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(Rating: 5) THANK YOU! i don't want him to get in trouble! to be honest it is me who keeps bringing up sex cause i think he wants it but he has never pushed me for sex so dont think bad of him please.(Rating: 5) Thanks. This was very helpful. Any advice you need just ask me okay. Thanks again!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! I finally got out of the relationship and im alot happier now :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot!This is what I was longing to read.Thankssss!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks for answering :) you have, made me relise a few things, I just need to let go I guess :) its just soooo hard tho
(Rating: 5) Thanks you so much you did help
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(Rating: 5) Perfect thank you :)
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(Rating: 5) thank you! i had no idea!
(Rating: 5) TY
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(Rating: 5) thank you so much!!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!! A lot of girls tell different things, but they've never really told me to be myself. You're the best!
(Rating: 5) Thanks alot! Your really nice and you made me feel alot better about everything. And it does suck but your right I still have an awesome dad, my bro and sis are okay and I have great friends and thats all that matters. And Im not too sure about the therapist thing, Im not sure how to get one. I knida dont want my freinds to know I see a therapist, Im not crazy or anything. Besides, Im not good with talking to people about personal stuff in person, you know? Im not shy but I guess its just hard for me to talk to people about it. But anyway Thanks again, you really helped me feel better about everything. Your awesome. :) ~Gracie~
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your feedback! Some points I agree and some I disagree. She has done a lot for me actually, even with how she is now, she's still there for me. I do want her in my life even as a friend but for now I'll just go with the flow
(Rating: 5) Wow, you're right, girls do overthinkthings, we really do! I know it was such a stupid question to ask and i'm probably gunna delete it haha, it's just that i'm a bit insecure atm, and i really need him in my life...but thanks for your advice :) xxx
(Rating: 5) Thank Yu!
(Rating: 5) HA! Thanks
(Rating: 5) Thank you! :)
(Rating: 5) Wow I'd ask you if I could marry you, but that PROBABLY wouldn't be a good idea haha. You're awesome, and you give the best advice on here!! :)
(Rating: 4) the raoe was a joke we do that alot so thats not the weird part..just the watchin me part but im not real weirded oput by it i just wanted to no if it lead to some psycho behavior or something
(Rating: 5) Thank you(: , and actualy I did that and his friend says sorry he just really likes you! its so sick:( not to be mean but yeah:) Thank you for the help!
(Rating: 5) well i forgot to mention that i do like this one this one girl im starting to like but everybody would make fun of me for it and i no this cuz my friend who goes out with my ex did but we were joking with each other bout it but he still thinks it weird and i hate that i like her cuz shes not like so real pretty girl but i dont care but it will be social suicide to ask her out just i dont know wat to do
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I forgave him and he got someone else pregnant. Just came back to the site to ask another question and saw that I hadn't told you thanks yet!
(Rating: 5) wow, I have never even heard of salad pizza before! I might have to try that sometime thank you for your suggestion :-)
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much (:
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(Rating: 5) thanks so much! you are a great help!
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much (:
(Rating: 5) THANKS sooo much! this really helped. :) and today i got some spotting so...? haha i dont really want to start but if i do i will accept it. (: but thanks again it helped alot! and also...i have another question for you. is it weird to be wondering about these kinds of things? i feel like i am the only one who does...
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! amazing advice =]
(Rating: 5) Thanks Sooo Much :]
(Rating: 5) Good! Because I like him too! thanks!
(Rating: 5) THANKS :D
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(Rating: 5) you helped so much.... I may tell you how it goes!! lol
(Rating: 5) YOUR AWESOMEEE !! but then thursday he hit me up & hes like "look i love u but ur just too young for me" im 14 nd hes 16 -__--; & then he has diffrent girls on his away saying he loves them.. so w.e im done with him for sure!
(Rating: 5) I didn't even think about him being afraid of the distance. He recently lost his dad to a heart attack and he's been having a really hard time. Maybe that has something to do with it. I feel way better. Thanks!!! :)
(Rating: 5) thank you!!
(Rating: 5) Ha thanks for all the help!
(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much. this is exactly what i feel like. your the best, really. and ever since he's been with her, he's been reaaaallly depressed because she abuses him ad flirts with his best guy friends and i see her talk to his best guy friend more than him... did you ever hear the song you belong with me? thats exactttly how i feel. i just wanna go up to him and be like "what are you doing with a girl like that?" me and his girlfriend used to be GOOD friends and a month after me and my bf (now my ex) broke up he asked her out and she didn even ask if it was ok and she rubs it in my face alot.... he is amazinggg....
(Rating: 5) thank you really good advice :)
(Rating: 5) thank you for takeing the time to write all this.I really apericiate it. :)
(Rating: 5) thanks :) I sent it! I'll let you know how it goes!
(Rating: 5) thanks that was really helpful
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(Rating: 5) If you dont mind i will message you and tell you what my sister chooses in the End. Thanks again!
(Rating: 5) Thank you! This is the best advice on here! Thanks again!
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! this has really been on my mind a lot and your advice really helped me think clearer, I will definetly send you an inbox if I'm in need of any help thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thanks so much:)
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 5) thanks loads :) i added my.... very ambitious list haha
(Rating: 5) this made me feel better
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much (:
(Rating: 5) hey thnx ima try to fix it but tht was funny cuz i called him a a-hole a few days ago and he heard me! so i was like u can make fun of me so i can call u a few names then he rolled his eyes and walked away it was funny. me and my friend started crackin' up! thnx though i will tell u how it goes
(Rating: 5) thanks that was helpful
(Rating: 5) I think this compliments the first answer beautifully! Your answer really demonstrates how communication is integral but not alone in being important to a successful relationship. But to add understanding to communication it really increases the flow of expression between two couples.....Awesome answer!
(Rating: 5) this really helped Thank you so much ur awsome:)
(Rating: 5) thanks! since i'll be able to try lots of colors, im glad that i know what to stay away from! ~Katleeo <3
(Rating: 5) thanks a bunchh :) i saved the quotes. but its extra hard for me because im just getting out of trauma
(Rating: 5) COOL Thank you:)
(Rating: 5) Thank you! Because acts of randomness are amazing!! Lol Hope your year is full of awesomenessnessnessness :D
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much for your perspective, it helps to get that from someone because this completely blindsided me. In a matter of 2 weeks she went from seemingly happy about our relationship and the future to it being over. I'm just trying to understand because she has made no attempt to contact me. Thanks again
(Rating: 5) thanks so much! And thanks to your boyfriend and friends as well!
(Rating: 5) extremely good advice... it gave me the goosebumps.... i actually got to go to his parents house and meet them the other day..
(Rating: 5) Those are like the greatest ideas I've heard lol seriously. I think I'm going to use ALL of them. I wish I did have the money to buy him another G-Shock watch but sadly I don't ((also lacking in the cash department)). So I'll definitely draw him one lol. Thanks you've helped alot as always!!
(Rating: 5) lol thanks
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(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) yeah, i just found out its 3 yaers she's gone for. oh god i love her so much its actually depressing me :< thanks for all your help, im still very fuzzed out at the moment, in a way i hope it passes soon but i also dont want it to go. god this is hard... thanks so much again
(Rating: 5) A for effort, thank you :)
(Rating: 5) haha well thank you :] jw are u bisexual or anything like that. you dont have to tell me if u dont want to
(Rating: 5) Thanks, that sorta helped but I've been telling her stuff like that since we started dating, the truth is I could have pretty much any other girl I want but I love her more than anything and thats what matters, she knows how I feel about that... Ahh shes so confusing
(Rating: 5) thanks (:
(Rating: 5) You make so much sense and you always give me a lot to think about lol. Thanks.
(Rating: 5) You made me feel better a bit better about my situation, I think I will talk to him about it. Thank you so much.
(Rating: 5) finally, i found someone whom i can really relate to... can i be ur friend here? i'm 18 F from the Philippines. :)
(Rating: 5) heh ^_^ thanks again, im really goin to make this work i hope it all goes well. thanks so much for your help i really really appreciate it
(Rating: 4) Thanks I will tell ya who i End up picking thanks again
(Rating: 5) Excellent answer :D i am going to be reffering to this alot i think. as for "or liek you have somewhere better to be." she is were i want to be, shame work stands in the way a little :P and smiling is no problem im smiling right now just writing this thinking about her. AAaahg! im so damn smitten xD thanks alot for your help i really appreciate it, but im still hanging back a little to find out through conversation if she has a boyfriend or not :s at the moment i think she does but i could over hear what she said too well >_> thanks again :P
(Rating: 5) Thanksss(:
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(Rating: 5) best advice ever given to me, thanks so much.
(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch! this was so helpful <3 i hope it gets better soon
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!! <3
(Rating: 4) Haha thanks. xD
(Rating: 5) Thanks~! You're so awesome. I feel like I have a big sister! LOL
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much :) that really helped its nice to have someone to relate to about it! thanks for taking the time to read and put effort into such a good reply I know it was long! I definately wont hesitate to ask if ive any more questions thanks a mill again x
(Rating: 5) Wow, thanks for all the detail! You helped alot ^_^ He's asked for my number and flirted a bit and stuff,s o things are looking up a bit. We can only hope for the best!
(Rating: 5) Thank you ! =]
(Rating: 5) haha thanks.=]
(Rating: 5) If I could rate you a 100 I so would lol. You have been so helpful!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot...
(Rating: 5) Thanks! That's so sweet of you :D
(Rating: 5) This is so close to perfect advice... But as I said, I'm different. Ever since 9/11 and when the war started I haven't been able to express my emotions. I can express who I am but not how I'm feeling. This is great advice, and it's about all I can do so I'll try. And I've tried talking to her online to get closure but the one time she responded she said she didn't want to talk because it reminded her of home. Thanks.
(Rating: 5) Hey thank you this really helped! I took your advice and we are gonna hang out this week. So thank you so much! =)
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much!!