Question Posted Monday September 13 2010, 11:31 pm
14f I was going out with this boy for about 2 and a half months and our relationship was..rough.After the first week were dating he pretty much asked me if he could cheat on me.He didn't cheat on me and I forgave him.Then he broke up with me for a stupid reason because it was a misunderstanding on what I said and how he took it.He thought I meant it sarcastically, but I didn't.We got back together later that day.Last week he broke up with me again and then said it was a mistake and he need time to think.He seemed to change his mind daily, but he finally said we should be friends.Then he changed his mind and said he liked me again and was gonna ask me out.He didn't ask me out and then he said he needed more time to think about us.The next day he said he wanted to be friends.Then he told his friend he didn't like me, but he told me what if i might wanna go out with you again then he said ya its definitely a possibility that we could date again.Whenever I try to ask him about it he changes the topic.I miss him so much and when I think about it I miss him more, but at the same time he broke my heart.He told me he "wanted to be with me forever."Should I move on?Should I keep waiting for him?I don't know how to move on from this, because he said he wanted to be with me forever and now he doesn't even wanna be with me for now.please help sorry this is long.
karen_advice answered Tuesday September 14 2010, 10:38 am: Hi hun,
my honest opinion is not to get back with him, a guy that keeps on changing his mind, breaking up making up.... isn't worth it you deserve better i think you should move on and i know its hard the reason your missing him is because you were a good girlfriend and you really commit, with your situation i think friends may not work but you can try if not don't think about him and try to occupy your mind with other things good luck [ karen_advice's advice column | Ask karen_advice A Question ]
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