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I am about to go into high school and for the past few years, I have almost always liked a guy. I have had a couple boyfriends, but I ended up breaking up with them (most of the time because I thought I liked someone else). I am always scared to tell my friends when I like a new guy because I'm afraid that i'll seem slutty (they don't usually have many crushes). I don't dress slutty or anything, but would other people think of me as a slut because they always hear about who I like (my friends have really big mouths)? I can't help liking them, and most of the time, I think it was just minor lust, nothing big. If i do seem slutty, what should I do??? (link)
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having a few crushes doesn't make you slutty.
having sex with one guy then switching ti the next one, kinda does. but by the looks of it, you aren't doing that.
so nooooo you don't seem slutty, its ok to like different boys :)
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I'm shaky and feeling sick. I've been a little perv and I watched porn. A year ago I used to watch a lot of it. I went on a site and had cyber sex a few times.
I feel like a worthless skank and I take back everything I did.
What I did was ridiculously wrong. I'm 14!!
The question is, are my parents going to find out about my mistakes? I erased the history on everything I've ever done on the computer, but is that enough? What else can I do to erase it? I want these awful teenage mistakes behind me so I can move on and never do anything like this again.
Please be honest, but don't be too harsh. I'm already being terribly hard on myself for getting into porn. I'm not a bad person, I'm just being a curious teenager. But I think I got too curious, and I watched a lot.
Trust me, I won't be doing anything like this ever again. I can see how wrong and gross it is.
I'm making myself sick. Please help settle my nerves so I can move on from my terrible mistake!!!!!!!!! I beg you!!!!! (link)
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calm down :D, when I was 16 I did the same thing (minus the cyber sex) but yeah, I was always so scared my parents would find out and call me a perv :( I made to sure to always delete the history and cookies. Im 19 now and I never got caught :))) hahaha but I think its normal for kids to look at porn in moderation. It helps them figure out their sexuality and stuff! Well, ok :) byee!
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14f I was going out with this boy for about 2 and a half months and our relationship was..rough.After the first week were dating he pretty much asked me if he could cheat on me.He didn't cheat on me and I forgave him.Then he broke up with me for a stupid reason because it was a misunderstanding on what I said and how he took it.He thought I meant it sarcastically, but I didn't.We got back together later that day.Last week he broke up with me again and then said it was a mistake and he need time to think.He seemed to change his mind daily, but he finally said we should be friends.Then he changed his mind and said he liked me again and was gonna ask me out.He didn't ask me out and then he said he needed more time to think about us.The next day he said he wanted to be friends.Then he told his friend he didn't like me, but he told me what if i might wanna go out with you again then he said ya its definitely a possibility that we could date again.Whenever I try to ask him about it he changes the topic.I miss him so much and when I think about it I miss him more, but at the same time he broke my heart.He told me he "wanted to be with me forever."Should I move on?Should I keep waiting for him?I don't know how to move on from this, because he said he wanted to be with me forever and now he doesn't even wanna be with me for now.please help sorry this is long. (link)
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Please don't get back with this jerk. You're too young for this unnecessary drama. He constantly changes his mind and expects you to be there all the time. He's playing with your emotions and you haven't noticed. If you stay with him this all could escalate to abuse. Please find a better guy for yourself. Good luck!
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so me and this guy started hanging out towards the end of summer. we hung out twice and hooked up twice. both times he initiated it. (he made the first move), he called me beautiful and texted me basically everyday. now he won't even talk to me. he'll say hi in person but he won't ever text me anymore or anything. one of his good friends said that he just doesnt want things getting too serious cause his ex was crazy but i honestly just want to hook up with him haha. what should i do? how should i handle this? should i just pretend to be uninterested and see if he comes back? i don't want to seem desperate but i want him soo bad haha. i'm not good at these stupid games someone helpp. thanks. (link)
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Some guys don't think girls "just wanna hook up" nowadays. So, since that's all you want it shouldn't be too hard to get. I mean, which guy doesn't want to have sex with no strings attached?? Just ask him to the movies or something, then afterwards when you get in his car... DO IT! Orrrr you can talk to him about being friends with benefits. This conversation may be awkward at first but he'll agree! Good luck!
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sooo i'm 18 and i've been with my boyfriend for two months now and we reallyyyy like each other, found out today he is moving to alaska for college which is farrr far away. I feel like he hasn't really talked to me about it or thought about what's going to happen to us, I don't want to bring it up I want him to. Any advice? :/ (link)
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Although you guys really like each other, college is a new and cool experience. He will meet new people and get into new things. Ya'll's relationship CAN continue to grow, it may just be a little difficult because of the distance. But nowadays we gave facebook, skype, phones, texts, chat, snail mail. So your relationship does have a shot. Here's the thing. You need to talk to him. It's odd that you guys haven't been talking about this Alaskan school. Maybe he dreads leaving you so he speaks about it as little as possible OR maybe he doesn't wanna talk about it to distance himself from you because as I said, he will meet new people. Nonetheless, talking to him is your best bet. Hope it works out!
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What is Tazmanian Devils girlfriends name? I know its like Marcia or Matilda or something like that?? (link)
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i'm pretty sure her name is marcia :]
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how can i turn on a guy discreetly without being slutty or nonchalant? Like ways i can do it while still staying a few feet away and without talking to them? (link)
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Well this can be tricky, but do the simple thing. Glance at him. If ya'll make eye contact that's a good sign. Try and hold the eye contact for three seconds. then break the eye contact. He'll be curious about you. And eventually, he'll go over to you.
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15 year old female . & i want to be in charge of the relationship . my boyfriend lately has beeen in the i dont give a crap mood and he talks to girls and he gets mad about everything, also he loses patience with me alot, and he says that im annoying . he is always making fun of me and stuff in front of his friends and he always treats me bad and makes me feeel like if i was his dog or something. is there any way that i can stay with him , but make me be in charge ? and stop him from treating me this way ? (link)
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So i know exactly what you're going through since i went throught that at the age of 15 too. I dated this guy for almost 2 years and at first everything was peachy, but then it got ugly. He was always flirting with girls but then he would totally flip if he saw me talking to a guy, even though my best friend was a guy!! anyways, i thought i loved him so i kept putting up with all his crap. Eventually i just couldn't take it anymore. i was always crying and depressed. It hurt but i dumped him. He kept trying to talk to me and i realized that i needed to distance myself from him. I deserved much better. Just like you do! So get rid of him. There are better guys out there.
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How do u put a picture in a question on here? (link)
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you cant put a picture on here.. just put the exaqct website to the picture :]
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what do nudists do when they get their period? (link)
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they wear a tampon n conceal the string inside their body.
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How do I get rid of a couple problem zits overnight?!? Help!! (link)
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well it depends on how crucial your zits are... if its an over the top breakout you wont be able to get rid of them over night.. just take care of your skin and clean it with proper products. i hear proactive works [but i wouldn't reccommend it since i had an allergic reaction to it] but yeah..your skin should clear up f you follow the directions on the product
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Hey everyone,
So I'm writing a paper on suicide and depression and I just am curious and want opinions to this question: "Would you kill a loved one if they asked you to?" Put yourself in a situation where someone you really love like your boyfriend/girlfriend, mom/dad, brother/sister etc. was so depressed and they werent getting better and they wanted to die and they came to you and asked you to pull the trigger or kill them. think of it as there is no way they will get better because nothing has helped and if you say no they will still go through with the suicide. if they seriously ask you to pull the trigger for them would you do it for your loved one because they are in more pain now then they would be after?
hope that makes sense! thanks to anyone who helps me out with this :) (link)
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nooo... i wouldnt kill them... if they're so desperate to die they can kill themselves!! ounds harsh and selfish but i couldn't hurt a living human being..
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okay this is the continuation to my previous question basically i have this guy friend who i knew since last semester and we have 2 classes together this semester so we've gotten pretty close. I was convinced that he likes me because he's always staring at me, touching me(arm, thigh), complimented me on my clothes, teases me all the time,(he said he likes teasing me) he's always making me laugh..whenever i'm sad, he asks me what's wrong, whenever i'm talking to someone, he's always butting into the convo, i'm walking pass him with my friends, i look back and i see him looking at me, etc. But there's this other girl who he talks to, they talk a lot but he doesn't flirt with her. me and him have a different relationship..he actually opened up to me about him not being close with his dad..but today i saw him hanging out with her and her boyfriend and some other people and i was jealous...i don't know if he likes me... (link)
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yeah.. by the looks of it this guy like you.. that other girl is probably just a friend.. but if its trippin you out then just ask him to hang out as in a date..
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I just found out that my exboyfriend that I just broke up with becouse he wanted to have sex with me when we have only been going out a week and now i have found out that he's cheated on me with at least 2 girls and he's got one of them pregnant iam so mad what should i do how do I get over it? (link)
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omfg what a sicko...
but you and him already broke up so just move on.., he now will have serious problems at home, with the baby mama, etc. Just hang out with new guys and realize that people that dont make it into your future dont make it for a reason..
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I'm really sorry about the length, but I'm very detailed and it's hard for me not to be but I need help!
A bit over 3 weeks ago (and about a week before spring break) I admitted to my guy friend from school (we'll call him Nathan) that I liked him in sortof an unorthodox way (it was through text during chem class while he was sitting behind me, it was stupid but we;ve gotten past that). Nathan didn't respond and we didn't talk for a couple days but we started talking 2 or three days before break and the only thing i found out what that I pretty much scared the shit out of him, but that was the last time we spoke about it. A week ago we got back from break. The awkwardness is still sortof there but most of it has dissolved. Nathan's still nice to me and we've been joking around and being good friends more and more like we used to. But I was still upset that I never got a direct answer, and I wasn't happy with the idea of it never being brought up again. So I asked my friend (we'll call her Randi), who's also in our chem class and also his friend (they hang out a lot and stuff, he has several friends who are girls) to sortof bring up that she knew about what I did (because he didn't tell anyone, don't ask how i know i just do) and try to get his reaction about it and put the idea in his head. I told her not to tell him i asked, and he's pretty oblivious so he never would've figured it out on his own haha. So today Randi told me that she tried to make a conversation of it, but she really couldn’t because he’s not the type to talk about how he feels and what he’s thinking, and he’s not really easy to read either. (This is most likely why he didn’t respond when I told him)
Randi: So I know about how Mel (me) told you about how she likes you
Nathan: Yeah... she texted me about it that day
Randi: So did you text her back... (she knew the story, but he didn't know that she knew, that was the plan)
Nathan: No..
Randi: Well are you ever gonna say something/answer her? (I forgot which she said)
Nathan: ...I don't know
Randi: Well can you give me something and work with me here?
Nathan: ....I don't know
And as far as I know that's where the convo stopped. We were planning for her to say something like "I think you two would look good together", but obviously she couldn't get the convo to continue like we had planned. Anyway after she told me I was like "I don’t know what I wanna do now I mean i don't wanna be pushy you know?". And she was like "we should definitely wait a couple days." and i was like "yeah i want to do this in small doses". And i really do, I don't want to be pushy with him at all. So on my own I was thinking that on Friday i'm gonna have gym alone with Nathan since our other friend (we'll call her Tara) won't be there that day, so we'll sortof see what happens in a situation where were alone, which we haven't really had since i told him. And even though me and Nathan still have talked a lot i feel a bit disincluded from conversations recently when him and Tara talk. Another thing I kindof found interesting was that today he put So my two questions are: 1. I'm glad that he pretty much “I don’t know'ed” the situation instead of just saying that he doesn't feel the same way. I feel like that could mean something, what should I think of their conversation? Do i possibly have a chance? This never happens to me so i don't know this stuff very well. 2. What should my next step be? I definitely don't want to be too pushy, and I definitely want to do this in small doses. Like should I get her to get him to invite me somewhere when they hang out? (he has a car and knows where I live what we havent hung out yet, we're good friends but not as close as I wish we were aha) or should I get her to sortof bring it up again over the weekend or next week? I'm not quite sure I'm ready to talk to him about it myself but any suggestions would be good on what to do next.
*Please don't say things like "you shouldn't have told him you liked him so forwardly" or "give him time, he's probably just taken off guard. I already know these things, and that's not what I want to know.
Also another thing I kindof found interesting was in chem today (he sits behind me) he put his leg on this metal bar on the side of my chair, and it comes pretty close to me when he does that. This is the first time he's done this since I told him. Before I told him, he did this pretty much everyday, and I know he stopped because things were awkward. But doesn't it seem a little convenient that he started doing this the day after randi brought me up with him? I don’t know but anyway please help with my two questions! Once again I apologize for the length!
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as much as you like him i really doubt he likes you "like that"
he stated you kinda scared him by telling him the first time.. that should've been a little red flag that he was only into being friends... umm i know what its like because ive been through it so the best advice i can give is for you to just be friends and move on.. clearly he wasn't man enough to respond to you the first time so dont waste your time...
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