Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 2:01 pm
ok so i broke of with my ex bf last year. he broke up with me. it was very hard to go through and it took alot of getting used to. i had to start lving the single life style and it was hard to accept it. i still hang out with him everyday pretty much almost as much as i used to when we were together. i still have feelings for him and i think he might but he just doesnt want to admit it and he plays all this games. i have had one bf after him and now we have been seeing eachother everyother night. so i left his house to go meet up with him and i have been seeing him everyother night starting last week like being sneaky and i came back to my ex bfs house and i saw a hickey on my neck and said who gave u that and then he was laughing making fun of me and he was talking mean to me criticizing me. he said that he wasnt even mad that he thougnt it was funny but i dont think so. i think he was probaly really mad and just hiding it. i wouldnt tell him who gave it to me. i felt so bad becauese now my ex new and the bf i have been seeing doesnt even text me that much since 2 days ago. now i am thinking he only talks to me when he feels like it. i am mad cuz now i feel all that hard work i did getting used to being single was for nothing and i feel so alone and sad and confused. i feel embarrassed because now i wonder what my ex thinks of me now i dont know what to do help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? karen_advice answered Tuesday September 14 2010, 3:23 pm: hi hun, dont worry, ask yourself do u really love or even feel enough attraction to the guy you are dating now? because i think your feelings are much more stronger for your ex and that you haven't gotten over him. if you do have feelings for your ex then i think its important that you call things of with the boy your dating now as its not fair on him and you wont be truly happy i think he is upset that you spend a lot of time woth your ex and the hickey also would anger any boyfriend, if you do call things of and you have feelings for your ex i think you should be straight up with your feelings for him and i'm sure he feels the same way by the sounds of it as no one would really spend the same amount of time with their ex as they were when they were an item good luck [ karen_advice's advice column | Ask karen_advice A Question ]
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