I am starting to like this boy, he is very cute and very funny. All the girls think he is sooo attractive. I have this thing, though, that if someone did something nice for me or complimented me, that they like me and I know that I shouldn't do that but with this boy, I really feel that there is something there.
-The first time we talked, my friend was walking with him and I told her I loved her dress and she told me that she loved mine, she asked me where I got it and so on. Five seconds later, he pops pops into the conversation and said "I love band!" Then everyone started walking in to the already opened door and he went to open the closed door and said "I would have opened that door but it doesn't opened" he smiled, then I smiled.
-A few days later, I was walking by myself out of the class we have together and he was behind me and he said "I love band. I love band. I love band!" That's what he said to be funny the first time we talked. So, was he saying it again to make me know that he was back there?
-Then all of my friends know that I think he is cute and they think he may be diggin me. So they tell me everytime he looks over at me and to be honest.. it's quite frequent.
-We were arriving at practice and I showed my mom to him, we were in the car and he was walking in front of us so my mom approved and waved at him. He went up to my best friend who is a boy and said "___'s mom waved hi to me today.. why would she do that?" My friend just said that she waves hi to everyone that she likes. My only fear with this boy that I am starting to like is: I am not sure he will do anything about "us" because I think that he thinks my best friend and I like eachother because we are so close.. ):
I'm sorry that's all I have, we don't talk much, I'm really shy when it comes to this, so I kinda want him to initiate some things. So, what kind of flirting can I do without talking? How can I make him approach me more and do you think he likes me?!
Thanks!
Additional info, added Tuesday September 7 2010, 6:55 pm: PS: I am 16, he is 17.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? karen_advice answered Tuesday September 14 2010, 3:16 pm: hi hun, i do think he likes you by reading what you have said and i think he ay be worried that you are attracted to your best friend and not him i think you should show your interested by giving him second glances you know if you see him across a corridor or wherever look at him then look again and make sure he catches you giving him a second look, another way to flirt is if you have a conversation with him keep smiling and touch his arm not too much and in a soft quick gentle way and that should do it! good luck [ karen_advice's advice column | Ask karen_advice A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Wednesday September 8 2010, 12:05 am: Hey there,
I think he may like you, but the only way to know for sure is to flirt with him ;) Some things you can do to flirt with him without talking, is to smile at him, wink at him, walk close to him (don't knock him over,haha), sit near to him, touch his arm/leg/shoulder/hand, slip him a cute note into his pocket, look into his eyes when he talks to you, and if he is sitting don't be afraid to come up behind and lean on his shoulders :) If he asks what you are doing, just say you are trying to get a better view of his cute face ;)
If you talk to him a little bit, then flirt with him... believe me, he will want to initiate something on you eventually. If you be yourself, he is bound to like you. A guy likes someone who is genuine, outgoing (which you can be if you give it a shot), and not afraid to be themselves. Never be afraid of being yourself, you are an amazing person <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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