thelaura answered Sunday September 12 2010, 11:33 am: Well do you want to or not? Are you ready? If you have ANY doubts about it, simply don't do it until you are 100% certain.
Never be afraid to tell your other half how you feel.
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gr8fruit answered Sunday September 12 2010, 12:46 am: Hey there,
You say exactly how you feel. I don't know how you feel right now about sex, but the best thing to do is to be honest with him. If you want to have sex, but not right now... tell him you really love him and everything is great, but you just aren't ready for that step in your relationship at this point. If he really loves you, he will respect you and wait until you are ready. Telling him how you feel about sex will help him understand your thoughts and desires. It will also help both of you to connect on a more personal level. When you are ready for it, let him know and remember to take the proper precautions :)
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