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So, I might be overreacting about this, but I guess im just a little nervous, tell me what you guys think.
So, me and this boy are together, basically dating, just not official yet. But anyways, theres a peprally at my school at the end of October and the football players give their jerseys to girls who ask for them to wear them that day. And you have to ask early so your guaranteed one. So, I asked my boy, and he said yes, but my really good friend WAS dating (they broke up today) his really good friend and she was going to ask him too because her boyfriend doesnt play football, when she knows me and him are together. I don't think he would give his jersey to her, when I already asked him. He's a really sweet guy and my friends always tell me that, so it wouldnt be like him to do that. I look over to his locker today, which is right across the hall from mine, and she was at his locker, and then a period later he was at hers. I dont know whats going on, and I am just nervous something is going to happen now that my really good friend isnt dating his bestfriend. She claims their 'bestfriends' but Im not sure if I believe that. Any advice you guys have? What should I do, and should I trust her/him? And am i overreacting? Thanks Everyone (link)
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hi hun,
i think you wanted a guys opinion but i just wanted to tell you hun that to me it doesn't seem like anything is going on and maybe you are overreacting slightly trust me it seems like they are just friends good luck
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I have a friend who is a girl and shes 17. She was dating a guy that is 30. He has tatoos all over his body; he was in the pen for 10 years, and he does cocaine, and sells drugs. They were together for a year on 9/1, but they broke up last friday because he got mad at her for not takin him to west nashville to pick up some drugs, (he was already messed up on coke) and he started yelling at her, telling her he was done with her skanky ass, and hes got plenty more dimes than just her, and she was a bitch, and started callin her dead mom a bitch too. So she said some mean things while she was crying. She took him to his moms house to drop him off, and he was acting like he wass going to hit her, and he kept threating her to take him up the street, so he could get a ride to west nashville. She didn't want to do it, so he spit in her face! Litterally, a loogie in her face! I got pissed off, and I tried biting my tongue, but when he did that, I couldnt take it anymore.
Anyways. They are supposively still broken up, but I feel as if shes lying to me. What can I do, to make her realize she doesn't need a piece of trash like him? She's young and truely beautiful, and I dont understand what I can do to knock some since into her. Please help me, before she ruins her life, even more than she has.
*P.s whenever she asks me for advice, or tells me something about him, I'll tell her the truth, and than she makes up excuses.
For example: Her: "Kaci, nick gets mad at me when I dont want to have sex with him."
Me:"Well stephanie, than maybe that shows you right there what he really wants from you? I dont think you should be with a guy who gets mad over that"
Her: "No kaci, he doesnt get mad when i wont have sex with him, he just thanks i aint attracted to him like that"
Seee? Thats what Im talking about. Please help me. (link)
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hi hun,
wow it seems like this guy is a right jerk, he definetly isn'r right for her i think you need to have a proper girl tak with her remind her of all his bad quality's and keep bringing up the age difference i know this seems like she will get mad at you but trust me tough love is what works keep on reminding her if she talks about him all the horrible stuff hes said and for the meanwhile keep her mind of things with other things good luck babe
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i finger myself all the time and im really kinda young and i dont want to get prenate. can you get pregnat from sticking fingers in your vagina? it feels good and i dont wanna stop but i dont want to have a baby because of it. i do it until i cum if that makes a diffrance. and if that can get u pregant then what about just rubbing it on the out side??? is that risky to? (link)
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hi hun,
you definetly will not get pregnant you need a guy to ejaculate sperm into you to get pregnant you are just masturbating so definetly you won't get pregnant
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My BF and I are in love but we haven't had sex yet. The other night things got really heated with us. His parents are gone this week because his dad has surgery and he was there all alone so I came over of course. Things happened and I let him grind on my vagina until he came. I wouldn't be worried but We were bare like without pants by the time he finished. He only put the head of it in for like 5 seconds but that was all. I cleaned his cum off me like 10 mins after we were done. Am I pregnant? (link)
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Hi hun,
it would be very unlikely you are pregnant as you said the head only went in for 5 seconds and he didn't ejaculate into you, and the chance that some sperm may have gotten into your vagina is hardly any so i think its safe to say you are not pregnant
good luck x
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ok so i broke of with my ex bf last year. he broke up with me. it was very hard to go through and it took alot of getting used to. i had to start lving the single life style and it was hard to accept it. i still hang out with him everyday pretty much almost as much as i used to when we were together. i still have feelings for him and i think he might but he just doesnt want to admit it and he plays all this games. i have had one bf after him and now we have been seeing eachother everyother night. so i left his house to go meet up with him and i have been seeing him everyother night starting last week like being sneaky and i came back to my ex bfs house and i saw a hickey on my neck and said who gave u that and then he was laughing making fun of me and he was talking mean to me criticizing me. he said that he wasnt even mad that he thougnt it was funny but i dont think so. i think he was probaly really mad and just hiding it. i wouldnt tell him who gave it to me. i felt so bad becauese now my ex new and the bf i have been seeing doesnt even text me that much since 2 days ago. now i am thinking he only talks to me when he feels like it. i am mad cuz now i feel all that hard work i did getting used to being single was for nothing and i feel so alone and sad and confused. i feel embarrassed because now i wonder what my ex thinks of me now i dont know what to do help (link)
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hi hun, dont worry, ask yourself do u really love or even feel enough attraction to the guy you are dating now? because i think your feelings are much more stronger for your ex and that you haven't gotten over him. if you do have feelings for your ex then i think its important that you call things of with the boy your dating now as its not fair on him and you wont be truly happy i think he is upset that you spend a lot of time woth your ex and the hickey also would anger any boyfriend, if you do call things of and you have feelings for your ex i think you should be straight up with your feelings for him and i'm sure he feels the same way by the sounds of it as no one would really spend the same amount of time with their ex as they were when they were an item good luck
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I am starting to like this boy, he is very cute and very funny. All the girls think he is sooo attractive. I have this thing, though, that if someone did something nice for me or complimented me, that they like me and I know that I shouldn't do that but with this boy, I really feel that there is something there.
-The first time we talked, my friend was walking with him and I told her I loved her dress and she told me that she loved mine, she asked me where I got it and so on. Five seconds later, he pops pops into the conversation and said "I love band!" Then everyone started walking in to the already opened door and he went to open the closed door and said "I would have opened that door but it doesn't opened" he smiled, then I smiled.
-A few days later, I was walking by myself out of the class we have together and he was behind me and he said "I love band. I love band. I love band!" That's what he said to be funny the first time we talked. So, was he saying it again to make me know that he was back there?
-Then all of my friends know that I think he is cute and they think he may be diggin me. So they tell me everytime he looks over at me and to be honest.. it's quite frequent.
-We were arriving at practice and I showed my mom to him, we were in the car and he was walking in front of us so my mom approved and waved at him. He went up to my best friend who is a boy and said "___'s mom waved hi to me today.. why would she do that?" My friend just said that she waves hi to everyone that she likes. My only fear with this boy that I am starting to like is: I am not sure he will do anything about "us" because I think that he thinks my best friend and I like eachother because we are so close.. ):
I'm sorry that's all I have, we don't talk much, I'm really shy when it comes to this, so I kinda want him to initiate some things. So, what kind of flirting can I do without talking? How can I make him approach me more and do you think he likes me?!
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hi hun, i do think he likes you by reading what you have said and i think he ay be worried that you are attracted to your best friend and not him i think you should show your interested by giving him second glances you know if you see him across a corridor or wherever look at him then look again and make sure he catches you giving him a second look, another way to flirt is if you have a conversation with him keep smiling and touch his arm not too much and in a soft quick gentle way and that should do it! good luck
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last week i had a dream that i found out i was pregnant and i was scared at first but then as soon as everything settled i was so happy, this dream was very different from most of my dreams because i couldnt tell what my boyfriend was feeling of course he was happy because he had a smile but ususally in dreams i know everyones toughts... because i make them. well last night i had a sex dream with my boyfriend and it was amazing, a long time ago i heard something about when you have sex dreams where you can feel everything its a sign of pregnancy. so i looked it up and instead i found out that pregnancy dreams are possible signs, should i be worried? (link)
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hi hun, i don't think you should be too worried about this as i have heard lots of stories from friends who said they've been pregnant in their dreams and similar to you but weren't if you are really worried it won't harm to take a pregnancy test but i honestly dont think you are good luck
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Ok Husband constantly texting friends of mine setting up coffee dates, etc that i cancel. Through my phone!! he demands i get new "girlfriends all the time. when i dont go on these "dates" i get the silent treatment for a week or two. just yesterday he texted a new frien of mine ( a massage therapist) and set up a massage for me with her without telling me. I just had a massage elsewhere last week and said I felt great! he said "if you love me, you will get it done, it will make me (him) happy. I am now getting the silent treatment and I wish he would just punch me already! this has been going on for 6 years and shows no signs of stopping.he wont let me have unattractive "friends" either. i think it is totally sexually charged. HELP!!! (link)
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Hey hun,
i think your husband is being very unreasonable he has no right firstly to go throug your phone and secondly he has absolutely no right to set up little coffee dates for you. don't let him take control i think you should tell him that its unecessary. what i find clueless is why he feels the urge to do this and ecspecially the part of you not allowed to have unattractive friends which is really out of order, babe i think you need to have a proper talk about this don't let it turn into something that begins to really affect your marriage hun good luck
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I'm shaky and feeling sick. I've been a little perv and I watched porn. A year ago I used to watch a lot of it. I went on a site and had cyber sex a few times.
I feel like a worthless skank and I take back everything I did.
What I did was ridiculously wrong. I'm 14!!
The question is, are my parents going to find out about my mistakes? I erased the history on everything I've ever done on the computer, but is that enough? What else can I do to erase it? I want these awful teenage mistakes behind me so I can move on and never do anything like this again.
Please be honest, but don't be too harsh. I'm already being terribly hard on myself for getting into porn. I'm not a bad person, I'm just being a curious teenager. But I think I got too curious, and I watched a lot.
Trust me, I won't be doing anything like this ever again. I can see how wrong and gross it is.
I'm making myself sick. Please help settle my nerves so I can move on from my terrible mistake!!!!!!!!! I beg you!!!!! (link)
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hey hun,
ok you made a mistake, to be honest a lot of teens go through a phase like this, you can't do any more than erase the history really but what you need to do is to put the whole thing behind you and don't do it again. The fact that your feeling this guilty proves that it was a mistake and you have realised you done wrong dont worry babe just put it behind you
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14f I was going out with this boy for about 2 and a half months and our relationship was..rough.After the first week were dating he pretty much asked me if he could cheat on me.He didn't cheat on me and I forgave him.Then he broke up with me for a stupid reason because it was a misunderstanding on what I said and how he took it.He thought I meant it sarcastically, but I didn't.We got back together later that day.Last week he broke up with me again and then said it was a mistake and he need time to think.He seemed to change his mind daily, but he finally said we should be friends.Then he changed his mind and said he liked me again and was gonna ask me out.He didn't ask me out and then he said he needed more time to think about us.The next day he said he wanted to be friends.Then he told his friend he didn't like me, but he told me what if i might wanna go out with you again then he said ya its definitely a possibility that we could date again.Whenever I try to ask him about it he changes the topic.I miss him so much and when I think about it I miss him more, but at the same time he broke my heart.He told me he "wanted to be with me forever."Should I move on?Should I keep waiting for him?I don't know how to move on from this, because he said he wanted to be with me forever and now he doesn't even wanna be with me for now.please help sorry this is long. (link)
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Hi hun,
my honest opinion is not to get back with him, a guy that keeps on changing his mind, breaking up making up.... isn't worth it you deserve better i think you should move on and i know its hard the reason your missing him is because you were a good girlfriend and you really commit, with your situation i think friends may not work but you can try if not don't think about him and try to occupy your mind with other things good luck
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Sooo i'm 18 and i met this boy two months ago. We had an immediate connection and he became my boyfriend the next month after we met. Things were great and now he has these days where he seems uninterested. I like him a lot and I know he likes me too because he tells me so, i just don't understand why somedays he acts uninterested in me. I've been through this before and i hate it, I don't know what to do about this. (link)
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Hi babe,
trust me when i say this, most guys are like that, they act interested and then the next day they don't this doesn't mean he has actually lost interest in you its because of their constant mood changes. If it really bothers you be straight forward and ask him and he will reassure you he hasn't good luck hun!
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What is masterbation? And how do i do it? (link)
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Hey,
masturbation is pleasuring yourself sexually many people have many different ways of doing this
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my boyfriend wants to get in a bed with me what do i say/
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Hiya hun,
make sure you are ready well before that are you legal? if you are only commit to sex if you really love him and your body is ready and if you are emotionally ready don't feel pressured into having sex, if you aren't ready just tell im your not if he resents you for it he is a jerk and then he has just proved he needs to be dumped!
good luck babe!
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I started talking to this boy and I really like him and I was thinking about having sex with him for the first time I want to but I don't know what I should do I am a female and I am 16 years old (link)
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Hiya, firstly make sure you are totally ready you are only 16 so don't rush these life experiences only have sex when you are really ready. You only just met this boy and talked to him so I would advise you to wait a couple of years at least to date him and really build a connection. If you do choose to have sex with him remember to be safe.
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