
-escape the fate
-stereo skyline
-the white tie affair
-sing it loud
-daphne loves derby
-paramore
-a rocket to the moon
-go betty go
-this providence
-the maine
-all time low
-The sophomore attempt
-the friday night boys

hope i helped, if you need anymore, just inbox me, xxo

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Does anyone know any good books that include romance with mystery or horror in it? Something like Twilight but something a little more mature but not too mature if you know what I mean. If you have any GOOD books in general don't be afraid to mention it!

-The pretty little liars series
-The pretty little devils [it was a great book, you'd loove it]
-freaky green eyes
-killing britney

hope i helped! xxo

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ok so, i met my boyfriend over the internet, but he lives so far away because he goes to boarding school. i trust him, but recently he's been actting distant and has been partying ALOT. ive told him how i feel but he just say its no big deal or whatever. i am completely confused; i know i dont want to break up with him. but its getting to the point where i think he's cheating. how do i know if hes been unfaithful? are there signs? help?

Ok, if you're ever with him, like together, check out his phone. scroll through his contacts and see who's on there. if there are alot of girls ... that could be a bad sign. and you could also check out to see who he's texting, or his recent calls. but also, ask him about who he parties with, because if he goes alot, he could have cheated on you, but not intentionally, maybe just too drunk. the possibility is there. and since he's been acting distant its not a good sign it usually means that they have alot on their mind, or busy with other people and may even be contemplating on if he still likes you or not. his distant-ness may also be because he met someone else at a party, and is just trying to figure out what he wants. some other signs are how you feel. if you think he's cheating, or something inside you is telling you he's cheating, he might be. i believe in trusting your intuiton/gut, and it's usually right.
other signs:
-if he asks you to change your clothes or what you look like
-doesn't name who he was hanging out with if you ask him, usually just replies with .. "some people"
-he may accuse you of cheating on him because he feels guilty
-is constantly asking you "what's the matter" because he might think that you are on to him.
-if he doesn't pick up the phone when you are around [if a girl is calling]
-he doesn't call you alot anymore
-when you guys talk, he always gets mad at you.
hope i helped ! xxo good luck, tell me how it goes !

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I REALLLLLY need to update my itunes...what are some popular songs...i like really all genres...but i'm looking for songs that are like Z100 type songs (i'm 17/f). If you don't live in NY..then z100 is like the "teenager" radio station with all the most popular songs.

Thanks!!

katy perry: hot 'n cold
Kanye West: heartless
Kanye West: love lockdown
Taylor Swift: love story
Miley Cyrus: fly on the wall
Fall out boy: I don't care
Britney Spears: Circus
Britney Spears: womanizer
T.I: live your life
The all american Rejects: gives you hell
Rhiana: Rehab
The maine: everything i ask for
kevin roudoff: let it rock

if you want more, just askk :]
hope i helped ! xxo

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theres this guy that i like, and he told me he doesnt like me..i accepted it. but he keeps telling people who dont even know me that i like him..why is he doing this?

He wants to boost his ego and make people think that alot of girls like him, you just happened to be an example. however, he obviously doesnt get many girls and wants to try to make seem like he does. Some guys also say it so they have something to talk about. its pathetic [what he's doing] and he's just being a jerk and trying to make you feel bad. which you shouldn't. you have no reason to. now you just know that he's being a jerk who needs to quit it. maybe you should say somehting to him, or leave it alone and see if he stops, people will eventually get tired of it and he'll stop, or feel like an ass. either way, you win :]
hope i helped ! xxo good luck

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Okay so i've been talking to this guy, and everyone is telling me he is a jerk. So i dont judge someone before i get to know them and i've been talking to him for a while now. He is really sweet to me over texting and IMing and stuff like that, but in school he totally ignores me!
The other day i looked at him and smiled, and he looked the other way. When we were hanging out after school he didn't say one word to me.
He texted me then next day and said he was sorry and that his friends were distracting him.
I'm texting him now and he's being really sweet again. But i just don't know, cuz if i go out with this guy i dont want it to be just a texting relationship.
I'm not even sure if he likes me that way, It just made me wonder.
Help?

Oh man, I've been in your shoes before haha. Like, exactly the same situation ... creepy hahaa. But anyways, sometimes guys are either just shy in person, are scared they won't know what to say face to face, afraid that they won't be able to hold a conversation with you out of cyber world, worried about what his friends would say if you two were talking in school and stuff, scared that since you two are being cute with eachother on text that it will be awkward in person. Basically, you just have to go up to him in school when he's at his locker or alone in the hallway and talk to him. say hi, and then ask him whats up and everything because he won't have an excuse for not talking to you then. You could also stop texting him for that long and try talking more in school until both the real world and cyber space talks balance out. yuh know? if you make it less awkward for him, it will be. But if he just ignores you still, then he is a jerk and you can do better :] yuh know?
Hope i helped ! good luck ! xxo

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A guy who i have been talking to for the past week keeps on texting me. (even though idk what he looks like, much less what he likes or anything like that.) we've been talking and iv asked him the basic ques. and all what kinda music does he like?, Deos he play any sports or instruments?, his previous relationships. Now we have nuthing to talk about and i just don't know what to say.

Ok, basically, you just go with the flow. lets say your conversation is something like this ...
you: hey
him: hey
you: what are you doing?
him: nothing, just chillen, you?
you: same...
[this is where the awkward pause would probably be] so you should say something like...
you: same, i have so much to do today.
something along those lines that will start a conversation. you can be as random as you want when there are awkward pauses. you could tell him something funny that happened to you. or something a teacher said to you, or something that happened at school. tell him about anything your excited for, what he likes to do on weekends, and maybe tell him that you guys should hang sometime or maybe something that reminded you of him. stuff like that, yuh know? he will probably relate to some stuff you say, so just be random :] it's not as awkward as it sounds, trust me. it gets easier, i promise. and guys usually like spontaneous statements :] keep that in mind haha. hope i helped ! xxo good luck.

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I'm doing a project for college on romantic relationships and their characteristics. As part of it, I'd like to ask the following question: Do you and your significent other have a song? If so, what is it and why is it important to you both?

Thank you so much, this will be really helpful.

Well, my ex boyfriend and I had the song,
Red hot chili peppers: I could die for you.
It was both of our favorite band, and I kept telling him how much i love that song, and he said it was liek us, because it just was. [the lyrics and all] and we made it our song. He learned how to play it on his guitar and played it for me when I was at his house. it was cute :]
hope i helped. xxo :]

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I love my teacher and dont tell me i dont because i know better. You can feel love when you are as young as i am. I am 16 and he is 25. Everything i will ever need is him. He is single still living at home, but i dont care. My friend says she sees the way we look at each other and said that she can tell that we just click. She said we both get a little sparkle in our eye. I can honestly say what i feel, is real. It might not be full blown out love, but i am definitely bordering that. My friend wrote him a note and said "i know someone that likes you do you know who they are" and she says he looked at me, but i didnt want her to tell him and it make everything akward like. So she made me promise i will tell him on monday... I want to tell him though i dont want anyone else too, but im not so sure i should do it right now at this moment. she said i have more of a chance than what i think, which makes me wonder. I dont know what to do...

If you really think you might, sometime in the nesar future, love this man, than I'm not going to tell you to not follow your heart. But I just want to warn you that you would be doing smething illegal if you and your teacher confessed to eachother that you like one another and become and "item" secret or not. I mean, you could jeapordize his job if someone found out that you told your teacher you like him and if he says something back, then he could get fired. You can tell him now, but if you do, you have to keep it very VERY quiet. However, if you wait until the school year is over, and then tell him, it'll take some of the stress and pressure off of the situation. And if you're not sure you should say anything to him right now, don't. It might be awkward if you tell him how you feel, because he might let you down, and if you get caught with him, saying that ... it probably won't be good. If I were you, I would wait a bit. I know you like him, but you have to think of the consequences and what could happen. are you willing to wreck your reputation and his if it comes down to that? But on the other hand, it could all work out in your favor. I'm sure your friend means well, but if shes MAKING you promise you'll do it, and you're uncertain, then she shouldn't be pressuring you like that. This isn't her dilemma, yuh know? But I can tell you aren't completly comfrotable with telling him right now, so wait until you are SURE that you are ready t share this information about how you feel wih your teacher. but 16 and 25 is a huge age difference, I know of another situation like this but the girl waited until she was out of school, and i college to get with her teacher. Just keep that in mind and as a possibility. But do what your heart tells you.
Hope i helped ! xxo :]

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All I would like to know is, what is your opinion on finding love online? It could be an actual dating site or just random falling in love, didnt see it coming. Do you believe it can be true love if you have never even met or talked to the person besides online? Or do you think that there is no possible way?

One more question...
Do you believe you can fall in love at any age?

Thanks!!

I don't think you can fall in love with a person you meet online because, in my opinion, you need to be with the person face to face to get to really know them, and fall in love. I believe in love at frst sight, but not love at first internet "site" yuh know? But there could be a way, although I am not a true believer.
I think you can fall in love anywhere from your early teen years until you die. I don't think you can fall in love at every age because when you are young, like ages 12 and under, people don't take love THAT seriously or they don't know what it means to be in love.
However, these are just my opinions. hope i helped ! xxo :]

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So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We're both completely serious about our relationship, and we don't plan on breaking up any time soon. But the problem starts at this: He's on the basketball team. Innocent enough, right? Wrong.
The coach works them through the mill every day, and I never get a chance to see him outside of school. Before he joined basketball, he was really a good person to be around, plus he was in the same theater troupe as me. But now, he is always stressed and doesn't want to talk to me as much anymore. And he's probably going to get kicked out of the troupe because he misses so many practices due to basketball.
The thing is, he keeps on saying he wants to quit, but his parents refuse to let him. They are convinced that he should just suck it up and do what he's told. This emotional rift between my boyfriend and his parents is already ruining our relationship, because no matter what, they refuse to let him quit even if he begs.
This whole ordeal is totally screwing with my head. We both got called to the principal's office today because we blew up at each other in the hallway; him saying that his parents refuse to let him quit and asking what it is I wanted from him, me saying that he made a commitment to the troupe way before he joined basketball and that he had to keep that commitment until the end. All of my previous emotional depression is storming right back in, and I can't go a whole day without crying because he's never there for me.
I don't want to break up. That's 100% certain. I definetly love him, and if we do end up splitting because of this, I'll never forgive my self. So please, send me your advice!

It seems like you and your boyfriend are going through a "rough patch" and sports can cause problems in relationships, so i see where you're coming from [my ex. was a lacrosse and basketball freak haha] and it totally sucks that his parents won't let him quit, but you have to support him because you know how he feels about the situation. and it shows that he cares about what you think because he legit begs his parents to let him quit, which he is doing for himself and YOU. But truthfully, the problems with his parents are his problems, and even though you care, if you interfere, you're asking for trouble. yuh know? And I understand why you don't want to end it, because you are in love with him and he makes you happy. if you can't see eachother then e-mail eachother, call one another, try to see eachother in school and if a basketball practice or game is canceled, make sure you two spend that break together. just think, basketball season won't last forever, so if you can just bear through it for a little while, then you'll be good to go and he can spend more time in the troupe. He clearly knows that his involvment in the troupe is important to you, and you have to give him credit for trying his best to squeeze it in for YOU. have you noticed that he is fighting with his parents, trying to mkae you happy, trying to go to the troupe as much as possible, trying to quit basketball, all for YOU. because he loves you too. Don't forget that part. In my opinion, it's not the end of the world and you guys can get through it. Just talk calmly about these issues with eachother and make the best of a crummy situation :] hope i helped and good luck! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me xxo :]

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What are some songs about like messin around with someone that has another boyfriend/girlfriend. & you like eachotherr but they wont leave their other boyfriend/girlfriend.
haha, kinda like the sogn "cant let you go" by fabolous and lil mo


thanksssssssssss

Atlantic Starr: secret lovers
Earl Thomas Conlee: Holding Her and Loving You
Sugarland: Stay
hinder: lips of an angel
usher: you make me wanna
Taylor Swift: teardrops on my guitar

hope i helped !! xxo

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okay. well every qirl has her 'insecurities.'
butt mine makes me SOOOO self concious. [sp?]
butt my boobs are completly different sizes.
my right one like a full B.
&&my left on is like a full A or a small B.
1; will it eventually even out? or will it always be like that?
2; how noticacle is it to others?
3; are there any ways to make me stop carinq SOMUCH?

please&&thankyou.

This happened to my friend, and she's 16/f. it's not noitceable at all. like, we were in the gym locker room and she was complaining about it, and nobody even like ... noticed. same exact problem as you have. she went to her doctor and asked about it, and her doctor told her that she was still growing, and the smaller one would eventually even out and catch up to the size of the bigger one. trust me though, no one notices, you're just self concious about it because you know your body and notice it the most. just remember that it's not noticeable to others, and you could wear layers or a push up bra to even it out, or use a padded bra and take the padding out of the bigger one. [what my friend did] but other than that, you're doin finee haha. good luckk. hope i helped. xxo :]

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i dated a guy for 2 years. i was in love with him. he slowly changed a lot into his his best friend (a heartless player) and he broke up with me but would still talk to me and tell me he love me and then he would say he didnt and then he would say he did ect. he basiclaly fucked with my head lot. its been 7 months and i havent talked to him in 2 weeks and im starting to realize that hes a terrible guy now. hes completely changed.. and i dont know why i continue trying to be with him? i guess whenver he talks to me i think its because he misses me and wants to make things work again, but i realize that hes just different and doesnt really give a shit. hes fucking heartless. im starting to actually be over it and ive finally realized what a terrible guy he is after all hes done (theres so much more) but for some reason its lyk, i get that hes a bad guy, but hes all i think about? i understand hes not the one for me, why cant i get over this?! i dont want to be with him anymore so why can i not get over it?!! ughhhhhh!!!!!!!!

you never forget the people you were in love with. that pretty much explains it all. over time, they pop into your head less and less, it's not that you are still hung up on him, it's just that he changed from the person you once loved, and you're thinking about the person he was not the person he is or became. this will fade over time and eventually he won't be in your head anymore. but you'll never forget him, if you loved him. I can't stress that fact enough. you are probably also still hurt over this and his change, feelings like that don't go away that quickly, so the lingering feelings are probably still raw and in your mind, but trust me, give it some time, it gets better :] talk to other guys and get your mind off him by particiating in different activities with your friends and such, trust me, i knoww haha :] good luck. xxo hope i helped.

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What are some artists that have a familiar sound to NeverShoutNever and A Backseat Goodbye?

sing it loud
a rocket to the moon
backseat goodbye
the afters
cartel
daphne loves derby
goodnight sunrise
hey monday
the hush sound
hit the lights
the maine
mercy mercedes
motion city soundtrack
the summer set

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i don't think i think like a normal teenager does, like i act like a normal one, but in my head i'm not really. like i worry about everything and i'm not carefree and i don't just care about having fun like a normal teenager. this seems like it wuoldn't be a bad thing, to have like a more mature mind, but i don't want to think like that. my sister is just a carefree teenager who all she cares about is having fun, smoking,drinking, partying,getting with guys,the way she looks, and her friends and family, but like she still gets good grades too. she never thinks of anything bad that could come in the future, except college, like she can't talk about death or getting attacked or what age she thinks she's gunna die, when she'll get married and if it'll work, etc. or she gets all worried. all she wants to talk/think about is like boys and everything that i listed above. i wish i could think like that, but instead i think of all of the bad thhings that have happened in the world, the future (like my adulthood), older times like the 60's 70's and 80's because i liked those times better, and fate, etc. it makes me kind of sad and worried/nervous all of the time, and i'm not carefree like other teenagers. i think the reason i am like this might be because most of my friends have depression or other types of problems, like cutting, etc. but we're all pretty normal. i ACT like a normal teenager, like drinking,partying,dancing,friends,but i don't worry about boys because i hate the way i look because i have braces and i'm very very inconfident and have never kissed a boy and none of my friends are even virgins. but i don't think like a normal one. when i party, i just think about all of the bad things instead of just having fun, like what if i pass out or throw up and my parents have to come pick me up, what if i get caught, what if i go upstairs into my friends room and a guy is up there and tries to attack me, what if this guy starts touching me without permission, what if someone thinks i'm a slut, etc, and some of you might say it's resp0onsible to always be cautious and sometimes its a good thing that i'm very cautious, but other times the thigns that i'm thinking are just ridiculous and unnecessary because no one is trying to do anything bad, everyones just trying to have fun. so please don't answer the question saying that im actually responsible because i go way over the top inside my head with the cautiousness. i so badly want to be a happygoluck teenager who lives to have fun but still does good in school, but is carefree about anything in life except have fun, besides the major things like taking care of myself, school, family, etc. i'm not saying like dumb ignorant and ditzy, i'm saying like i don't want to worry that much just live in the moment. because i can NEVER live in the moment, i'm always living in either the past or future. also, even though everyone does it in highschool, and i KNOW they do so please don't try to answer saying they don't, whenever i drink i feel guilty and like im' diong something wrong because my parents don't know,but seriously like do they really expect me and my friends not t drink when i KNOW that they did when they are my age? but like at parties after everyone gets drunk and some people start fighting or hooking up with random people or throwing up or peeing, i'm like, how is this even fun anymore? and i just feel bad, like omg what if my parents saw m e right now what would they think? and i hate it so much, like for once i want to actually have fun instead of worrying about if it's normal for everyone to be drinking so much. and like in my head i KNOW its normal, because like its highschool, so how can i stop worrying about what i'm doing and just enjoy the time i'm in? so my question is how can i become more like that and not think that everyone is out to get me and not worry so much about whats going to happen in life and just enjoy the time i'm at right now (highschool)?

I am 16/f, in highschool. and i refuse to drink, do drugs. and i do NOT want to have sex right now, not until I'm married ... and like, I know people pretend they're innocent and everything, but I'm being dead serious. So i know exactly how you feel about being "different" than everyone else and actually CARING. because it is good to care. and why make the same mistakes your parents or peers make/made? it's illegal what they are doing anyways, and your mind and heart is telling you its wrong so you feel guilty, thats why. and im not allowed to do any of that stuff either, its not how i was raised, and i also look at the people getting wasted and high and they do stupid things that they regret and will feel guilty about in the future, and WHY BE LIEK THEM when you can be you, and have your morals. they are all heading down the wrong path, and im not saying that they are bad people, they are just making bad choices. I know you don't feel normal, but you are, I'm not gonna say that highschoolers dont have sex, because lets face it, they DO, and its most likely with random guys when they are drunk or high or stupid because they are too young to know the diffference between love and usage. you have a good head on your shoulders, and you shouldnt criticize yourself for that, because that's GREAT, and ive gotta say, im glad you have the good sense to know that what they are doing isnt right or fun ... but if you want to be more carefree, its going to be very hard because you respect yourself and what others think of you, you dont want to end up having a bad reputation, but there are other ways you can be carefree other than drinking and doing drugs. you just haveta do things that make you feel comfortable, if it makes you feel uncomfortable or not safe, it probably isn't a very good idea. it's like, your natural intinct, some people obey it, some people don't. it just depends on how far you're willing to go, or how much youre willing to lose. you have alot of dignity, and these girls are probably NOT happy with their lives and feel that they have to do these things to be accepted, and being accepted = happiness. but thats WRONG. this is going to come back and bite them in the butt when they get older, and their mistakes might make them stronger, and it might be better to "learn from your mistakes" but there comes a point in time where mistakes just turn into failures and people getting WAY out of conrol, and rehab and such. and to be happy, and carefree, don't think about anybody else BUT YOURSELF. and what makes you happy and comfortable. like who CARES about what everyone else does, people will think much higher of you if you don't follow the crowd, and that should definetly make you more carefree. you can also go to parties and be sober, and not do anything, so you can be like ... the "designated driver" person. yuh know? the person everyone trusts. like, just be yourself. that's all you can do. don't try to do things that you dont like, its not worth it in the end. at all. trust me. and your parents are just looking out for you, because they probably would change some of the bad things they did in the past too. you live and you learn. i hope i helped, and dont let these girls get you down, its normal to have these insecurities, and you are perfectly normal. no lie. you are. trust me.
good luck xxo if you need anything else, just inbox me.

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Sorry i couldnt find a category.

From what i remember of the movie (which isnt much), is it's christmas time and these either animals (puppets) or like dolls come to life at night. They might have been presents under the tree? Or dolls or the kids pets. I really cant remember but thats honestly all i remember. I know it isnt much but its really bugging me.

I just know its christmas eve night and these puppets are running around the house when everyone goes to bed before santa comes. Any help would be nice haha

thanks

16/f

It could be ...
-the nutcracker and the mouse king
but I'm betting that it is ...
-The Christmas Toy
http://muppet.wikia.com/wiki/The_Christmas_Toy

hope I helped! good luck ! xxo

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I'm 16/f, in 11th grade.
He is 17/m and in 12th grade.

This guy and I had known each other since the end of my 9th grade. After like 6 months, we started going out (like mid-10th grade), and then I was having problems so we broke off for a few months. Then we got back together. He was my first actual bf that I cared about and kissed. Then I was having more problems both within myself and family and for reasons I don't wish to share, I had to cut him out of my life.

I really miss him and I feel like he's my "first love" (yeah, call it cliche teenage love if you want). I can't get him out of my head and I want to but at the same time I don't want to forget about him. And my friend pointed out that guys don't wait around for girls and that he's probably out chasing other girls. And I don't know what to think.

How do I get him out of my head?

So you want him out of your head because you don't want to think about him, but at the same time, you don't want to forget about him. I get what you're saying, and trust me, getting him out of your head and forgetting him are 2 totally different things. :] If you try to stop thinking about him, you won't forget him, you just won't picture him in your mind alot, yuh know? And it's going to take a little while to get him out of your head because he was in there for so long ... if that makes any sense, and certain things will remind you of him, like a song, or a lyric, or an image, or a movie ... etc. But you just have to keep yourself busy, for example: go out with your friends alot. you want to stay away from being cooped up inside your house for a while because being alone with your thoughts will immediatley go to him. dont get me wrong, you're going to need to think about him sometime, it helps you to get over it, and I know I must sound crazy right now, but that's how it goes. you have to get through the pain to know how to heal. And after a couple months you won't believe that he's coming up in your mind less and less. and then finally, you won't be thinking about him at all ... or just once in a while. but for a month or more, you should keep your distance from him, because re-occuring feelings might come out when you talk to him and you'll fall right back into the trap again and the progress that you WILL make will have gone down the toilet. yuh know? so you should write about it, get your feelings out, talk about it with the people you trust. and believe me, it works :] hope i helped ! good luck! xxo. :]] feel free to message me about how it goes :]]

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17/f
god i cant help but be depressed, its the holidays when you really start thinking about love, im not speaking romantically im speaking of in my family. you see i got kicked out of my house about 5 months ago for not having a full time job, im living with my grandma who is not speaking with my parents its been hard but ive been getting through it, i have a strong head on my shoulders. now it almost christmas and i havent spoken with my parents or seen my little brother who is five in that long, i can see people look at me and as they talk to me i know what they are thinking, but i dont want their pity. i wish i could just focus on the true meaning of christmas but its just hard when everything you are use to suddenly isnt there anymore, let alone not caring about you. dont get me wrong i am eternally thankful for what i do have and what god has given me as of now. as im writing this i cant help but cry, i've never cared about the gifts, it was the love of family, i wish i could forget its christmas but i realize thats unrealistic. i guess i just wanted to talk about it thats all, possibly even hear your view on this or whats going on in your family during this time of the year.


thank you for reading this.

It's normal to feel this way, especially during the holidays because you're in a touch situation, and those things are hard to deal with. It must be hard not seeing your parents or your brother, and you should cry, don't bottle anything up inside. You should also talk to someone about this, like your grandma or someone you trust dearly. If you want, you can inbox me and talk about it more thoroughly, I don't mind listening at all, as long as it will help you. you sound lieka great person, and never forget that. It will get better in the future, no matter how much you probably don't feel like it will now. write about it, talk about it, cry about it, scream about it, you deserve to be happy, and the only way to get there is to leave the past in the past and move onto the future.
happy holidays :] and i mean that. good luck! hope i helped. xxo.

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I'm a senior (male) in high school, and my friend (female) is a sophomore. We met about 2 or 3 months ago, and we've gotten fairly close. Anyway, a short time ago I learned that she had feelings for me (I'm like 98 percent sure of this).


I don't feel the same way about her. I mean, I wish I did; she's cute, funny, smart, blah blah blah. I just don't, and I've tried. Anyway, if she were to tell me her feelings, what do you think I should respond with? She already knows that I'm not into anyone, but there's the chance she doesn't believe me because no one does, for whatever reason. This would probably be over AIM. I want to remain her friend without awkwardness and such, because I do really like her.

Any help would be verrryyyyyy appreciated.

aw man :[ that suckss. But you have to break it to her gently, if she doesn't believe you that you're not into anyone and she tells you how she feels, then she can't blame you for anything, because you did WARN her. yuh know? Now, I'm a 16/f, and if I told a guy I liked them and they were to tell me they didn't feel the same way, I would want them to say something along the lines of, "Courtney, you know we are really close, and I like you, but just as a friend, I'm sorry if it came off another way, but I don't want this to ruin our friendship or anything to become awkward because I'd miss having you as my friend too much." something to make her feel like she's important, but in a different way, you know? and she will probably be upset for a couple days, but you just need to let her know that you care about her and that you're sorry. and you'll prbably have to be the one to avoid the awkwardness by still talking to her and stuff, because she probably won't for a little.
good luck! hope I helped. and if you have any other questions or anything, inbox me. tell me how it goess :] xxo.

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